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Urgent need of a hand hold / unMN hug

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MumofSpud · 04/10/2022 15:06

I know there may be more specific sites to put this thread but I can't bring myself to go there
DH is in hospital with Leukaemia- and for the past few weeks has had a chest infection
Now he has 2 chest infections
I have been visiting x2 a day but not since Thursday as I got Covid (for the first time)
The Macmillan nurse has just rung asking me to do a test as the Dr wants to have an conversation' and it might be easier if I am there
Of course I am still testing positive
I tried to get details out of her but all she would say is that it is a serious conversation
Dr is due to ring me soon
I feel sick with nerves and so guilty that I am not there
He is 49
I really need a hand hold

OP posts:
Silverpossum · 06/10/2022 19:53

There are no words adequate but I'm sorry and thinking of you and your family at such a sad time.

JhsLs · 06/10/2022 19:55

So, so sorry for you loss. I’m so glad that you were able to be with him in his final moments. Big hugs

Summerholidays2022 · 06/10/2022 19:55

so sorry for your loss ❤️

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Wam90 · 06/10/2022 19:57

I am so sorry 💐

BeenHereForYonkyDoodles · 06/10/2022 20:06

I am so very sorry too OP 💐

Craftybodger · 06/10/2022 20:10

How shocking. I am so, so sorry.

creativelady22 · 06/10/2022 20:26

I am so so very sorry to read this after seeing your other post not so long ago. Sending all the love and thoughts to you all xxx

EverydayIsPJday · 06/10/2022 20:30

So sorry OP 😞

coconotgrove · 06/10/2022 20:39

So sorry for your loss OP. Godspeed ❤

Bellablahhole · 06/10/2022 20:48

So very sorry for your loss ❤

ImAvingOops · 06/10/2022 20:54

I'm so sorry x

Americano75 · 06/10/2022 20:55

Oh love, I'm so very sorry for your loss. How heartbreaking. All my love to you and yours.

Lost2010 · 06/10/2022 20:59

Really sorry for your loss @MumofSpud sending you love & prayers.. 💐

Prawnandcrocktail · 06/10/2022 21:08

So, so sorry. Sending you so much love. I can only imagine how you feel.

Womble19 · 06/10/2022 21:09

So very sorry to hear your awful loss. You sound like a lovely family and a very strong woman. Thinking of you and sending you love x

Scrambledchickens · 06/10/2022 21:09

I am so so sorry for your loss, for your lovely DH I am happy it was peaceful xxx

ShinyPikachu · 06/10/2022 21:15

I'm so sorry OP. SadFlowers

VillaMia · 06/10/2022 21:18

MumofSpud, I am so, so sorry your lovely DH has gone. Sending you and Spud so much love xxxx

Sunshinebug · 06/10/2022 21:19

So so sorry for your loss, and how terribly fast this all happened. One of the most heartbreaking posts I’ve followed.

VillaMia · 06/10/2022 21:20

Spud, I am so, so sorry your lovely DH has gone. Sending you so much love

BovrilonToast · 06/10/2022 21:24

So sorry for your loss, thinking of you and your family. Xxx

Jasminesmellingcandles · 06/10/2022 21:30

Spud I am so sorry for your loss. May your wonderful DH rest in peace. Sending love to you and your family xx

Dancingqueenwannabe · 06/10/2022 21:50

I'm so so sorry. Good that he went peacefully with you there and on his own terms, although it's absolutely devastating for you. I hope you are surrounded by family, friends and lots of hugs xxx

Lookingforthecoffeerevels · 06/10/2022 22:04

Oh lovely, I am so so sorry 💕

Noname3 · 06/10/2022 22:07

I’m so sorry for your loss