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Accused of posting on someone's LinkedIn...

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Bearyhumcrack · 14/05/2021 06:58

I work in a public sector organisation and have been called in by my line manager to say that I have posted something offensive on someone's LinkedIn page and of causing offensive comments on twitter. Confused

I have a LinkedIn account but don't use it much, I do remember following and unfollowing this person a few months ago but no recollection of posting on their page. Is there a way I can check whether I commented without looking at their profile? I know they can see if I have looked at them and I don't want them to make any more allegations about me.

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Allmyarseandpeggymartin · 28/11/2022 22:46

@Bearyhumcrack I hear these sort of grievance hearings at work and I would uphold your grievance on both counts and throw the book at the slimey bastard. Keep your pecker up lass

1dontunderstand · 29/11/2022 14:02

When all this is over and he is proven to have bullied you, would you consider resigning and making a claim for constructive dismissal?

Bearyhumcrack · 29/11/2022 20:52

1dontunderstand · 29/11/2022 14:02

When all this is over and he is proven to have bullied you, would you consider resigning and making a claim for constructive dismissal?

Really good point. I would seriously consider it but would need to be certain because of pension implications.

I am absolutely here for going after the whole culture that let this happen and to be a stark warning to these sexist bullies.

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MrsSchadenfreude · 01/12/2022 16:17

I can’t believe this is still going on!

Justkeepleft · 23/12/2022 20:29

I just wanted to wish you a nice relaxing festive season. I hope next year brings lots of great times for you.

Bearyhumcrack · 23/12/2022 21:57

Thank you so much @Justkeepleft and everyone for your continued support. I can't tell you how much strength you've given me.

Hope for some positive updates in the new year!

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RandomMess · 23/12/2022 22:02
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bluetongue · 24/12/2022 01:00

I’ve just read the entire thread and am speechless.

Have been on the wrong end of a public sector witch hunt myself a number of years ago (not as bad as yours) so know how utterly soul destroying it can be.

Are you hoping to clear your name and quash the first written warning?

Best of luck going forward.

Mummyoflittledragon · 24/12/2022 02:42

Gosh this has just popped up. You poor thing. I agree you do sound stronger.

Nolite te Bastardes Caborundorum

comedycentral · 29/12/2022 20:53

I can't believe this is still going on for you OP. It's horrendous. You are in my thoughts.

larkstar · 29/12/2022 23:43

I doubt it.

Accused of posting on someone's LinkedIn...
Bearyhumcrack · 30/12/2022 08:35

larkstar · 29/12/2022 23:43

I doubt it.

Well, thanks for that uplifting post!!

Happy New Year all. Hope to finish this thread with some good news soon!

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comfortablylesslumpy · 30/12/2022 09:47

Here's to 2023 and vindication for you @Bearyhumcrack .

I can't believe it has dragged on this long. Props to you for sticking it out. You're amazing.

IdisagreeMrHochhauser · 30/12/2022 13:01

Fingers crossed! Keep an eye on the post count and make sure we get a Part 2 before we run out of posts.

ImBlueDab · 13/01/2023 07:23

Happy new year @Bearyhumcrack hope this year sees this sorted

Bearyhumcrack · 21/01/2023 20:01

Hello all!

Small update in that I have had disclosure of the interview records of my boss and other people involved in the case. Because I am "over it", and because it's the best part of 2 years since it all started, I am in a position to consider them absolutely ridiculous and laugh at them.

My boss's independent witness/note taker said "There is something missing from the recordings, he definitely asked her XYZ. When I went to look in my notebook, that information is missing from there as well"

AREYOUFUCKINGKIDDINGME

Boss is evasive, belligerent, aggressive and defensive and the other bloke continuously tries to undermine my credibility (and spends a long time talking about my rep).

I have drafted my response which talks about how defensive they all are when they could have just accepted "mistakes were made". It points out a few of the more outlandish claims such as the above and "The delay was because we couldn't find X witness". Well I asked for them to be interviewed in September 21 and you didn't even try to contact them til March 22 so I'm not having that!!

Response in by Tue and then a few weeks to wait for result. TBH, if I can piss the boss off with my letter, I will consider job done.

As ever, thank you for long running support!

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XanaduKira · 21/01/2023 20:05

Oh Op, well done for hanging in there - you've done so well and it's unbelievable that it's gone on for so long. I really hope you get the outcome (& compensation!) you deserve.

RandomMess · 21/01/2023 20:11

OMG they get ever worse!

comfortablylesslumpy · 21/01/2023 20:45

Blinking heck, thankfully you can look back and laugh. They really are digging an ever-deeper hole!!!

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 21/01/2023 22:01

Omfg. Every time you update us I think right this will be the end of it, but no. Sending solidarity and gin as always.

trieditbuyedit · 22/01/2023 09:55

Wait. They've literally tampered with the note takers notebook?! OMFG. This is wild!

Magenta82 · 22/01/2023 10:21

trieditbuyedit · 22/01/2023 09:55

Wait. They've literally tampered with the note takers notebook?! OMFG. This is wild!

I read this as the note taker was remembering things that didn't happen.

NextPrimeMinister · 22/01/2023 11:06

How is a notebook tampered with?

Pages torn or cut out?
How did someone get hold of it to do it?

NoWordForFluffy · 22/01/2023 12:21

Magenta82 · 22/01/2023 10:21

I read this as the note taker was remembering things that didn't happen.

Me too.

Poppyblush · 22/01/2023 12:31

Omg!!! What a bunch of morons! Keep going!

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