Accused of posting on someone's LinkedIn...

[Bearyhumcrack]

I work in a public sector organisation and have been called in by my line manager to say that I have posted something offensive on someone's LinkedIn page and of causing offensive comments on twitter.

I have a LinkedIn account but don't use it much, I do remember following and unfollowing this person a few months ago but no recollection of posting on their page. Is there a way I can check whether I commented without looking at their profile? I know they can see if I have looked at them and I don't want them to make any more allegations about me.

I asked because it's been going on so long I couldn't remember how long it was beyond at least a year!!

She posted in answer to the post before hers

@IsAinmDummm thank you. I've moved to a new role now, away from that man and it's going really well. I'm hoping that my complaints will be taken seriously.

Good luck for next week op

Thank you. Yes. It was literally replying to the comment above mine which said on the app she couldn't see the date the thread started. I was being helpful.

I know not everyone RTFT but before pulling someone up @WeepingSomnambulist you might want to have a look at the possible context to avoid punishing a good deed.

I'm glad to read a positive update. It is so wrong that you have been put through so much.

Glad you are in a better situation now OP.

Fingers crossed that it gets properly addressed and you can draw a line under it all.

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This is still rumbling on? I seriously thought someone had resurrected the thread im so cross on your behalf thst this has taken so much time and effort and is still not resolved

That's great news, I'm happy for you!
Doesn't mean they can sweep it all under the rug though! Fuckers, making your life hard for so long 🤬
Best of Luck with the meeting next week.

I don't think I've ever felt more pleased for a stranger on the internet! I'm still hoping he gets his arse kicked.

Crikey. I lost this thread and it just popped back up for me. Your company have treated you abominably. I hope you rinse them dry!

Me too . Keep going op!

I hope.your meeting went well and you are starting the weekend on a positive note

Glad to hear that OP, re the new role.
Don't give up though, re the complaint.

Rooting for you OP.
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So I have two complaints in, one about how he has bullied me, and one about the handling of this disciplinary.

Have had 2 interviews about the bullying so far, final one next week and I feel as though I have really been able to get my point across.

The one about the disciplinary feels way more victim blamey! I am answering written questions followed up with an interview but they seem more interested in why I recorded the meeting than the fact he lied about it. I just need to really nail this written response to make sure I get everything across.

Thank you so much for your support after so long! New job is great, loads more women in leadership positions so it feels a lot more egalitarian rather than patriarchal.

Have you told them it's a good job you did since he lied and if you didn't have proof they would have sided with him wrongly?

It's pretty obvious, I would have thought, that you felt you needed to record the meeting because his bullying behaviour had shown you he has the moral fibre of an alley cat and you can't trust him as far as you can spit.

You may need to rephrase that slightly...

Well quite. Trying to get that across to another man of boss's generation without triggering any fragility is probably going to be key!

There are other lies such as falsifying what he claims are contemporaneous notes which I describe as gross misconduct...

I have RANTED in answer to the questions so far but now need to refine it into something articulate and damning.

Gosh sounds like a lot of juggling and word gymnastics. Good luck.
I really hope a satisfactory resolution is insight.
Still cheering you on from afar

How are you doing @Bearyhumcrack ?

Been thinking of you and hoping you found a way to say 'I thought he would probably lie, and he did.' in a diplomatic way!

Interviews are done, I'm waiting to agree the record. A friend has contacted me to say she's been asked to give a statement as well, I have named several people so hopefully they will all be spoken to. It wasn't much fun being interviewed but the chap did a really good job, I hadn't realised how much it all affected me until I went back into it.

we will see...

Well done Op - hopefully it's near the end now and you'll get the resolution you deserve. The whole thing really has been abhorrent and I'm not surprised it's taken a toll on you. Be kind to yourself & you should be proud as you've done amazingly well to hold it altogether for so long when being treated so awfully!

You are doing brilliantly. Fingers crossed that you get closure soon.