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Shock. Found separated husband dead.

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sleepraptor · 18/04/2021 22:38

Separated from husband last year but still very good friends. He was meant to be coming for tea as kids and I had been away for a few days but didn't turn up. Knew something wasn't right. Found him dead at home. I think it must be sepsis or something similar. And he was at least a day dead I think. All the immediate police and ambulance stuff done and now home, kids in bed asleep.

I've tried to go to bed but my legs and hands feel like they're burning. Is that normal? I have clearly been in shock and was shaking and freezing for ages earlier but warmed up now. Just want to go to sleep now but worried in case not normal for this reaction.

OP posts:
Queenie6655 · 21/04/2021 15:34

Poor you

I am so very sorry

Be gentle with
Yourself

Sending you very best wishes xxxx

Wildswimming3 · 21/04/2021 16:03

So sorry op i lost my mum suddenly. I found out recently that there is a number you can ring who will inform all the relevant people ie banks etc for you. A funeral director should have this information, I wish id known about it.

Look after yourself Flowers

Twospaniels · 21/04/2021 16:45

💐
Sorry for your loss.

HellonHeels · 21/04/2021 16:54

Im so sorry that this has happened. My separated husband died suddenly last year and it has been so hard. I feel for you in your grief on this horrible journey Flowers

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