At what age did you lose your virginity?

[toucanem]

Inspired by another thread. I think I was quite late losing mine, I was 25. What about you?

which time?...

Horrified by how young many people on here were. I was 18 with a long term boyfriend and it was perfect. We didn’t last but a positive first sexual encounter has shaped my following relationships in a very good way. I shudder to think about the impacts a bad first time would have

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28. I grew up in a home of DV and had terrible anxiety when it came to men. I would nearly vomit with fear if one started to move from being just a friend to more. Finally found one where everything seemed to click into place and lost it to him. Whatever we had crashed and burned within 2 days. Luckily the next one was much better and we've now been married 5 months so no regrets!

18 ...........first serious relationship, we were married for 16 years!

17, first time for the guy I was with too, we were girlfriend and boyfriend. It was okay, don’t regret it. Got together with my first love a few months later and tbh I was pleased I’d got it out of the way as sex with him was amazing from the start and I doubt that would have been the case if I’d been a virgin!

18. He was 19 and gorgeous.

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14 by rape.
16 by choice

21 .
A lot of the girls at school lost it from aged 12, 13. A school friend had a nickname 'Mary' , I asked her why and she said it because she was a virgin . She was 15 at the time.

@Chipsahoy so sad to hear this.

14. Long, strange story.

33 on honeymoon.

15. I think it was different in the 80s & 90s. Far more relaxed. I had fun and absolutely no regrets - as it should be!

16, stayed together- been 15 years this year.

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Some sad posts here of exploitation - I hope that girls nowadays would speak up about this.

17 (and a half).

@Lessstressedhemum I feel so sad that you went through that at age , truly heartbreakingly awful.

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I was 18 and was the last out of my friendship group, most of my friends lost theirs at 13 or 14 and this was late 80s

Was ready from 15 but lost it at 16

15. And I didn't so much lose it as take it for a walk in the woods and abandon it tied to a fence.