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At what age did you lose your virginity?

445 replies

toucanem · 04/02/2021 10:30

Inspired by another thread. I think I was quite late losing mine, I was 25. What about you?

OP posts:
YerAWizardHarry · 04/02/2021 12:14

17, last of my friends.

SmallPrawnEnergy · 04/02/2021 12:14

@LadyWhistledownthe1st

Or you could just save your time and not comment?
But how else would they sneer at the op? Wink
PeanutButtaCups · 04/02/2021 12:14

15

Nothappyland · 04/02/2021 12:15

15, with my first proper boyfriend, had been together 15 months ish at the time.

My niece is now 15 and I think it’s crazy young, but I felt mature enough at the time and don’t regret it.

SRK16 · 04/02/2021 12:17

Just turned 16, would have earlier if had the opportunity.

JufusMum · 04/02/2021 12:17

16 and a half, my first “proper” boyfriend. He was ten years older than me and I was madly in love with him. We are still in touch periodically as mates. Absolutely no regrets it was lovely.

Barton10 · 04/02/2021 12:20

16

Covert19 · 04/02/2021 12:21

23 on my wedding night. Definitely the right time (and person) for me.

norainnorainbows · 04/02/2021 12:21

25

LiJo2015 · 04/02/2021 12:21

7 - not by choice.

CleverCatty · 04/02/2021 12:24

14 and three quarters. Literally 3 months away from 15th birthday.

Aria2015 - I had two friends who'd lost theirs earlier one at 13 and they both encouraged me to lose mine. I had no idea about it and worried that I was pregnant even though the teenaged boy used a condom at the time.

Kenworthington · 04/02/2021 12:24

13

MrsSimonBasset · 04/02/2021 12:25

@Lessstressedhemum

About 6, but I don't count that. Consensually, 15.
Your post shook me💐 and hope you’re ok?
Mammyofasuperbaby · 04/02/2021 12:25

Nearly did at 12 but changed my mine and my boyfriend understood so there was no pressure.
20 to actually sleep with someone and I honestly didn't understand the hype around sex until I met my now husband 2 years later.
I dont regret my choices but wish my husband had been my first.

MrsSimonBasset · 04/02/2021 12:28

17

ConorMasonsWife · 04/02/2021 12:29

I'm really sorry to all those people who didn't have a choice, to all who felt coerced or peer pressure Thanks
I was 14 when I tried, it was awful, I tried again at 16 but honestly until I was in a long term relationship everything was rubbish for me, I always felt I 'should' fake an orgasm and I shouldn't ever give them any sense of direction, it frequently hurt because I wasn't fully wanting to.

MrsSimonBasset · 04/02/2021 12:30

With my first proper boyfriend. Wasn’t interested before that. Sex equalled babies and I wasn’t interested in having babies when I was a teenager. Far more interested in going to university and doing pursuing my career

CrazyCatLazy · 04/02/2021 12:31

@rainbowdashsneeze

12 but I'd now describe it more as rape. However it took me a long time to rid myself of the shame of this happening to me.
Ditto ❤️
theDudesmummy · 04/02/2021 12:31

17

AlmightyBob · 04/02/2021 12:31

I was 16, and that was around average for my group of friends. But there had been 'third base' sexual activity from around a year before that.

MyGorramShip · 04/02/2021 12:32

17

Lweji · 04/02/2021 12:32

PIV 28

MrsSimonBasset · 04/02/2021 12:32

Some of the replies on here are just shocking. Just makes you realise how many underage children were abused or coerced 😔

Singlenotsingle · 04/02/2021 12:33

19

HazelBite · 04/02/2021 12:33

16

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