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At what age did you lose your virginity?

445 replies

toucanem · 04/02/2021 10:30

Inspired by another thread. I think I was quite late losing mine, I was 25. What about you?

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SpicyTinkle · 04/02/2021 12:02

@Lessstressedhemum You poor thing. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Thanks

ShowMeTheWayToAmarillo · 04/02/2021 12:02

21

Everhopeful · 04/02/2021 12:02

MrsJBaptiste - couldn't have put it better, and haven't

EmbarrassingAdmissions · 04/02/2021 12:02

30ies (wedding).

Deeply regret that I wasn't sexually active at a younger age.

LadyWhistledownthe1st · 04/02/2021 12:02

Or you could just save your time and not comment?

adeleh · 04/02/2021 12:03

28

kirktonhouse · 04/02/2021 12:03
  1. First proper boyfriend, I think he was 19.
SpikeTheDragon · 04/02/2021 12:03

18

Freshair85 · 04/02/2021 12:03

@Lessstressedhemum

About 6, but I don't count that. Consensually, 15.
So sorry 💐
Kinneddar · 04/02/2021 12:04

28 - but I've made up for lost time

SpicyTinkle · 04/02/2021 12:05

I was 14. I didn't even realise what had happened until I was on my way back home on the bus. I was in shock. It didn't occur to me that it was sexual assault until the 'Me Too' campaign.

VickyEadieofThigh · 04/02/2021 12:06

18

SusannaSpider · 04/02/2021 12:07

21 and we got married a year later.
I worry that most of you were so young, my DD is 15 and I worry about her finding a decent boy who will treat her well.

AfterSchoolWorry · 04/02/2021 12:08

18

nellly · 04/02/2021 12:08

16, felt about normal, no regrets, was with a nice boy same age I was really good friends with for ages

LST · 04/02/2021 12:08
  1. Don't regret it.
oakleaffy · 04/02/2021 12:08

20

FooFighter99 · 04/02/2021 12:09

15, was with him for 2.5 years - both each other's firsts Blush was convinced we'd be together forever..... shame he turned out to be a cheating twat

Wouldn't do it differently though, we had fantastic sex once we got better at it Grin

MirandaWest · 04/02/2021 12:11

19

BlueYellowWhite · 04/02/2021 12:11

I didn't regret losing it at 14. I probably regret that it was someone I'd known a week and after we didn't see each other again but don't regret the sex.

I met my first proper boyfriend 2 years later and waited longer with him and still together now after 11 years!

UseOfWeapons · 04/02/2021 12:11

16...just.

ExhaustedGrinch · 04/02/2021 12:11

13 - I was with him for a year and 9 months. He was 21 yrs old and had a flat, I felt "grown up" having a boyfriend much older than me at the time. Now I feel disgusted and ashamed by it.

JustTurtlesAllTheWayDown · 04/02/2021 12:13

@billycat321

23. He turned over, snored loudly. I thought 'Oh. Was that it?', put my knickers back on and walked out wondering what all the fuss was about
This made me laugh. Very similar to mine. I remember thinking quite clearly 'Won't bother doing that again'. I was 17 and fortunately it did get better!
MysteriousMonkey · 04/02/2021 12:13

16

WeirdCatLady · 04/02/2021 12:13

19, to DH.

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