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Janegrey333 · 11/10/2020 12:56

Seems to have shut up shop as from this morning.

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Quaagars · 11/10/2020 15:47

@EchoCardioGran

That's vile Sad

Saucery · 11/10/2020 15:50

There is, DramaAlpaca. If you click on your profile thingy it has the option to delete your account. Unless you have an app version of it or something? They can be glitchy.

JaneR0chester · 11/10/2020 15:51

I had a look early on, but left after the BLM thread which I found incredibly racist - many posters denied that they had posted racist opinions. Maybe it was the smaller pool of posters, maybe the site just attracted them?!, I don't know, but for me, on that thread, they couldn't see their inherent racism and I found it disgusting.

Mumsnet is not perfect, but perhaps with its bigger audience there is a wider range of opinions.

Also Mumschat just seemed intent on explicitly copying and recreating this site - kinda redundant.

Quaagars · 11/10/2020 15:52

@DramaAlpaca

Good riddance. I found it an unpleasant, spiteful, racist place.

I hope they do destroy users' personal information. There's nowhere on the site that allows you to deregister, which I attempted to do when I realised it wasn't a site I wanted to be associated with. The email I sent to the administrators to deregister me and destroy my details was ignored.

That's another reason I'd never knowingly go to places just for a "nosey". You don't know what the site is, who runs it. Like the offshoot Twitter one all the nasty shite ran off to when they started cracking down on users and banning. Best off left to fester there instead of out on more well known boards sucking more innocent/curious/etc people in.
Hokeywokey · 11/10/2020 15:53

I've heard a few people complain the admin on there has ignored all emails to destroy any personal data held.

Isn't that against the law? No idea how this stuff works really.

Port1aCastis · 11/10/2020 15:53

Oh lord really did someone really post a minstrel picture?? Jesus that is low and vile. Yuk!

Lockheart · 11/10/2020 15:55

It was always a cheap rip off destined to fail.

It mainly attracted posters who had been banned from MN - if you think MN is bad, just imagine a forum comprised primarily of those that MN won't tolerate.

The racism was appalling, the conspiracy theories absolutely batshit, and the spamming of boards on here like Infertility to try and drum up traffic were utterly unconscionable.

DramaAlpaca · 11/10/2020 15:57

Oh really, Saucery? Thanks, I obviously didn't look hard enough. I don't suppose I need to do it now though Grin

Janegrey333 · 11/10/2020 16:00

“Personally, I think certain members brought this on themselves, a great shame for the decent posters over there, but an un-moderated site can turn pretty nasty and certain posters over there did behave like they were in charge of everything, from what I could see and would see off anyone with a different viewpoint, despite saying continually how nice they all were. Yes. If you didn't disagree.”

Interestingly, the much banned poster was very much involved.

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littleyellowfish · 11/10/2020 16:01

@PoorClare

It won't let me post Mumsnet ex iles
Do you mean that other place?
EchoCardioGran · 11/10/2020 16:02

From that site 14th September. for their supporters here "who didn't see anything racist"

MonkeyToesOfDoom Well-known member Sep 14, 2020 #8,567
I wanna see the screen shot..
Someone screen shot it and post it...

And if GhanaGirl is watching... Hello..
Enjoy your dead board when it's made... Just you and your ALTs having a good old rant at the white folks.. 👍

Arseholes.

Janegrey333 · 11/10/2020 16:04

@Lockheart

It was always a cheap rip off destined to fail.

It mainly attracted posters who had been banned from MN - if you think MN is bad, just imagine a forum comprised primarily of those that MN won't tolerate.

The racism was appalling, the conspiracy theories absolutely batshit, and the spamming of boards on here like Infertility to try and drum up traffic were utterly unconscionable.

Not sure the users were all posters previously banned here although some were. They seemed cocky about it in many of their posts.

Some admitted they had been too scared to post here on Mumsnet. Can’t imagine why.

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lifestooshort123 · 11/10/2020 16:05

The black and white minstrel picture was posted by one person and roundly condemned as racist by all other posters - totally out of order. For those on here who are interested, the site is up and running again and, if you scroll through with an open mind, you will find some very supportive and caring threads - "I am able to roll over and show my soft underbelly without fear of a kicking".

Quaagars · 11/10/2020 16:06

EchoCardioGran

[angry Angry

AnneKipanki · 11/10/2020 16:06

@Lockheart used “mainly” .
I joined with 3 friends. None of us were PBP .

Jumpingkangeroo · 11/10/2020 16:07

I think most if not all sites set up by disgruntled former members carry on with their noses pressed up on the window looking in. It's sad

It’s sad and toxic- I can’t imagine being so bored and obsessed as to be on a spin off sub which monitors others on mumsnet. Lonely and often mischievous people.

AlexCabot · 11/10/2020 16:07

All other posters condemned the minstrel picture? Really? ALL of them? Not what I saw.

Quaagars · 11/10/2020 16:07

@lifestooshort123

So you're admitting things like that do get posted on.
What about all those who are saying when they tried to report racism, they were ignored or banned?
Why would anyone want to go over there?

Janegrey333 · 11/10/2020 16:08

@Port1aCastis

Oh lord really did someone really post a minstrel picture?? Jesus that is low and vile. Yuk!
Isn’t it unbelievable that anyone in the 2020 would think that was acceptable? The poster who did that only did it because he thought he could. He may have thought he was with like minded people. It was a racist thing to do and he should have been ignored by all the posters from then on. He wasn’t.
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Saucery · 11/10/2020 16:08

It was not ‘roundly condemned by all posters’.
There was a considerable Tumbleweed Moment, some virtual throat clearing and shuffling and one or two “hey, not cool” comments.

But as you say, it’s up and running for people to check for themselves. I would warn there is a particularly horrible video of animal cruelty on that thread too, however.

SimonJT · 11/10/2020 16:09

@EchoCardioGran

From that site 14th September. for their supporters here "who didn't see anything racist"

MonkeyToesOfDoom Well-known member Sep 14, 2020 #8,567
I wanna see the screen shot..
Someone screen shot it and post it...

And if GhanaGirl is watching... Hello..
Enjoy your dead board when it's made... Just you and your ALTs having a good old rant at the white folks.. 👍

Arseholes.

It was also Ghanagirl they trolled on here by creating a Ghanagirl123 account.
Quaagars · 11/10/2020 16:09

and roundly condemned as racist by all other posters

ALL other posters?
Really?
Really really?
Seems highly unlikely.

Hokeywokey · 11/10/2020 16:10

@lifestooshort123

The black and white minstrel picture was posted by one person and roundly condemned as racist by all other posters - totally out of order. For those on here who are interested, the site is up and running again and, if you scroll through with an open mind, you will find some very supportive and caring threads - "I am able to roll over and show my soft underbelly without fear of a kicking".
It's updated for a while, can you post on it?
AnneKipanki · 11/10/2020 16:11

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Roussette · 11/10/2020 16:13

lifestooshort123

I agree with you. I don't want to join but there are obviously some good threads over there that people enjoy.
If the main protagonists could just drop all this continual MN stuff and stop copy and pasting threads from here to ridicule, and nasty posts about MNers, it might well encourage others to join and make it successful.

Or they need to face the fact, the money in the meter is going to run out again, and they might lose it.

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