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Janegrey333 · 11/10/2020 12:56

Seems to have shut up shop as from this morning.

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Quaagars · 11/10/2020 16:14

It was also Ghanagirl they trolled on here by creating a Ghanagirl123 account

Now THAT I can believe as even though I didn't go over to that site and never would, I saw on the name for the new board poll that Patrick (the OP that asked for a new black board) a ghanagirl comment which was disgusting and had me confused as didn't think it was her.
Fucking awful people who are doing that.
Just.... what is wrong with them?

Samcro · 11/10/2020 16:14

@Roussette

I am sure there were some good people who posted regularly there, moderate posters and I feel sorry for them especially if they were getting support and it's been cut off.

However.....
having been ridiculed, abused, lied about, slated, for months and months, often daily, I am not going to pretend that I'm not glad it's closed down. Best news for me. I now feel free of their disgusting trolling of me, copying and pasting my MN posts, following me round here daring each other to post stuff to annoy me on various threads I'm on. (all because I don't think M&H are spawn of the devil)

Their obsession with MN and its posters I think has contributed to this closure. You cannot have a site that exists just 'because it's not MN'.
They could not let it go, and their posting about MN was increasing.
That would put new members off I feel.

Personally, I think certain members brought this on themselves, a great shame for the decent posters over there, but an un-moderated site can turn pretty nasty and certain posters over there did behave like they were in charge of everything, from what I could see and would see off anyone with a different viewpoint, despite saying continually how nice they all were. Yes. If you didn't disagree.

Oh and there was a lot of racism too.

What she said. I hope its true that its gone, means I will be able to post on mn. No more screen shots of my post being put on there and being ripped apart.
Janegrey333 · 11/10/2020 16:19

Mumschat seems to be “open” again. What are they playing at?

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lifestooshort123 · 11/10/2020 16:20

@Quaggers
So you're admitting things like that do get posted on. What about all those who are saying when they tried to report racism, they were ignored or banned? Why would anyone want to go over there?

At least I'm honest about it, and yes, I don't recall seeing anyone who supported that post but if anyone can c&p evidence to disprove it then I'll admit to being wrong.
I think you're muddling up the sites when it comes to being banned for reporting racism - again, evidence and I'll admit to being wrong. This is how we debate issues and air disagreements on there and those who are disrespectful or downright offensive are often ignored but put your opinion across in a agreeable fashion and you'll find others will probably agree to differ. This is my opinion of the other site but am happy to 'agree to differ' .

Roussette · 11/10/2020 16:21

Yes Samcro, it does make you, me, anyone... nervous of posting anywhere because they follow you around to go back and laugh at what you've posted, on the most innocuous of threads here.

I hasten to add, it's just a group of bullies. Not everyone on that site. I'm sure there's some pretty decent people on there who just avoid the nasty stuff.

Janegrey333 · 11/10/2020 16:24

@Hobnobswantshernameback

Ah t he irony The first few weeks all they posted about over there was how shit mumsnet is and how their site was so much better and how they'd never go back So clearly most never left and now they want to set up a thread on here to chat Hahahahahahahahahahaha
Seems to be open again. What on earth are they playing at?
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Jumpingkangeroo · 11/10/2020 16:24

@Roussette

Yes Samcro, it does make you, me, anyone... nervous of posting anywhere because they follow you around to go back and laugh at what you've posted, on the most innocuous of threads here.

I hasten to add, it's just a group of bullies. Not everyone on that site. I'm sure there's some pretty decent people on there who just avoid the nasty stuff.

That’s the other spin off sub isn’t it? Or am I getting confused.
Roussette · 11/10/2020 16:27

This is how we debate issues and air disagreements on there and those who are disrespectful or downright offensive are often ignored but put your opinion across in a agreeable fashion and you'll find others will probably agree to differ

Well.... going by a few posts recently I read that actually made me recoil because they were so awful, I don't agree with that. Agreeing to differ is all well and good, but no posts are ever removed so they just stand there in their awfulness. Of course there aren't spats because you're with like minded people who actually see nothing wrong with the most vile of posts.

Roussette · 11/10/2020 16:28

JumpingK no sure what you mean! Smile

Janegrey333 · 11/10/2020 16:28

@Saucery

The B&W Minstrels picture as an illustration of Mumsnet due to the new section? I don’t see how that wasn’t overt racism tbh.
The poster who posted it appears to be continuing as usual. It’s a bit creepy.
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AuntyPasta · 11/10/2020 16:28

I’ve just trawled through the MN thread. Why set up another site only to spend your time picking through threads on here, criticising posters and MN as a whole? There’s a lot of vitriol aimed at Justine. If we’re all so awful you’d think they’d come up with something else to talk about.

The racism is definitely there including attacks on specific posters. When a poster says it’s making them feel uncomfortable they’re accused of attention seeking.

I don’t think there’s any point in giving them the oxygen of publicity, as that’s what they’re looking for.

Saucery · 11/10/2020 16:29

@Janegrey333

[quote Saucery]
The B&W Minstrels picture as an illustration of Mumsnet due to the new section?
I don’t see how that wasn’t overt racism tbh.

The poster who posted it appears to be continuing as usual. It’s a bit creepy.[/quote]
I hadn’t clocked at the time that he was a He. What a fucking edgelord Hmm

Noidea2114 · 11/10/2020 16:29

Mumschat is Back on.

Frdd · 11/10/2020 16:33

The admin has posted:

Hi all,

I did want to keep it open, but I'm way bit too busy to be able to run this site and none of the mods on my other sites were interested.

I just get too many complaints and I'm never sure what is real and what is trolling. From the very start there's been huge issues with people trying to disrupt.

The number of people using it was going down so it was looking like it would die out but I was going to let it run for a few more months with one unobtrusive advert per page to hopefully stop me from spending so much of my own money running it. But the complaints and their tone over that is the final straw makes me think it's not something I really want the hassle of keeping running.

Sorry about th

Janegrey333 · 11/10/2020 16:34

@Saucery

The racist poster is male. I can’t see any other makes so I wonder why he is doing with a bunch of women? He’s odd.

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Frdd · 11/10/2020 16:35

*that

Failed cut and paste sorry.

Quaagars · 11/10/2020 16:36

I think you're muddling up the sites when it comes to being banned for reporting racism

Doesn't sound like it

Frdd
If you reported racism on there you were banned

I know that's more anecdotal than evidence, but I know what I've seen (ghanagirl being trolled as mentioned upthread) and I know that racism definitely happened - that definitely was.
Anyway, I know from experience it doesn't matter how much "evidence" you provide, it's never enough and people will still flat out deny what's right in front of their faces.

Janegrey333 · 11/10/2020 16:36

males

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EchoCardioGran · 11/10/2020 16:42

I didn't see a " roundly condemnation" of the minstrel thread.
Simon's correct about the invented names remark, and Simon has been on these boards posting for a long time and someone whom I respect very much on here, although we've never chatted. Flowers

Another example. And I'm picking up on one of the least offensive posts. Inciting each other to come on MN and incite bother.

Archewell Well-known member Sep 16, 2020 #8,895
So....... I seem to remember that @Moogle* had a desire to be banned from MN, a short while ago, yet she still retains her membership.

Moogle, how do you fancy going over to the new section on MN and announcing that you're a white woman who identifies as a black woman?

I see their pals are hiding the thread here now or still playing the denial game.
Oh apparently, I'm an American troll, obvs hidden out in my bunker here in sunny Lancashire intent on infiltrating MN to talk about jollof rice and ...erm..stuff. Grin

lifestooshort123 · 11/10/2020 16:44

@Roussette
Of course there aren't spats because you're with like minded people who actually see nothing wrong with the most vile of posts.

This is an example of a nasty personal attack that let's you down. This is an example of why we could never discuss differences of opinion in an agreeable way. I'm going to leave you to it.

Quaagars · 11/10/2020 16:45

Simon's correct about the invented names remark, and Simon has been on these boards posting for a long time and someone whom I respect very much on here, although we've never chatted

Simon's been on the board ages and have seen around on here, seems a really decent poster

Quaagars · 11/10/2020 16:46

This is an example of a nasty personal attack that let's you down

How is that a personal attack?
I read that as a general" you rather than aimed at you personally.

Quaagars · 11/10/2020 16:47

@EchoCardioGran

Sad Fucking sick.
Quaagars · 11/10/2020 16:49

Oh apparently, I'm an American troll, obvs hidden out in my bunker here in sunny Lancashire

Ha Grin

I've had that before, been told I'm a Russian bot, on another I'm apparently American, I find it hilarious lol.
It's just so ridiculous.

Quaagars · 11/10/2020 16:50

Not from over there just to be clear, just on these type of hate threads on MN.
It's truly bizarre to watch lol

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