Do you remember the names of everyone you have slept with?

[LochJessMonster]

.Randomly thinking about this last night and it occurred to me that I can’t remember the name of one of the men that I have had sex with.

I can picture him clearly but for the life of me can’t remember his name. It was a brief drunken holiday fling so no way of finding it out either.

It doesn’t really bother me, just surprised that I can’t recall his name.

Just wondered if it was normal?

Interesting Q @Zoflorabore - but the answer is none for me! Despite having had a history of roughly 40. It’s probably due to my lifelong preference for older boys/men.

No, I too have memories to smile about when I'm in the old folks home

How many of you have taken someone’s virginity?

Once, my first boyfriend. He was 18, I was 16. We were together 8 years.

We were both virgins, I should add.

@Zoflorabore haven’t taken any virginities that I know of, the one guy that I can’t remember the name of might possibly have been, as he was younger and not very good bless him

No. I can't even remember the name of the man I lost my virginity to but I remember enjoying it

I've taken 2 virginities, one was a Christian who vowed never to have sex before marriage. Whoops.

@FagAsh and @leonaa Love your lists!

How many of you have taken someone’s virginity?

No idea.

Totally ballsed up the bolding there

Mumsnet is a funny place - I like this thread but where are all the judgy posters?

No I don’t think so. There’s not a huge amount but I’ve been married for 10 years and we’ve been together for nearly 14, so anyone else was well over 1/3 of my lifetime ago!

99% of more than 1 less that 35

Yes, even the one night stands.. have to remember in order though, according to where i was living/ what i was doing at the time, but i am 56
Only had one virgin tho..

No - it's only been DP for the last 20 years. I think up until then I could remember most of their names.

Yes taken someone’s virginity

We had sex a few times it wasn’t good (my previous boyfriend was a little older and more experienced)

Had sex again about 10 years later and it was lovely

Yes... but not necessarily surnames for the more short lived connections.... there are only seven though and as I'm getting on a bit now, all except xh were at least 26 years ago...yikes....

@leonaa

Was wondering if that is your list or you've lost your way to the baby name forum

I've been with DP for 13 years so I've just done a quick list. I'm sure I'm missing a few but if those I can remember, I cant recall 2 of their names.

This is like counting sheep for me

Tom, Dick and Harry.
Mostly Dick

Interestingly I was talking to a friend my ex just last night how many people I had copped of with at uni. And he was amazed I couldn't remember every name the of people I had snogged at uni in various clubs between 20-30. Several years after the event . I could name a few and most of the a distinct characteristic about them but that's it

Just the one virgin that I know of. My boyfriend when I was 17. He was my RAF chap. (ticks box).

I used to have a list. I threw it away when I got married but I know it was heavily out of date 😂

I can remember the names from this year.

God, no idea.

In my 20s, I once famously tried to chat up a guy who I had forgotten I had shagged the year before. He was not that flattered.

However, the men that I connected with emotionally, I will never forget, and some of those I never shagged and some I dated. There are 9 of them. I am now nearing 50..

Nope. Don’t think I knew them all at the times either. No regrets, I had some great sex and thoroughly enjoyed my 20s!

Yes but it's a very small number so not hard to!