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Getsomemeatonyerbones · 08/11/2026 18:16

They are very strange arent they?
I have always thought this.
He either looks manic and crazy or they're like black holes, just dead, wonder if that's telling?

Also, did you ever fancy him? I had a friend who thought he was gorgeous. I never ever did and he couldn't have been further from my type

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godmum56 · Yesterday 14:05

Apotofrealcoffee · Yesterday 13:34

There is no ‘mental health defence’. You can use poor MH as part of a mitigation, which isn’t a defence. You can plead diminished responsibility as a defence, but you have to be under section or similar for that to even be considered. You can’t just try it out because you’ve been diagnosed with depression, for example. I mean you could but it would fail.

yes I was a bit incoherent but that's what i meant...it was in answer to someone who said they thought he was fucked up but not evil...I mean either you can choose to do what you do or you can say what you did was not in your conscious control.

SerendipityJane · Yesterday 14:18

godmum56 · Yesterday 14:05

yes I was a bit incoherent but that's what i meant...it was in answer to someone who said they thought he was fucked up but not evil...I mean either you can choose to do what you do or you can say what you did was not in your conscious control.

I've read that it's usually considered a very risky strategy to try and get acquitted due to mental health. Quite aside from it being a very high bar and investigated by real doctors, if it works the defendant gets committed for life. It's what Broadmoor is for.

Ulrikakakakaka · Yesterday 14:25

Russell Brand has taken all sorts of drugs over the years, heroin was one of his favourites. Apparrently he has been clean for 23 years. He used to be a patron & sponsor for a charity for drug rehabilitation I live close to in Burton on Trent. They have since severed ties with him.

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HaileyBailey · Yesterday 14:33

10 years 6 months 🎉🎉🎉

godmum56 · Yesterday 14:39

SerendipityJane · Yesterday 14:18

I've read that it's usually considered a very risky strategy to try and get acquitted due to mental health. Quite aside from it being a very high bar and investigated by real doctors, if it works the defendant gets committed for life. It's what Broadmoor is for.

I don't think its always for life. IIRC its until you are no longer considered a risk.

EvieBB · Yesterday 15:03

godmum56 · Yesterday 13:17

because people do get brainwashed.

I agree, people absolutely get brainwashed (I was myself). Sine people on here don't necessarily think she is though. Either she is, or she's as evil as him in that case 🤔

EvieBB · Yesterday 15:04

HaileyBailey · Yesterday 14:33

10 years 6 months 🎉🎉🎉

✊✊💪👏👏

EvieBB · Yesterday 15:20

godmum56 · Yesterday 13:18

you read the book and still thought he was attractive?

It was nearly 2 decades back. I don't remember reading about his poor dog 😢. Was that in his 2nd rather than 1st book 🤔
I thought he was fairly funny back in the day plus the culture was different back then and sexual exploits were more "acceptable" and encouraged and applauded. Women were also encouraged to behave in a "ladette" way (which I didn't and don't reasonate with at all).
He was fairly attractive (physically back then)....but also didn't love the bits about his promiscuity but never for one moment thought it wasn't consensual. I wasn't an Uber fan....just read his book alongside many others because I found his use of language intriguing and he was like no other comic. He got stranger as the years went on and his conspiracy theory stuff is just weird and now this 🤢

godmum56 · Yesterday 16:07

EvieBB · Yesterday 15:20

It was nearly 2 decades back. I don't remember reading about his poor dog 😢. Was that in his 2nd rather than 1st book 🤔
I thought he was fairly funny back in the day plus the culture was different back then and sexual exploits were more "acceptable" and encouraged and applauded. Women were also encouraged to behave in a "ladette" way (which I didn't and don't reasonate with at all).
He was fairly attractive (physically back then)....but also didn't love the bits about his promiscuity but never for one moment thought it wasn't consensual. I wasn't an Uber fan....just read his book alongside many others because I found his use of language intriguing and he was like no other comic. He got stranger as the years went on and his conspiracy theory stuff is just weird and now this 🤢

His first book I believe.....just checked yes.

WearyAuldWumman · Yesterday 16:34

Getsomemeatonyerbones · Yesterday 13:06

I watched a Johnathon Ross show he was on with Lindsay Lohan, her body language is very odd, she couldn't get any further away from him, sitting right on the very end of the sofa, very closed off body language

I saw a clip of it last night - she practically burrowed through the side of the sofa, trying to get away from him. Something was obviously very wrong.

Takethehuntingquiche · Yesterday 16:55

Sartre · Yesterday 07:21

I think it’s a lie to call him unattractive. You can say you personally don’t fancy him but he isn’t conventionally unattractive when you break his proportionate and quite symmetrical facial features down.

I liked him as a teen. I thought he was funny, especially coupled with Fielding on Big Fat Quiz. He was charming in his own quirky way, just as Fielding is. I was an alternative teen so found guys like that appealing.

I think he's about as unattractive as you can get. He's got a weird hairy hook nose and a gawky gummy manic smile but it's not just about looks. IMO he has zero charisma, the personality of a rude little spoilt brat who thinks bring vulgar is funny, oh and I haven't heard him say a single thing EVER that I've found remotely amusing

Sartre · Yesterday 17:00

Takethehuntingquiche · Yesterday 16:55

I think he's about as unattractive as you can get. He's got a weird hairy hook nose and a gawky gummy manic smile but it's not just about looks. IMO he has zero charisma, the personality of a rude little spoilt brat who thinks bring vulgar is funny, oh and I haven't heard him say a single thing EVER that I've found remotely amusing

Well, I disagree. I obviously think he’s an abomination but his face isn’t unattractive and it’s ok to say this. Hook nose is a bit extreme, it’s a straight and proportionate nose. Good for you on the humour front, I found him very charming and amusing as a 14/15 year old girl so I can see how he was so appealing.

fatphalange · Yesterday 17:05

I think we can acknowledge he has heaps of charisma and is engaging, which is how he bullshitted his way into jobs, became high profile, had so much success with women and has managed to accrue a legion of supporters, even now. We really don’t have to rewrite history and claim he was an ugly loser with evil eyes etc etc. It is actually, as a PP pointed out, quite victim blamey.

FriggadyDiggady · Yesterday 17:08

I get that people wants to performatively express revulsion by proclaiming how unattractive they always found him, but this is a terrible message to put out their, particularly for young girls. The idea that you can spot a rapist by their eyes! Actually, no, he was very attractive to lots of women and he was also a rapist.
That's exactly the point that we should be taking away from this disgusting affair.

I might even go as far as to say that some of the qualities that made him attractive (star power, charisma, assertiveness, confidence) made it easier for him to rape women; raping someone after having consensual sex with them makes it much easier to cover up.

likelysuspect · Yesterday 18:06

Mysteise · 08/11/2026 23:40

It’s interesting to look back at his formative years, particularly that period before he married Katy Perry and courted Hollywood, so around 2004–09? For me, he really exemplified that era, which had a zany, surreal, anything-goes quality to it. At the time, me and my friends liked him! We thought he was funny, charismatic and outrageous. I certainly didn’t have him pegged as some awful person with evil eyes. He was just part of that cultural landscape and his humour and behaviour seemed to exemplify the attitudes of the time.

It was a peculiar atmosphere in the Uk around that time. There was the whole indie explosion, which had a glam rock and roll aesthetic to it. The Libertines, Arctic Monkeys, The Kooks, The Cribs etc. Skinny jeans, leather jackets, messy hair, vintage clothes. RB wasn’t the only one looking permanently dishevelled and smelly, that was the ‘look’. There was a real romanticisation of the chaotic, drug-taking, hard-partying rock star and along with that a sense of excess around relationships and sex. You had Amy Winehouse and Blake Fielder-Civil, Kate Moss and Pete Doherty, and this whole fascination with wild, volatile men and chaotic relationships.

Tele and comedy had a similar sensibility if you remember. Mighty Boosh, Garth Marenghi’s Darkplace, Nathan Barley etc. Everything was surreal, eccentric, deliberately inappropriate and out there. Russell Brand was part of that scene originally. Don’t forget, he first became widely famous through Big Brother's Big Mouth. At the time BB contestants were plied with alcohol, with producers hoping it would lead to sex and rows that made headlines. Absolutely crazy when you think about it now!

On reflection it was a pretty dark and hedonistic time. I wonder whether that also created an environment where quite a lot of unpleasant male behaviour was simply tolerated. The sleazy frontman, the obnoxious comedian were written off as laddishness, charisma, eccentricity or just being rock and roll. There seemed to be a romanticisation of men behaving badly particularly if they were funny, creative or famous.

To be clear, I believe he is a predator and feel so much sympathy for the poor women and girls he abused. I think as the years went on he became more and more twisted by fame and his celebrity status fuelled his narcissism and sense of entitlement. But I do think there’s a wider conversation to be had about the media’s role in creating and encouraging the persona he became famous for (in the early days at least). I’m glad for young people that things are different now. It was a weird time to grow up as a young woman.

I’ve been watching clips of some of his earlier tv appearances on Alan Carr, Jonathan Ross and Graham Norton. What’s striking is how much all of the presenters seem to cajole him into being this outrageous caricature. They’re prompting him, encouraging him, playing along and the audiences are absolutely in stitches. Funny how quiet they all are now.

Because that is entertainment as well and to be fair, despite what countless threads seem to be saying about him, a lot of women like that rock and roll/unsafe or dirty type of man

I was on a thread recently about Jamie Oliver, of all people, actually I think it was about his wife, someone was saying she has a lovely life and I agreed, I think they're a lovely couple, I like him etc etc. I cant remember how it came round but people were calling him names like they do, saying hes a big lump and how awful that must be for her etc etc and comparisons were made with Gordon Ramsey. I said I found Gordon Ramsey to be repulsive and how awful his face is etc and someone said 'yeah but he would be better in bed, really dirty and filthy'

I dont quite know how the thread got to that, but many women like that, the faux disgust about RB that is all over these threads is making me laugh, women were throwing themselves at him and those like him and still do, there are still filthy, unpleasant actors/addicts/pop stars and women are throwing themselves at them
Nothing has changed since the days of Byron and further back.

likelysuspect · Yesterday 18:26

godmum56 · Yesterday 13:25

interesting that a mental health defence wasn't made.....I mean either you are not responsible by reason of mental state or you are fit to plead...

I thought he pled not guilty?

You wouldnt give any mitigation if you're claiming the crime didnt happen

likelysuspect · Yesterday 18:29

SerendipityJane · Yesterday 14:18

I've read that it's usually considered a very risky strategy to try and get acquitted due to mental health. Quite aside from it being a very high bar and investigated by real doctors, if it works the defendant gets committed for life. It's what Broadmoor is for.

Its not necessarily life, you'll be there until you are deemed no longer needing psychiatric care.

Lots of people are in bog standard prison with MH conditions which can be treated in prison instead of in hospital

You may also have been ill at the time of your crime but not ill by the time of the trial.

Irrelevant in any case for him

SerendipityJane · Yesterday 18:42

likelysuspect · Yesterday 18:29

Its not necessarily life, you'll be there until you are deemed no longer needing psychiatric care.

Lots of people are in bog standard prison with MH conditions which can be treated in prison instead of in hospital

You may also have been ill at the time of your crime but not ill by the time of the trial.

Irrelevant in any case for him

The thing is the bar for convincing a panel you are no danger is very high.

Lots of people are in bog standard prison with MH conditions which can be treated in prison instead of in hospital

If you are in prison, you are have been found guilty in a criminal court.

I was specifically referring to defendants who plead "Not guilty due to diminished capacity" and are subsequently acquitted. They can be sent to a secure mental institution indefinitely.

As you say, irrelevant here - but worth noting why so few criminals try that route.

NewMonsteraLeaf · Yesterday 18:56

Lemieux7 · 08/11/2026 18:19

In person I’m sure he’s very charming but I wouldn’t have touched him with a barge pole.

He looks unclean and yes, mad.

likelysuspect · Yesterday 19:04

SerendipityJane · Yesterday 18:42

The thing is the bar for convincing a panel you are no danger is very high.

Lots of people are in bog standard prison with MH conditions which can be treated in prison instead of in hospital

If you are in prison, you are have been found guilty in a criminal court.

I was specifically referring to defendants who plead "Not guilty due to diminished capacity" and are subsequently acquitted. They can be sent to a secure mental institution indefinitely.

As you say, irrelevant here - but worth noting why so few criminals try that route.

I didnt realise you were talking about aquittal, so yes thats true. But you can also be found guilty, then argue your case if you like, so you'll be sent to hospital to serve some of your sentence because you need 'treatment'

Although having worked in secure psychiatric hospitals (not forensic) and also prisons, I dont know why someone would think its any different hugely, the rooms might be nicer but essentially you're still locked up.

EvieBB · Yesterday 23:40

Sartre · Yesterday 17:00

Well, I disagree. I obviously think he’s an abomination but his face isn’t unattractive and it’s ok to say this. Hook nose is a bit extreme, it’s a straight and proportionate nose. Good for you on the humour front, I found him very charming and amusing as a 14/15 year old girl so I can see how he was so appealing.

I agree with you Sartre. He's obviously a disgrace and extremely unattractive in every single way possible now but back in the day I also thought he was attractive and had tons of charisma. He wouldn't have been able to charm so many women back to his place had he not had these qualities. Sadly, as we now know he's a very damaged and dangerous person.

Tears0fTheMushroom · Today 00:07

floopyboop · 08/11/2026 19:30

Oh my God, THAT'S who he reminds me of. Rasputin. He's a hipster Rasputin.

Ra Ra Russell Brand. Johnny Depp from Poundland.

Jadeprincess · Today 09:26

godmum56 · Yesterday 13:18

you read the book and still thought he was attractive?

Was this the book where he describes with glee how he tormented his pet dog?

godmum56 · Today 09:36

Jadeprincess · Today 09:26

Was this the book where he describes with glee how he tormented his pet dog?

Yes.

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