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Russel Brands eyes

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Getsomemeatonyerbones · 08/11/2026 18:16

They are very strange arent they?
I have always thought this.
He either looks manic and crazy or they're like black holes, just dead, wonder if that's telling?

Also, did you ever fancy him? I had a friend who thought he was gorgeous. I never ever did and he couldn't have been further from my type

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BruachAbhann · 08/11/2026 22:20

Oliveoy · 08/11/2026 18:53

I saw him in the flesh once and what struck me was his cold dead fish eyes. Been telling people about that for years. I'd thought he was funny up to that point but in real life he exuded something dark.

Me too! I walked past him in the street and he looked at me with such a contemptuous, hostile expression I felt I'd been slapped in the face. There was nothing in his eyes.
I've seen that look before with about 6 other people in my life. One was a 6 year old boy which was freaky, another was an old man in the park. The other 4 were people I interacted with a bit ( teachers, distant family members). Same feeling, same eyes, 4 had brown eyes, 2 had blue so nothing to do with the colour but a deadness in them.

Periperi2025 · 08/11/2026 22:20

I could never watch him, even HIGNFY i'd have to skip an episode, the most I ever watched of him was the HIGNFY highlight episodes. He always freaked me out. Clearly I have some sort of intuition/ innate self preservation.

BruachAbhann · 08/11/2026 22:22

CurlewKate · 08/11/2026 22:11

Absolutely you can’t tell a person’s character by their eyes. Just romantic novel bullshit. And dangerous. People make judgements about their safety based on crap like this.

I really think you can and that it's important to trust your instincts.

Periperi2025 · 08/11/2026 22:24

Getsomemeatonyerbones · 08/11/2026 19:25

Here 😔 also saying how it was a nervous dog, just sick

Being an intelligent guy and publicly admitting to classic psychopathic behaviour is just a whole other level of ....something - arrogance, ignorance, just another layer to his psychopathy, I'm not sure!!

Nofeckingway · 08/11/2026 22:25

My DD had a poster of him on her wall. Very raunchy and I made her cover parts up . Booky wooky too. Just thought he was a charming bad boy with a funny accent. But I always thought he looked like he would smell .

TeethAreImportant · 08/11/2026 22:27

CrystalRabbit · 08/11/2026 19:04

I fancied him, and found his stand-up largely funny, though found his affected use of language a bit irritating. I liked him enough to read his Booky Wook and it’s apparent from that he has a cruel, deranged side to him. I don’t remember the incident about the dog but some of the stories about how he treated women are horrible. I read it years ago but I think he acknowledged he acted horribly, he’s not really glorying in it in the book.

Yes, I read his book and always remember one story about him spitting in a prostitutes face who had come to his flat and in the process of shoving her out of his flat, in the tussle, he got locked out himself, bollock naked. Which he said was almost instant karma, so even knew that was a horrendous story, but spitting in somebodys face must be one of the worst thigs to do to anybody, just grim.

LBFseBrom · 08/11/2026 22:27

Yes, he nearly always looked manic. I always found him creepy but, charitably. thought it might be a persona he developed for his edgy act. People like him did push boundaries twenty years ago and then suddeny turned into pllars of society.

It's a horrible business and I feel so sorry for his young wife and children.

Wjdbxb · 08/11/2026 22:30

I always found his completely repellent. I couldn’t watch him at all. I thought he was unfunny, looked dirty and smelly, was arrogant, and he just gave me horrible predator ick vibes. I remember lots of women talking about how sexy he was when he first appeared on tv and I didn’t get it at all. I don’t always spot a wrong-un, but it his case I felt like he had a flashing neon sign above his head pointing it out.

lavendarwillow · 08/11/2026 22:34

If they ever remade Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, we all know what character he could play. Well, could have played!

Getsomemeatonyerbones · 08/11/2026 22:36

I really wonder what Laura's life must have been like with him...

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Animatic · 08/11/2026 22:37

Fancy him? Ouch, nope. He has always given deluded vibes

mrlistersgelfbride · 08/11/2026 22:39

I would normally have fancied the russell brand type when I was young. I was early 20s when he was first all over tv, and I liked the indie - skinny pretty boy -arrogant look of yesteryear.
But i never actually fancied him. He reeked of insincerity and seemed quite a messed up person.

RumNotRun · 08/11/2026 22:40

Sorry but can people please stop spreading the myth that psychopaths start with animals? This is part of the MacDonald triad and even John MacDonald admitted that the three factors were often a cause of ACE rather than an indicator of psychopathy. A lot of serial killers have actually loved animals and had well cared for pets. Hurting animals does not "turn into" hurting people, often the two will happen around the same time or even start with hurting people rather than the other way round.

Obviously I am not condoning hurting people or animals, but it's a personal bugbear that people still spout the debunked MacDonald triad.

ItsAQuandryAlright · 08/11/2026 22:40

Abhannmor · 08/11/2026 19:59

I wouldn't have said he was eloquent. As others have said he just uses a lot of long , arcane sounding words at a rate of knots. Logorrhea . Does that have an adjectival form? Otiose, insufferably long winded. Perhaps he was, as Disraeli said of Gladstone : ' Intoxicated by the exuberance of his own verbosity.'

He was fond of throwing Nietzsche into conversations too I remember, without much context. I never got his appeal (his mouth is quite scary and he always looked unclean), but my eldest daughter loved him. I can well imagine him as a cult leader.

Cel77 · 08/11/2026 22:43

I never understood the attraction either...And never found him funny either. Now I'm repulsed, plain and simple.

UnintentionalArcher · 08/11/2026 22:44

I realise how cliched it sounds to say that someone always seemed like a wrong ‘un to you once it’s come out that they are, but I always found him absolutely repellant. That area of celebrity culture isn’t something I’ve ever engaged with much (I mean stand up, chat shows, reality TV) so normally I just wouldn’t really notice the celebrities involved, but for some reason he registered on my radar quite strongly and he made me shudder.

At the height of his fame, I was in my twenties and to be honest quite bad at spotting bad men, so I wouldn’t necessarily have been joining the dots between the feeling of repulsion he gave me and any conscious thought that he was a predator. What I do remember though is the feeling he engendered being so strong that I would have to change the channel if he popped up on TV. I couldn’t watch him. It’s interesting what the unconscious mind registers.

aperolspritzbasicbitch · 08/11/2026 22:48

fuck it, I quite fancied him, and I thought he was hilarious. Which is probably why I fancied him.

Ponderland was very funny.

I also read my booky wook. I can’t for the life of me remember the dog part. I do remember a story about smashing a prostitutes phone, and also spitting on an exotic dancer, but it was told in a ‘oh god, look, these are horrible stories from my past, but I’m different now’ and so I kind of shrugged them off. Maybe it was the way he’d told it, maybe it was my age when I read it.

I hadn’t given him any thought for many years, right up until that channel 4 documentary. I wasn’t shocked, but as above - I’m also not one of the people who ‘always knew’

BogRollBOGOF · 08/11/2026 22:51

CurlewKate · 08/11/2026 22:11

Absolutely you can’t tell a person’s character by their eyes. Just romantic novel bullshit. And dangerous. People make judgements about their safety based on crap like this.

There was a lad in a society at uni who was creepy in a way that was difficult to articulate. None of the females warmed to him. He was the one who sexually assualted me and I think I woke up from the assualt just in time to save myself from being raped from the way he was gaining momentum and helping himself to my sleeping body.

I go running a lot, and only once have I been creeped out although fortunately on this day I was cycling along one of my frequently used routes. There was a man standing still on the path and staring at me intensely. No dog, not looking purposeful, just staring. He freaked me out and I cycled up that hill feeling relieved that I was on my bike, and faster than on foot. I remember looking over my shoulder and he was still standing, staring at me. In over a decade I've never had anyone else give me that feeling of intensity while out like that, and I will always listen to my instinct in a situation like that. I have nothing to lose by being wrong, and a lot to lose by being right but ignoring my instincts.

I can't think of any reason why a decent man would stand around staring at a lone woman on a quiet trail as she approaches and continuing after she passes, and it wasn't a spot naturally conducive to loitering at either.

It can often be unsettling when people's facial expressions and eyes don't align. It often comes over as insincere (but that doesn't necessarily mean they're malicious) but it can be a feature of malicious people who are trying to mask bad intentions and apply charm.

Katemax82 · 08/11/2026 23:03

godmum56 · 08/11/2026 18:55

I am not one of those "oh I knew all along" people, but I did think he was weird and unpleasant from the first time I saw him.
This is in no way any kind of defence but Noel Fielding has always struck me as the weird kid who hangs out with the nasty crowd and is scared that if he doesn't go along then they will turn on him.

I thought the phyco in the latest series of mobland was Noel fielding

curtaintimeup · 08/11/2026 23:04

He’s an addict, mentally unwell and a predator which in my experience comes with a certain ‘look’. He’s definitely creepy.

NigglyPig · 08/11/2026 23:29

I never fancied him (or even found him attractive) but I was gutted to find out what a nasty specimen he is because I loved him in Arthur.

Mysteise · 08/11/2026 23:40

It’s interesting to look back at his formative years, particularly that period before he married Katy Perry and courted Hollywood, so around 2004–09? For me, he really exemplified that era, which had a zany, surreal, anything-goes quality to it. At the time, me and my friends liked him! We thought he was funny, charismatic and outrageous. I certainly didn’t have him pegged as some awful person with evil eyes. He was just part of that cultural landscape and his humour and behaviour seemed to exemplify the attitudes of the time.

It was a peculiar atmosphere in the Uk around that time. There was the whole indie explosion, which had a glam rock and roll aesthetic to it. The Libertines, Arctic Monkeys, The Kooks, The Cribs etc. Skinny jeans, leather jackets, messy hair, vintage clothes. RB wasn’t the only one looking permanently dishevelled and smelly, that was the ‘look’. There was a real romanticisation of the chaotic, drug-taking, hard-partying rock star and along with that a sense of excess around relationships and sex. You had Amy Winehouse and Blake Fielder-Civil, Kate Moss and Pete Doherty, and this whole fascination with wild, volatile men and chaotic relationships.

Tele and comedy had a similar sensibility if you remember. Mighty Boosh, Garth Marenghi’s Darkplace, Nathan Barley etc. Everything was surreal, eccentric, deliberately inappropriate and out there. Russell Brand was part of that scene originally. Don’t forget, he first became widely famous through Big Brother's Big Mouth. At the time BB contestants were plied with alcohol, with producers hoping it would lead to sex and rows that made headlines. Absolutely crazy when you think about it now!

On reflection it was a pretty dark and hedonistic time. I wonder whether that also created an environment where quite a lot of unpleasant male behaviour was simply tolerated. The sleazy frontman, the obnoxious comedian were written off as laddishness, charisma, eccentricity or just being rock and roll. There seemed to be a romanticisation of men behaving badly particularly if they were funny, creative or famous.

To be clear, I believe he is a predator and feel so much sympathy for the poor women and girls he abused. I think as the years went on he became more and more twisted by fame and his celebrity status fuelled his narcissism and sense of entitlement. But I do think there’s a wider conversation to be had about the media’s role in creating and encouraging the persona he became famous for (in the early days at least). I’m glad for young people that things are different now. It was a weird time to grow up as a young woman.

I’ve been watching clips of some of his earlier tv appearances on Alan Carr, Jonathan Ross and Graham Norton. What’s striking is how much all of the presenters seem to cajole him into being this outrageous caricature. They’re prompting him, encouraging him, playing along and the audiences are absolutely in stitches. Funny how quiet they all are now.

Rainandhail · 08/11/2026 23:42

Well I truly believe in trusting ‘vibes’.

Remember being on a megabus and a guy gets on and I immediately recoiled. I put my bag on the empty seat next to me straight away. Half way through the journey the woman he had sat next to told the driver he had been feeling her up and the guy was chucked off the bus.

Have had a few experiences like that with people throughout my life.

With RB I liked his comedy back then. Ponderland was v funny. I’d never have thought he would be a rapist tbh so maybe you only get the vibes in person

LoafofSellotape · 08/11/2026 23:46

Aniceempirebiscuitandacupoftea · 08/11/2026 18:26

My “types” are Sean Bean, Phil Tuffnell and Will Mellor. As my nan would have said, I couldn’t fancy RB if his arse was covered in diamonds.

Seen Bean is someone to steer clear of too.

Janie143 · 08/11/2026 23:54

He's always reminded me of Charles Manson

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