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Employee on onlyfans

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Oceniam · 21/11/2023 22:22

I'm going to keep this as short as possible. My husband works in administration in a hospital environment. It was brought to his attention today by another colleague that a female colleague is on OnlyFans. As my husband is her manager, I asked him what he was going to do, and he isn't sure what to do. What would you do in his situation?

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YerArseInParsley · 23/11/2023 19:53

momonpurpose · 22/11/2023 13:57

Op has a previous post where SHE calls her a girl that is 24 who her husband is the manager of. Goes on to say how he's been caught sexting this "girl". You can search her user name. What has doing as a manager is far worse then only fans

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OP's husband has been sexting other women and he's still able to come home to ask her advice about a colleague on Only Fans? Mine would be right out that door.

Direstraightsagain · 23/11/2023 20:15

If it’s a breach of contract to have more than one job then do something. If it’s not then there’s nothing to do.

SchoolQuestionnaire · 24/11/2023 08:47

electriclight · 22/11/2023 04:45

The hospital will have a social media policy so he should follow that or ask his own line manager for guidance.

Many people promote their Only Fans account on other social media such as TikTok so this may have become public knowledge quite innocently, or she confided in the wrong people at work, or it was reported by a personal friend/family member with a grudge.

A lot of people seem to think it's ok but I am not sure they'd be so accepting if it was their child's teacher, for example. I mention teaching as they have similar social media policies to the nhs.

I honestly wouldn’t care a jot if one of my dc’s teachers was on Only Fans.

Sexy pictures or actions doesn’t mean that someone is incapable of being good at the day job. The two are not mutually exclusive in the same way that you can like sex and be a good mother. I’d be more sympathetic to your viewpoint if these arbitrary standards of morality included men too. Unless they are an actual criminal it seems they can watch what they like, behave how they like and do what they like (including running home and gossiping about colleagues private business with their dwife, which imo is far more unacceptable) and no one ever questions whether they should remain in their job role.

DeeKitch · 04/12/2023 17:34

What was the conclusion?

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