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Graham Linehan on the chapter about him in Jon Ronson's new book

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impossibletoday · 29/08/2026 21:50

Graham Linehan on Jon Ronson's new book

My ex-friend Jon Ronson may be a case study in the corrupting toxicity of trans ideology. An interesting read.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/gift/29278d258cf0921b

My ex-friend Jon Ronson may be a case study in the corrupting toxicity of trans ideology

His book chapter about me stands as an indictment of him and the cowardly social class of people who refuse to confront uncomfortable truths

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/gift/29278d258cf0921b

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YouHaveAnArse · 30/08/2026 12:22

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 30/08/2026 12:18

Wikipedia as a reliable source of information. 😂😂

It's a reasonably good starting point for internet linguistics surprisingly, as you can follow the sources and do your own research. KnowYourMeme can be useful but isn't great at putting things into context.

If you're interested in that kind of thing the Garbage Day newsletter is pretty good at tracking how the online world changes language, especially the phenomenon of everyday language being affected by content moderation, though it's quite US focused.

Cailin66 · 30/08/2026 12:22

YouHaveAnArse · 30/08/2026 11:48

If you like him and agree with him on what he says and how he says it, you're free to do so. I'm not taking that away from you.

So the answer is no, you are unable to back up claiming he’s making “dickhead” comments. While at the same time pretending that you “might” agree with some of his comments, just shit stirring then.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 30/08/2026 12:23

YouHaveAnArse · 30/08/2026 12:18

Maybe spend five minutes reading the paper I linked to and you might get why certain assumptions might be made about the views someone using it.

Again, anyone even slightly online who says they aren't aware that there are certain phrases, especially used on X, that are massive dog-whistles is either not that observant or being massively disingenuous. If it's the former, you might want to realise that all those accounts called xxStopTheBoats1488xx might be being a little bit sarcastic when they talk about "cultural enrichment" or "religion of peace", y'know?

Also, if you know where my other sock with raccoons on it is, please do tell.

and using terms you personally disagree with makes him a bad person because...?

c'mon, you're really sure you're right. this should be super easy to explain

YouHaveAnArse · 30/08/2026 12:25

Cailin66 · 30/08/2026 12:22

So the answer is no, you are unable to back up claiming he’s making “dickhead” comments. While at the same time pretending that you “might” agree with some of his comments, just shit stirring then.

This whole discussion is about two men stirring up shit about each other. Each one thinking the other is making dickhead comments but for wildly different reasons. Twas ever thus.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 30/08/2026 12:25

YouHaveAnArse · 30/08/2026 12:22

It's a reasonably good starting point for internet linguistics surprisingly, as you can follow the sources and do your own research. KnowYourMeme can be useful but isn't great at putting things into context.

If you're interested in that kind of thing the Garbage Day newsletter is pretty good at tracking how the online world changes language, especially the phenomenon of everyday language being affected by content moderation, though it's quite US focused.

man alive. have you ever considered just stating what you think?

YouHaveAnArse · 30/08/2026 12:26

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 30/08/2026 12:23

and using terms you personally disagree with makes him a bad person because...?

c'mon, you're really sure you're right. this should be super easy to explain

Aww.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 30/08/2026 12:26

let me get you started

'here are my views on graham linehan and the point i joined this thread to make:'

and then you say stuff

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 30/08/2026 12:27

YouHaveAnArse · 30/08/2026 12:26

Aww.

i'm going to suggest to you that if you can't explain something it's because you don't really understand it

Datun · 30/08/2026 12:28

YouHaveAnArse · 30/08/2026 11:25

I mean in the sense that it doesn't do the GC cause any favours to have one of the most prominent voices in it spending ten hours a day on Twitter publically shitting his pants. This is how the "you're all cranks obsessed with genitals" views are born.

Christ, that should be immortalised somewhere - 'it doesn't do your cause any good to have undignified raging people supporting it!'

Wrongggg!!

The Supreme Court, the £25 grand awarded to Graham Linehan and the public apology, would beg to differ.

YouHaveAnArse · 30/08/2026 12:28

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 30/08/2026 12:25

man alive. have you ever considered just stating what you think?

I've just told you what I think: that Wikipedia shouldn't be your only source, but for linguistic phenomena too new to be yet documented much elsewhere and where changes can outpace studies, it can be a good starting point for research.

Hope that helps you, because it sounds like you don't know much about how the internet affects language and coded communication and it's a really fascinating area.

PencilsInSpace · 30/08/2026 12:29

PerkyBlueZebra · 30/08/2026 12:20

lol whoops

HmmHmm

Datun · 30/08/2026 12:32

SpringCalling · 30/08/2026 11:28

This. Now you’ve said it I cannot unsee it. Of course - how would a man possibly understand another effectively blowing up their life for women’s rights?

Exactly. It's so ingrained, he doesn't realise it's leaching out of every pore.

PencilsInSpace · 30/08/2026 12:51

YouHaveAnArse · 30/08/2026 12:10

Well, you can look at the Wikipedia page on it for a start. Internet is good for helping you look up terms you don't know. This board alone is full of shibboleths that are meaningless to those not already entrenched in GC discussion.

But if you're going to be disingenuous and pretend that something that's been widely discussed enough to have academic papers written about it as a sociolinguistic phenomenon being mentioned but not spelt out for you is some form of sly "TRA rhetoric", then my time is probably better spent pairing my clean socks.

This board alone is full of shibboleths that are meaningless to those not already entrenched in GC discussion.

What, like knowing that Kara Dansky and Dana Rivers are not the same person?

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 30/08/2026 12:52

YouHaveAnArse · 30/08/2026 12:28

I've just told you what I think: that Wikipedia shouldn't be your only source, but for linguistic phenomena too new to be yet documented much elsewhere and where changes can outpace studies, it can be a good starting point for research.

Hope that helps you, because it sounds like you don't know much about how the internet affects language and coded communication and it's a really fascinating area.

no, you haven't. you haven't explained why you think using the term 'npc' in some way undermines linehan's credibility (which is what I think you're implying)

you've just posted links to a bunch of stuff as if it is self evident. it is not

you did say

'I don't think being a dickhead online helps anyone and especially is not particularly effective in bringing anyone round to your point of view. Whatever the topic.'

If you want to persuade people of stuff, being able to articulate your thoughts on it will help you

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 30/08/2026 12:55

Datun · 30/08/2026 12:32

Exactly. It's so ingrained, he doesn't realise it's leaching out of every pore.

and yes, a man role playing as a woman tells you a lot about how that man thinks of women (pro tip - not with respect). a man thinking women should be all good with spending enforced time with men who role play as women also tells you a lot about that man (pro tip - he views us as non player characters (ooh!) who should just budge up for the real people)

Shedmistress · 30/08/2026 12:58

A Gamer using a Gaming term; lust be some sort of monster or deep state psyopor something something hmm hmm do you see?

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 30/08/2026 14:01

YouHaveAnArse · 30/08/2026 12:28

I've just told you what I think: that Wikipedia shouldn't be your only source, but for linguistic phenomena too new to be yet documented much elsewhere and where changes can outpace studies, it can be a good starting point for research.

Hope that helps you, because it sounds like you don't know much about how the internet affects language and coded communication and it's a really fascinating area.

Perhaps you should try to consider GL as a human being not just some NPC in your thought experiment.

MarcTheGenderSkeptic · 30/08/2026 14:14

I have to be impressed (not) that a line of attack against Glinner is his gaming.
I mean, the anti Glinner trans lobby have nothing at all.
Because if they actually engaged with the truths he represents, their little brains would explode

PerkyBlueZebra · 30/08/2026 14:25

Using NPC that way isn't a gaming term; it's more commonly used by red pillers and taken from gaming terminology

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 30/08/2026 14:34

PerkyBlueZebra · 30/08/2026 14:25

Using NPC that way isn't a gaming term; it's more commonly used by red pillers and taken from gaming terminology

And yet zero evidence about the way Linehan has used it has been provided. Readers are apparently supposed to take it as read that

  1. he has used this term
  2. he has used it in some sort of ‘dog whistle’ way
  3. this makes him a Very Bad Man and as a consequence everything he says must be ignored
Theeyeballsinthesky · 30/08/2026 14:42

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 30/08/2026 14:34

And yet zero evidence about the way Linehan has used it has been provided. Readers are apparently supposed to take it as read that

  1. he has used this term
  2. he has used it in some sort of ‘dog whistle’ way
  3. this makes him a Very Bad Man and as a consequence everything he says must be ignored

It's always the same isn't it

glinner said something intemperate ergo men are women and using PB on children is fine

GrimDamnFanjo · 30/08/2026 14:43

So disappointed in Ronson. I’ve bought and read his books for years. Being a journalist and not recognising the points GL raises is nonsensical.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 30/08/2026 14:48

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 30/08/2026 14:34

And yet zero evidence about the way Linehan has used it has been provided. Readers are apparently supposed to take it as read that

  1. he has used this term
  2. he has used it in some sort of ‘dog whistle’ way
  3. this makes him a Very Bad Man and as a consequence everything he says must be ignored

It's toddler level magical thinking isn't it? People are on here arguing with women about "bad words" that apparently mean something specially bad. 🙄

PerkyBlueZebra · 30/08/2026 15:09

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 30/08/2026 14:34

And yet zero evidence about the way Linehan has used it has been provided. Readers are apparently supposed to take it as read that

  1. he has used this term
  2. he has used it in some sort of ‘dog whistle’ way
  3. this makes him a Very Bad Man and as a consequence everything he says must be ignored

He uses it in the same vein as 4chan, an insult to those he views as woke and guilty of operating under an ethical framework they never question.

Graham sees his pre gender criticism, left-leaning days as something to be ashamed of and describes himself as a former NPC, especially when talking about his involvement with Gamergate.

If you search his X feed for NPC, you can see him using the term again and again and again, usually coupled with an insult. These aren't unusual:

"Apologise to your mother you fucking NPC"* *

"You shut up, you fucking NPC nobody. Apologise to your mother."

He uses other 4chan / redpill terms now

"Jolyon Maugham is no normie. He's transed his daughter"

This doesn't make him inherently bad; it's just embarrassing that a man nearing sixty would use these terms, especially given the cultural pond they draw from.

People are within their rights to find that kind of behaviour a barrier to taking him seriously.

Anyway, you'd be insane to quibble over whether he uses the term NPC. Given how he uses it and other GG terminology he now has in this lexicon, it's a fair assumption he has some alignment with those red-pill dunces, and as to whether this makes him bad or dismissible? That's a matter of opinion; make up your own mind

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 30/08/2026 15:16

PerkyBlueZebra · 30/08/2026 15:09

He uses it in the same vein as 4chan, an insult to those he views as woke and guilty of operating under an ethical framework they never question.

Graham sees his pre gender criticism, left-leaning days as something to be ashamed of and describes himself as a former NPC, especially when talking about his involvement with Gamergate.

If you search his X feed for NPC, you can see him using the term again and again and again, usually coupled with an insult. These aren't unusual:

"Apologise to your mother you fucking NPC"* *

"You shut up, you fucking NPC nobody. Apologise to your mother."

He uses other 4chan / redpill terms now

"Jolyon Maugham is no normie. He's transed his daughter"

This doesn't make him inherently bad; it's just embarrassing that a man nearing sixty would use these terms, especially given the cultural pond they draw from.

People are within their rights to find that kind of behaviour a barrier to taking him seriously.

Anyway, you'd be insane to quibble over whether he uses the term NPC. Given how he uses it and other GG terminology he now has in this lexicon, it's a fair assumption he has some alignment with those red-pill dunces, and as to whether this makes him bad or dismissible? That's a matter of opinion; make up your own mind

Given how he uses it and other GG terminology he now has in this lexicon, it's a fair assumption he has some alignment with those red-pill dunces

is it? Why?

I tend to find it safer not to ‘assume’ people’s views but to actually try to understand them