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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Polycule falls apart

392 replies

RoyalCorgi · 31/07/2026 08:54

I expect people remember that Heather Herbert (charged in relation to social media comments he made after Ann Widdecombe's death) is in a polycule with Sophie Molly (aka Sparkles, aka Euan Weddell) and someone called Poppybear.

Molly, I believe, is a witness for Jolyon Maugham in Sarah Phillimore's libel case against Maugham.

Poppybear has been posting some very indiscreet posts on BlueSky about both Molly and Herbert, and it looks, tragically, as if the polycule has fallen apart.

According to Poppybear, Herbert's comments about Widdecombe "painted a bullseye on all of us", and led to the police coming in and "invading" all their devices (whatever that means).

Also according to Poppybear, living with Sophie Molly is "like being permanently slapped around the face by pathological laziness unless it's something that grooms her ego."

Oh dear.

https://x.com/DogLoverOfPI/status/2082944747862188490

In a separate development, apparently Herbert has had his toxic kidney removed by the NHS so the money donated to the fundraiser is going to be used for something else:

https://x.com/WillyWoofter/status/2082494111555190875

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EveryoneIsPointingNow · 01/08/2026 14:00

SidewaysOtter · 01/08/2026 13:57

"Trans joy" in action, perhaps. Problem is, it never looks very...joyful which makes me wonder if they're trying to convince us or themselves.

Yes, the same with wee Ellen whatsername, the actress. She looks so bloody sad 🙁

Tallisker · 01/08/2026 14:39

Oh is the guidance due to be published on 5 Aug? Is that why he’s going to break the law very publicly? Hope Police Scotland are standing by.

SidewaysOtter · 01/08/2026 14:45

Tallisker · 01/08/2026 14:39

Oh is the guidance due to be published on 5 Aug? Is that why he’s going to break the law very publicly? Hope Police Scotland are standing by.

I think it's the day it takes effect, having had its 40 days of Parliamentary scrutiny.

SwirlyGates · 01/08/2026 15:21

murasaki · 01/08/2026 12:40

True. I managed a 10 hour transatlantic flight once, but then a) i was on my own and 15, and b) my fear of plane bogs overrode my need to go.

Couldn't do it now.

I did a school day-trip to London once without using the loo between leaving my house and returning to it. Also in my 20s an overnight train trip, it was perhaps about 12 hours, and I didn't want to lose my seat. Ah, those were the days, wish I could do that now, the constant trips to the loo piss me off big time!

murasaki · 01/08/2026 15:33

SidewaysOtter · 01/08/2026 14:45

I think it's the day it takes effect, having had its 40 days of Parliamentary scrutiny.

Yes, it's symbolic pissing from Euan.

Tallisker · 01/08/2026 15:34

SidewaysOtter · 01/08/2026 14:45

I think it's the day it takes effect, having had its 40 days of Parliamentary scrutiny.

Yes, comes into force, that’s what I meant. Thanks for confirmation 😊

AnAutumnCrow · 01/08/2026 15:38

SidewaysOtter · 01/08/2026 14:45

I think it's the day it takes effect, having had its 40 days of Parliamentary scrutiny.

Yes, the guidelines are sliding into those big ol’ DMs of life.

murasaki · 01/08/2026 15:46

I suspect he'll publish a post in how it all went swimmingly, with associated photos. As the liability lies with the shop or whatever rather than with him, I think. So if there isn't someone who complains, he gets away with it. I can't imagine a shop assistant telling him no.

BezMark · 01/08/2026 15:48

Yeah nah more trouble than it's worth!

murasaki · 01/08/2026 16:17

Well he can continue thinking it is fine. One day it very much won't be, and I hope it's soon.

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 01/08/2026 16:36

BiologicalRobot · 01/08/2026 12:59

Ten hours?? 😮 One of my greatest wishes is for a male bladder. Or a stallion one, they wee for ages!!

Edited

I managed 10 hours last week on a transatlantic flight, had the window seat and unfortunately a lady in the aisle seat with restricted mobility then had to wait till I was through immigration to find a toilet. Thankfully I've got an aisle seat on the way home.

BettyJoanPerske · 01/08/2026 16:57

GreyskySexRealistsky · 31/07/2026 11:05

I think he's 38 (!!)

Edited to add: actually, I read that a couple of years ago

Edited

38!? I'm 43 and they look old enough to be my grandmother!

EmpressaurusKitty · 01/08/2026 17:14

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 01/08/2026 16:36

I managed 10 hours last week on a transatlantic flight, had the window seat and unfortunately a lady in the aisle seat with restricted mobility then had to wait till I was through immigration to find a toilet. Thankfully I've got an aisle seat on the way home.

I don’t know how they’d stop it but surely that shouldn’t be allowed to happen.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/08/2026 17:16

BettyJoanPerske · 01/08/2026 16:57

38!? I'm 43 and they look old enough to be my grandmother!

They certainly must all have had tough paper rounds.

SabrinaThwaite · 01/08/2026 18:26

murasaki · 01/08/2026 15:33

Yes, it's symbolic pissing from Euan.

I guess it just makes him a strange wee loon.

AnAutumnCrow · 01/08/2026 18:49

BettyJoanPerske · 01/08/2026 16:57

38!? I'm 43 and they look old enough to be my grandmother!

The wain’s 40 now. The others are older.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 01/08/2026 20:24

Tallisker · 01/08/2026 14:39

Oh is the guidance due to be published on 5 Aug? Is that why he’s going to break the law very publicly? Hope Police Scotland are standing by.

He's trying to copy JKR's strategy that defanged the expectation the Scottish hate speech law could be weaponised against women speaking the truth about men who claim public identities of women. Not an original idea in their little heads.

It won't work though. Because an individual man choosing to go in the ladies bogs isn't in itself an offense. The offense is in a provider pretending something is single sex when it isn't.

So, matey-boy goes in, takes his victory photo and leaves again. No one saw him so no one tried to stop him. The world continues and the law is still the same. The fact he has evidence he was there doesn't impose any obligation on anyone to arrest or sanction him after the event. At most it would be a warning to the provider they need to be clearer about their single sex spaces.

Or maybe someone is there and complains. The service provider asks him to leave. If he does, no harm no foul. Again, the law carries on.

Or he doesn't leave. Now there are plenty of next steps the service provider has, but critically none of them are "because he is a trans", they are because he chose not to leave when asked. And a woman causing problems would be in the same boat.

In other words, the obligation the law places is not on him, and unless he behaves unreasonably nor is the risk of prosecution.

Whereas with the hate speech law, the obligation is on the individual. So JKR created a situation where someone with very deep pockets to defend herself triggered a test case to see whether simply saying a man is a man when that man wants to be called a woman was enough to fall foul of the law or not.

And the police decided it wasn't.

Soapy I think doesn't understand this. So he's trying to ape the strategy without realising it doesn't get him anywhere.

SwirlyGates · 01/08/2026 20:52

BettyJoanPerske · 01/08/2026 16:57

38!? I'm 43 and they look old enough to be my grandmother!

That's what happens when men dress as women.

RoyalCorgi · 01/08/2026 20:53

This is interesting. It's another post from poppybear. Apparently people from Bash Back have been sharing information with Sophie Molly, and Molly has been sharing information to the police about other members of the polycule. It's the first confirmation we've had of a link between polycule members and Bash Back.

Polycule falls apart
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Lalgarh · 01/08/2026 21:34

Oh yes it's all getting vengeful

https://nitter.net/canthelpmenow7/status/2083298105848447219#m

"Lee weigh"

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/08/2026 22:15

He sounds like he’s always loathed him.

Lalgarh · 01/08/2026 22:20

Particularly #BeKind of him to doxx Mollys mental health breakdowns and suicidal behaviour

SidewaysOtter · 01/08/2026 22:30

Lalgarh · 01/08/2026 21:34

Oh yes it's all getting vengeful

https://nitter.net/canthelpmenow7/status/2083298105848447219#m

"Lee weigh"

😂

Oh dear, there's trouble at t'mill. How terribly sad. How incredibly...predictable.

murasaki · 01/08/2026 22:59

It would take a heart of stone not to laugh.

Im totally here for the polycule infighting.

UtopiaPlanitia · 01/08/2026 23:04

FlirtsWithRhinos · 01/08/2026 20:24

He's trying to copy JKR's strategy that defanged the expectation the Scottish hate speech law could be weaponised against women speaking the truth about men who claim public identities of women. Not an original idea in their little heads.

It won't work though. Because an individual man choosing to go in the ladies bogs isn't in itself an offense. The offense is in a provider pretending something is single sex when it isn't.

So, matey-boy goes in, takes his victory photo and leaves again. No one saw him so no one tried to stop him. The world continues and the law is still the same. The fact he has evidence he was there doesn't impose any obligation on anyone to arrest or sanction him after the event. At most it would be a warning to the provider they need to be clearer about their single sex spaces.

Or maybe someone is there and complains. The service provider asks him to leave. If he does, no harm no foul. Again, the law carries on.

Or he doesn't leave. Now there are plenty of next steps the service provider has, but critically none of them are "because he is a trans", they are because he chose not to leave when asked. And a woman causing problems would be in the same boat.

In other words, the obligation the law places is not on him, and unless he behaves unreasonably nor is the risk of prosecution.

Whereas with the hate speech law, the obligation is on the individual. So JKR created a situation where someone with very deep pockets to defend herself triggered a test case to see whether simply saying a man is a man when that man wants to be called a woman was enough to fall foul of the law or not.

And the police decided it wasn't.

Soapy I think doesn't understand this. So he's trying to ape the strategy without realising it doesn't get him anywhere.

I like your detailed explanation.

But maybe he does realise this and is trying to do an activism that he won’t actually be arrested for 😁 He’s all about pointless defiance.