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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

'Arm the Dolls'

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WrongKindOfFeminist · 05/07/2026 10:23

Pictured is Natacha Kennedy of Goldsmiths.

T shirt says 'Arm the Dolls'

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AimsAndObjectives · 05/07/2026 20:26

GreyskySexRealistsky · 05/07/2026 20:10

We damn well will "police" language and identity, thanks.

Male people are NOT women, NOT female, NOT girls. Find your own words. Ours are taken.

And we police with watertight arguments and the law, not with 'arm the dolls' threats, piss protests and splintery rolling pins.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 05/07/2026 20:27

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murasaki · 05/07/2026 20:28

He policed it himself earlier! Honestly, it's ridiculous.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 20:34

murasaki · 05/07/2026 20:28

He policed it himself earlier! Honestly, it's ridiculous.

She*

I said a woman is an adult human female and doesn’t include men, and that is perfectly consistent with me position.

NullaEffugium · 05/07/2026 20:35

RoyalCorgi · 05/07/2026 10:38

I think it means exactly what it says: men who pretend to be women should be allowed to carry weapons so they can assault women who don't want them in their spaces. What else can it mean?

I looked it up. Apparently it’s from an anarchist library post by Sarah Harpy
https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/sarah-harpy-arm-the-dolls

AimsAndObjectives · 05/07/2026 20:36

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 20:34

She*

I said a woman is an adult human female and doesn’t include men, and that is perfectly consistent with me position.

I'm not playing this game. Bye.

LostMyPantsAtGatwickAirport · 05/07/2026 20:45

It’s so….male.

Theunchosenone · 05/07/2026 20:51

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 20:34

She*

I said a woman is an adult human female and doesn’t include men, and that is perfectly consistent with me position.

Sorry mate. You said yourself a woman is an adult human female. Therefore no male can be a woman by your very definition. The pronouns for those of the male sex are he/him/his, therefore PP was correct.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 21:00

Theunchosenone · 05/07/2026 20:51

Sorry mate. You said yourself a woman is an adult human female. Therefore no male can be a woman by your very definition. The pronouns for those of the male sex are he/him/his, therefore PP was correct.

Why is calling us mate always your go to to try hurt us? I don’t know why you’d think I care what some random on the internet says.

You said yourself a woman is an adult human female. Therefore no male can be a woman by your very definition
This very much depends on the definition you’re using. Biologically, no. Legally, yes.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 05/07/2026 21:02

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 21:00

Why is calling us mate always your go to to try hurt us? I don’t know why you’d think I care what some random on the internet says.

You said yourself a woman is an adult human female. Therefore no male can be a woman by your very definition
This very much depends on the definition you’re using. Biologically, no. Legally, yes.

man alive

how do genderwangers think babies are made?

'male' and 'female' mean real things

Theunchosenone · 05/07/2026 21:04

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 21:00

Why is calling us mate always your go to to try hurt us? I don’t know why you’d think I care what some random on the internet says.

You said yourself a woman is an adult human female. Therefore no male can be a woman by your very definition
This very much depends on the definition you’re using. Biologically, no. Legally, yes.

I call everyone mate. You’re not special. And noooo… a womn is an adult human female. Not a male who altered his birth certificate. The fact he had to alter his birth certificate proves he isn’t a woman Nice attempt at a gotcha though.

rotoscope · 05/07/2026 21:07

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 21:00

Why is calling us mate always your go to to try hurt us? I don’t know why you’d think I care what some random on the internet says.

You said yourself a woman is an adult human female. Therefore no male can be a woman by your very definition
This very much depends on the definition you’re using. Biologically, no. Legally, yes.

What is the purpose of coming to a feminist forum and insisting that "female" is merely an identity that anyone male can appropriate through legal means?

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 05/07/2026 21:08

wanting to spend your whole life pretending to be something you are not and can never be is just such a massive, pointless waste of time.

everyone can tell what sex you (general you) are

and in the unlikely event that they can't, you've successfully deceived people - for normal, healthy people that does not feel good

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 05/07/2026 21:15

NullaEffugium · 05/07/2026 20:35

I looked it up. Apparently it’s from an anarchist library post by Sarah Harpy
https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/sarah-harpy-arm-the-dolls

This is about the leftovers of the women’s and queer movements losing access to our reproductive labor

Transwomen don't perform any reproductive labour. Only women can perform reproductive labour, by gestating and bearing children. This is a textbook example of a) telling a big lie and hoping it will stick, b) colonising and appropriating women's language, and c) DARVO, as these men who have parasitised feminism try to claim that feminists have parasitised them.

In Harlem recently a young trans woman of color, Jaia Cruz, was attacked by a man in a deli. The man struck Jaia repeatedly, calling her a faggot and a tranny. Jaia stabbed him in self defense and her attacker died.

I bolded the passive voice, blame-avoiding, reframing language because it's so telling of how the writer is a man and sees the situation through a male lens. Cruz's attacker didn't "die", Cruz killed him by escalating the situation from a weaponless assault to a knifing and killing his attacker in what English law would regard as manslaughter, using a weapon that would get anyone, male or female, arrested and charged just for carrying it in public in England. Unless New York has stand-your-ground laws that apply in public places, Cruz is rightly going to jail for doing that, as should anyone, regardless of sex, colour, or anything else.

A woman would probably not have responded in this way. A woman would have tried to defuse the situation, appealed for help from the deli staff, or fled.

I'm not claiming that Cruz deserved to be assaulted, he didn't. I'm highlighting how men reach for violent retaliation, whether that's wise or not, and women don't. I'm highlighting how the writer considers lethal retaliation to be a right, framed as an act of self-defence, in a situation that Cruz could have run away from, and how this is a very typical male way of thinking about threats posed by others.

This writer is either utterly deluded in the clinical sense, or else an utter sociopath who takes pleasure in lying to people.

Helleofabore · 05/07/2026 21:17

I think any male person who demands, even passively, that others have to support someone’s subjective belief that doesn’t reflect material reality using language for female people for themselves as male people never think the consequences through.

If the language that used to be unique to female people now include male people in any way, the words simply mean ‘all people’. There is no way to escape this. If a male person demands that people use female words now include them in any way, the words they are using have become meaningless.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 21:21

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 05/07/2026 21:08

wanting to spend your whole life pretending to be something you are not and can never be is just such a massive, pointless waste of time.

everyone can tell what sex you (general you) are

and in the unlikely event that they can't, you've successfully deceived people - for normal, healthy people that does not feel good

I wouldn’t say I’m pretending at all. I present myself in the way that I want to, and I’m not responsible for how people perceive me.

KilkennyCats · 05/07/2026 21:24

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 21:21

I wouldn’t say I’m pretending at all. I present myself in the way that I want to, and I’m not responsible for how people perceive me.

What toilet do you use? Do you request/demand opposite sex pronouns?

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 21:26

KilkennyCats · 05/07/2026 21:24

What toilet do you use? Do you request/demand opposite sex pronouns?

I use neutral spaces whenever possible. I’ve never told anyone what pronouns to use for me.

SirChenjins · 05/07/2026 21:29

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 21:26

I use neutral spaces whenever possible. I’ve never told anyone what pronouns to use for me.

What do you do when unisex facilities aren't available?

SabrinaThwaite · 05/07/2026 21:36

I really ought to put my LinkedIn photos through some filters, given the results this ‘doll’ has managed.

'Arm the Dolls'
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BernardBlacksMolluscs · 05/07/2026 21:38

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 21:21

I wouldn’t say I’m pretending at all. I present myself in the way that I want to, and I’m not responsible for how people perceive me.

As long as you understand that you’re a man dressing and presenting in a way more usually associated with femininity than masculinity then fill your boots

it’s when you start using stuff that’s for women or expecting others to behave as if they can’t tell you’re a man that you start causing a problem

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 21:43

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 05/07/2026 21:38

As long as you understand that you’re a man dressing and presenting in a way more usually associated with femininity than masculinity then fill your boots

it’s when you start using stuff that’s for women or expecting others to behave as if they can’t tell you’re a man that you start causing a problem

I understand I am biologically male.

expecting others to behave as if they can’t tell you’re a man that you start causing a problem
I’ve never had to insist anyone refer to me as a woman or call me she.

SirChenjins · 05/07/2026 21:45

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 21:43

I understand I am biologically male.

expecting others to behave as if they can’t tell you’re a man that you start causing a problem
I’ve never had to insist anyone refer to me as a woman or call me she.

So you know to use the male facilities when there are no unisex ones available?

murasaki · 05/07/2026 21:46

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 05/07/2026 21:43

I understand I am biologically male.

expecting others to behave as if they can’t tell you’re a man that you start causing a problem
I’ve never had to insist anyone refer to me as a woman or call me she.

You corrected my use of 'he' to a 'she ' upthread, so yes you do try to compel language. Do try to remember what you write, it might help.

Theunchosenone · 05/07/2026 21:47

murasaki · 05/07/2026 21:46

You corrected my use of 'he' to a 'she ' upthread, so yes you do try to compel language. Do try to remember what you write, it might help.

Thibg we were supposed to moss that one