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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Middle aged man dressing up in girls school uniform

99 replies

mrshoho · 08/09/2025 17:32

The middle-aged man was filmed wearing a school blazer, skirt and tights while sitting next to a pink rucksack in the Cotteridge area of Birmingham. #DailyExpress

This is too weird. I don't know if it's an official school uniform. He appears at the end of the school day hanging around smoking. In the old days he'd have been moved along. Surely this can't be acceptable.

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deadpan · 08/09/2025 17:39

My rule of thumb is, if society thinks my straight middle aged husband shouldn't be doing it, then neither should another grown man however he identifies.

Plethorapeach · 08/09/2025 17:41

For old times sake……

You are terrorising the most marginal group in our society. Middle aged male school girls need to be protected from your hate. I’m just like all the rest of those people who think absolutely nothing to see here. What is wrong with you???

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 08/09/2025 17:43

Fucking creep

Wbeezer · 08/09/2025 17:43

There’s no explanation for that behaviour that does involve some degree of a sexual fetish.

Gunhildthegreat · 08/09/2025 17:47

They say they dress as the gender and age range they are attracted to which is why so often you see middle aged men dressing as teenagers or even younger.

PennyAnnLane · 08/09/2025 17:49

When I was at secondary school in the mid 90s there was a man who dressed like this and had built a sort of ‘den’ in some bushes on a footpath that led to the secondary school and was not near any roads. Numerous adults reported him to the police and were told yes he’s a bit weird but it’s not illegal. He then went on to rape an 11 year old girl on her way to school.

LayeredlikeanOnion · 08/09/2025 17:52

I saw this earlier and was disgusted by it
They walk among us

GoldenGate · 08/09/2025 17:54

Doesn't seem long since shame never mind certain police action (both absent now) would stop these men passing their front door. I'm usually very each-to-their-own but this is clear cut. Publicly show who you're attracted to yeh.

Hoppinggreen · 08/09/2025 17:56

Shouldn't the Police be acting against people like this rather than somone missing a letter of somones name?

Clohow · 08/09/2025 17:59

PennyAnnLane · 08/09/2025 17:49

When I was at secondary school in the mid 90s there was a man who dressed like this and had built a sort of ‘den’ in some bushes on a footpath that led to the secondary school and was not near any roads. Numerous adults reported him to the police and were told yes he’s a bit weird but it’s not illegal. He then went on to rape an 11 year old girl on her way to school.

Awful, how terrifying for the little girl.

Bodypumpmum · 08/09/2025 18:00

whewwww he needs locking up!

wiminny · 08/09/2025 18:23

Is he positioned near a school exit. If he is that's definitely sinister and police should move him on, but if he's just at any old bus stop I suppose there's no rule against cross dressing in public - other than near kids.

Disgusting pervert. No chance of him putting a boy's uniform on is there?

SinnerBoy · 08/09/2025 18:28

So, the Police pulled out all the stops to find and charge at least two gimps, but meh this. He's deeply creepy and I cannot believe that he has good intentions. If the Police leave him to it, it could end badly for him.

Pleasantsort · 08/09/2025 18:30

In plain sight. 🤮 They have no shame anymore.

GoldenGate · 08/09/2025 18:35

wiminny · 08/09/2025 18:23

Is he positioned near a school exit. If he is that's definitely sinister and police should move him on, but if he's just at any old bus stop I suppose there's no rule against cross dressing in public - other than near kids.

Disgusting pervert. No chance of him putting a boy's uniform on is there?

Theres no law against crossdressing fullstop or the jails would be overrun, not that they aren't already. However there "may" be a law on wearing uniforms your are not entitled to or outside the environment they are intended.

breakfastdinnerandtea · 08/09/2025 18:37

I saw this earlier. Most of the mainstream media has his face blurred out though so I’d just be careful of sharing the picture just in case. I don’t know why they’ve blurred him.
There’s definitely something not right with him. From the picture I saw this morning he was sat with schoolgirls wearing the exact same thing, almost like he was expecting to get on the bus with them. It made it all seem a bit sinister.

PennyAnnLane · 08/09/2025 18:43

Clohow · 08/09/2025 17:59

Awful, how terrifying for the little girl.

It was awful, I remember at the time she didn’t know what to do so she just went home and the school called her mum at work because she hadn’t turned up for registration. My mum had to sit us down and explain what had happened and we were all told not to walk to school alone after that.

Columbidae · 08/09/2025 18:44

There was a man - I think it was earlier this year - that was dressing up in a girls school uniform and catching the public bus at the same time as the school kids. He would also hang around the school gates and followed the kids into the school on one occasion.

There was a lot of discussion online and in the community and I think the police talked to him, but I'm not sure anything was done to actively stop him. I wonder if it's the same person.

PennyAnnLane · 08/09/2025 19:53

CatMarble · 08/09/2025 19:45

Yeah, they pose no threat…until they do. I’m glad to see lots of people reporting him and circulating pictures, it restores my faith that people actually do know what these men are up to, even if they pretend not to.

SinnerBoy · 08/09/2025 19:56

Exactly, Penny, until they do.

Wetoldyousaurus · 08/09/2025 19:56

This horrible man has found a way to sexually harass young girls on their way to school. To remove any sense of pride in themselves as young women getting an education and forming community. It’s just another way for a man to humiliate girls. The shame must change sides yet again. Shame on this man. Shame on a society that allows a man to do this with impunity and even praise. It’s the same old tired story.

DialSquare · 08/09/2025 19:59

CatMarble · 08/09/2025 19:45

This is near me and I remember everyone taking about it at the time.

I find this sort of behaviour really sinister. There is no good reason for a grown man to be doing this.

LeftieRightsHoarder · 08/09/2025 20:06

He appears at the end of the school day hanging around smoking. In the old days he'd have been moved along.

We can thank Stonewall, Queer Theory and (no longer Gay) Pride for opening the door to sex fetishists of all kinds. Once it became unacceptable to say men can’t become women, we were ordered to practise ‘acceptance without exception’. Is anyone surprised that men like this now feel — and are — perfectly safe advertising their sex fetishes to children?

MinnieCauldwell · 08/09/2025 20:11

A certain artist dresses in a similar vein and gets lauded for it.