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Men are pushing women over in the street - as a trend

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IwantToRetire · 12/08/2025 16:56

Experts fear that new types of misogyny and harassment – including spitting and pushing women over – are taking hold in the UK as they move offline

This type of targeted shoulder barging has a name: butsukari otoko. The term, which originated on the streets of Japan in 2018, describes a type of violence against women that is done in a crowded public space, most commonly train stations.

It could at first appear accidental, but it is actually intentional; it is gendered (men doing it to women), and done for misogynistic reasons.

Researchers fear it is gaining traction in the UK, spreading from online videos to real-life encounters. “It’s come out of a subculture that existed years ago in Japan,” says Megan Hughes, a researcher at the Alan Turing Institute’s Centre for Emerging Technology and Security, which tracks online extremism. “It is something that’s been around for a long time, and people are now recognising it and are speaking out, but it’s a really difficult thing to track.

“They are sometimes subtle collisions, which are designed to appear accidental. They’re making victims second-guess intent or motive, and that then makes it really difficult for people wanting to report a crime. So it’s really hard for us to monitor.”

Street harassment isn’t new, but many believe it’s getting worse. A poll by Zencity, which surveyed 1600 women, found that 69 per cent said they had first or secondhand experience of women being ill-treated within the last 12 months; 75 per cent of women surveyed said violence and harassment was a serious problem and asked whether it had got worse in the last five years – 42 per cent agreed, and 30 per cent thought it was the same.

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Men are pushing over women in the street as a trend – it happened to me

Experts fear that new types of misogyny and harassment – including spitting and pushing women over – are taking hold in the UK as they move offline

https://inews.co.uk/inews-lifestyle/men-pushing-over-women-street-trend-3845874?srsltid=AfmBOoq29csw2CYnH2QwNMgW8lX9zoYcwXTwbx8cTQP2Fr1LzvR33aT5

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IwantToRetire · 19/07/2026 01:20

Man pushed woman off bus at Temple Meads

At around 4pm on Wednesday, March 25, an unknown man pushed himself against a woman

He followed the woman, aged in her 30s, before forcefully pushing her off the bus, Avon and Somerset Police said.

https://www.bristolpost.co.uk/news/bristol-news/man-pushed-woman-bus-temple-11064756

Man pushed woman off bus at Temple Meads

Police are appealing for information

https://www.bristolpost.co.uk/news/bristol-news/man-pushed-woman-bus-temple-11064756

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 19/07/2026 01:38

IwantToRetire · 20/06/2026 18:54

Have just seen this come up on a news feed and suspect those who dont have well known relatives just dont get their story told:

" ... had a "long and emotional night" in A&E after his daughter Lilla, 26, was hit by an e-bike in the Peckham area of London.

"Hopefully there is CCTV. Once he saw the ambulance arrive (2mins) and the crowd gathering – he scarpered. Her sisters were with her. She is badly injured but now at home. It could have been so much worse. We are incredibly lucky."

Despite the good news, Campbell said the experience in A&E was made harder by an incident in which a drunken man entered the room Lilla was resting in and exposed himself. ... "

Nicky Campbell’s daughter ‘badly injured’ in hit-and-run incident - Yahoo News UK

For the sixth or seventh time this week am just thinking more and more men shouldn't be allowed out unsupervised.

Men shouldn't be allowed out and women should be allowed to carry knives and pistols upon satisfactory completion of appropriate training in their handling.

WearyAuldWumman · 19/07/2026 10:11

The Bristol incident is particularly hellish given that the perpetrator actively followed the victim. I hope that there's CCTV to help identify him before he selects another victim.

I've just seen another e-bike incident in Fife. I think I might have mentioned the previous one upthread? A women in her 90s was knocked over and seriously injured in Lochore. That case has not yet gone to court.

This one is from my home town - in this case, two police officers were injured, but the teenage boy responsible kept revving his vehicle in spite of the fact that a police woman was under the wheels and yelling for him to stop.

The sentence is laughable - points on his non-existent licence and referral to the Children's Panel.

DuesToTheDirt · 20/07/2026 21:30

oldtiredcyclist · 15/06/2026 11:12

This is the guy who pushed the female cyclist off the sea wall on the Isle of Wight.

www.countypress.co.uk/news/26150108.isle-wight-man-shoved-cyclist-off-wall-court-shoplifting/

He thought it would be funny apparently. I'm sure his victim found it hilarious. Suspended sentence, some rehab and a fine.

https://www.countypress.co.uk/news/26270121.isle-wight-man-pushed-cyclist-seawall-spared-jail/

No immediate jail for man who pushed woman in her 60s over seawall 'for a laugh'

The 39-year-old's case went before Isle of Wight magistrates.

https://www.countypress.co.uk/news/26270121.isle-wight-man-pushed-cyclist-seawall-spared-jail/

MaIeficent · 20/07/2026 22:44

Itisallgoingtobeok · 12/08/2025 18:56

I work in a male dominated environment and I was thinking the other day that we all used to rub along quite well, but over the last year or so I have felt things shift ever so slightly with aggression in meetings ramping up. It’s never overt, but there is a lot of subtle “putting women in their place” type stuff happening. Mulling over what to do about it…

Pushing women over is on another level though. It’s terrifying and things only tend to get worse.

I think part of this is just the fact that men don't treat us like delicate princesses nowadays. They still treat us better than they treat each other, mind.

thestudio · 20/07/2026 22:49

I'm just trying to imagine the internal dialogue that a man who has justified this to himself has had.

I mean, wtf.

MaIeficent · 20/07/2026 23:08

It's kinda like the happy slapping craze of a few decades ago.

BeMoreBear · 20/07/2026 23:19

MaIeficent · 20/07/2026 22:44

I think part of this is just the fact that men don't treat us like delicate princesses nowadays. They still treat us better than they treat each other, mind.

I don't think pushing a woman off a bus, into a road, or off a sea wall is just because 'men don't treat us like delicate princesses'. It's violent, thuggish, misogynistic behaviour and should be punished harshly.

There's a long space between treating women like delicate flowers and shoving them into oncoming traffic. Most men who exist in the middle seem quite capable of treating women as they themselves would wish to be treated. The ones at the violent end of that line should be in prison.

moto748e · 20/07/2026 23:34

There is some awful rhetoric out there on SM, and reports like that from the poster upthread about a recent deterioration of her workplace regarding working with male colleagues, far from the first, alongside this recent spate of incidents, does strongly suggest, most worryingly, that things are actually getting worse.

mumumental · 20/07/2026 23:43

That has never happened to me, but I was shoved in to a phone box as an older teen (17?) and justled around roughly by half a dozen young men. It was in a busy bus station too. Nobody did anything about it.

oldtiredcyclist · 21/07/2026 10:10

DuesToTheDirt · 20/07/2026 21:30

He thought it would be funny apparently. I'm sure his victim found it hilarious. Suspended sentence, some rehab and a fine.

https://www.countypress.co.uk/news/26270121.isle-wight-man-pushed-cyclist-seawall-spared-jail/

Dear lord, what kind of message does that sentance give out. What is he going to do next time?

DuesToTheDirt · 21/07/2026 10:13

oldtiredcyclist · 21/07/2026 10:10

Dear lord, what kind of message does that sentance give out. What is he going to do next time?

Honestly, I'm starting to get really annoyed at the sentencing in this country. Violent crime, rape, nothing. Shoplifting, the police don't even come in the first place. But dodgy tweets? Prison for you.

I'm starting to feel like I must be a rabid right-winger.

lcakethereforeIam · 21/07/2026 10:27

Reading this thread reminded me of this I saw the other day

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cglj43pn525o

Obviously I wasn't in the court or privy to the deliberations of the jury but I was aghast when I read the article. It reminded me of the other recent case of a 16 yo boy who stabbed and killed a 9 yo girl but wasn't even found guilty of manslaughter.

Posed headshot image of vicki williams wearing red blouse and smiling. She has long blonde hair

Milford Haven pupil, 16, not guilty of trying to murder teacher

History teacher Vicki Williams was stabbed in her classroom at Milford Haven Comprehensive School.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cglj43pn525o

TreesAtSea · 21/07/2026 10:36

BeMoreBear · 20/07/2026 23:19

I don't think pushing a woman off a bus, into a road, or off a sea wall is just because 'men don't treat us like delicate princesses'. It's violent, thuggish, misogynistic behaviour and should be punished harshly.

There's a long space between treating women like delicate flowers and shoving them into oncoming traffic. Most men who exist in the middle seem quite capable of treating women as they themselves would wish to be treated. The ones at the violent end of that line should be in prison.

Exactly. I'm 60 now and have never been treated like a delicate princess in my entire life. But in the last ten years or so casual male aggression in public places has definitely increased. When I'm out and about I'm almost always alone, so that makes me even more of a target. There is no way that man on the IoW thought it was funny, except to men who hate women, that is.

Strangerthanfiction123 · 21/07/2026 12:24

An ex army bloke with royal connections was recently interviewed or arrested , haven’t seen any follow up, but at least case still open?

oldtiredcyclist · 21/07/2026 13:24

lcakethereforeIam · 21/07/2026 10:27

Reading this thread reminded me of this I saw the other day

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cglj43pn525o

Obviously I wasn't in the court or privy to the deliberations of the jury but I was aghast when I read the article. It reminded me of the other recent case of a 16 yo boy who stabbed and killed a 9 yo girl but wasn't even found guilty of manslaughter.

That is an absolute disgrace.

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