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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Men are pushing women over in the street - as a trend

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IwantToRetire · 12/08/2025 16:56

Experts fear that new types of misogyny and harassment – including spitting and pushing women over – are taking hold in the UK as they move offline

This type of targeted shoulder barging has a name: butsukari otoko. The term, which originated on the streets of Japan in 2018, describes a type of violence against women that is done in a crowded public space, most commonly train stations.

It could at first appear accidental, but it is actually intentional; it is gendered (men doing it to women), and done for misogynistic reasons.

Researchers fear it is gaining traction in the UK, spreading from online videos to real-life encounters. “It’s come out of a subculture that existed years ago in Japan,” says Megan Hughes, a researcher at the Alan Turing Institute’s Centre for Emerging Technology and Security, which tracks online extremism. “It is something that’s been around for a long time, and people are now recognising it and are speaking out, but it’s a really difficult thing to track.

“They are sometimes subtle collisions, which are designed to appear accidental. They’re making victims second-guess intent or motive, and that then makes it really difficult for people wanting to report a crime. So it’s really hard for us to monitor.”

Street harassment isn’t new, but many believe it’s getting worse. A poll by Zencity, which surveyed 1600 women, found that 69 per cent said they had first or secondhand experience of women being ill-treated within the last 12 months; 75 per cent of women surveyed said violence and harassment was a serious problem and asked whether it had got worse in the last five years – 42 per cent agreed, and 30 per cent thought it was the same.

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Men are pushing over women in the street as a trend – it happened to me

Experts fear that new types of misogyny and harassment – including spitting and pushing women over – are taking hold in the UK as they move offline

https://inews.co.uk/inews-lifestyle/men-pushing-over-women-street-trend-3845874?srsltid=AfmBOoq29csw2CYnH2QwNMgW8lX9zoYcwXTwbx8cTQP2Fr1LzvR33aT5

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Bobbymoore123 · 11/03/2026 14:07

IwantToRetire · 12/08/2025 18:58

Well clearly you dont live in an inner city area that has been colonised by the righteous green, rainbow, invaders that are ruining the area.

As you haven't experienced you cant tell me I haven't.

You are the one who is being ridiculous in thinking your knowledge of the world and your experiences are the only real ones.

You sound ill, go touch grass and talk to somebody face-to-face.

IwantToRetire · 11/03/2026 17:29

Bobbymoore123 · 11/03/2026 14:07

You sound ill, go touch grass and talk to somebody face-to-face.

Honestly - what a silly remark.

And as everyone who is in touch with reality knows that the over the garden fence convesations are the ones that reflect the reality of a neighbourhood. And this is a common theme.

And in a more depressing way, as it usuallly means someone who is isolated and wanting support, on the forum Next Door.

And even reflected in academic reports, of which a recent one said this was exactly what people in areas undergoing regeneration felt.

Still you probably live in Disney Land as apart from someone living on the moon, you sound totally out of touch.

And really peverse to pick out a comment from months ago as your only response to the entire thread.

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Bertiebiscuit · 11/03/2026 21:22

I was going from Tottenham court road Lizzie station to Central line, in the tunnel, a youngish bloke barged into me, swore at me and threatened to tip his can of drink over me. Luckily for me he didn't actually do it - i reported it to a female member of TFL staff when i got to the exit gate, happily she was excellent and made me feel much better, i was really shaken up. WTF is wrong with men?They really shouldn't be allowed out except under female supervision.

DontStopMe · 11/03/2026 21:33

That's terrible, Bertiebiscuit. As you said, what is wrong with these men? Did TFL have security cameras in the tunnel?

W0tnow · 15/06/2026 10:42

Oh wow. I’ve never forgotten that incident, oddly I was thinking about it yesterday!

SapphireSeptember · 15/06/2026 10:45

I remember this happening to a young woman I was speaking to, a man just barged straight into her even though there was plenty of room on the path to go round. Twat.

I also had a man ride his bike into me while I was pregnant. I turned round and clearly looked like I was going to punch him because he apologised. (I wanted to, but his young son on the back and my desire to not miss the bus I needed to catch stopped me.) But I still think it was deliberate as it was a wide path. Definitely an arsehole. There was that poor woman who was knocked over a few months ago, she went into labour and her baby was born seriously ill.

Wasn't there a spate of women being pushed off subway platforms in New York a few years ago?

SapphireSeptember · 15/06/2026 10:47

@misscockerspaniel Hooray! About bloody time!

DontStopMe · 15/06/2026 10:51

Wow! Has someone given the Metropolitan police a long-needed kick up the arse? First the Wimbledon School driver, now the Putney Pusher.

W0tnow · 15/06/2026 10:58

I wonder what the ‘new information’ was?

AClassicTrenchcoat · 15/06/2026 11:03

That’a amazing. If it is him I hope they go in hard on him. This could have been a tragedy. Would he have even stopped if she had been hit by the bus?

mrshoho · 15/06/2026 11:04

Finally! Thanks for sharing this news.

ArabellaScott · 15/06/2026 11:08

Holy fuck. I hope that woman is okay, must have been terrified.

mrshoho · 15/06/2026 11:08

I get the impression back then they had much clearer cctv images than was shown to the public. Be very interesting to see the court case unfold.

oldtiredcyclist · 15/06/2026 11:12

This is the guy who pushed the female cyclist off the sea wall on the Isle of Wight.

www.countypress.co.uk/news/26150108.isle-wight-man-shoved-cyclist-off-wall-court-shoplifting/

Inthezone5578 · 15/06/2026 11:22

I was pushed at a bar in a rather well-to-do hotel. There were people staying who were off on a Christmas do. I walked to the bar to wait for my turn and this bloke shoved me and said oi, dont fucking try and push in. I lost it. I said oh, you're a charming cunt aren't you. I was a regular at said hotel and was served immediately with apologies madam added. This was a big bloke. I'm 5 foot and small build. And was alone. If they will do it in a public safe space like that then there's no hope.

SapphireSeptember · 15/06/2026 12:57

@oldtiredcyclist Well he sounds charming and delightful. Hmm Horrible man! That poor woman could have been killed.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 15/06/2026 13:02

That's excellent news about the Putney man. Presumably they've got clear evidence after all this time.

BettyFilous · 15/06/2026 13:22

Perhaps they can place him there from his Strava and mobile phone records.

JenniferBooth · 15/06/2026 13:44

Great news About time

MrsTerryPratchett · 15/06/2026 13:49

Good news that they’ve found him. Hope they throw the book at him (doubt it).

AgentPidge · 15/06/2026 13:51

They've arrested him for GBH! Not attempted murder... Will be interesting to see what happens.

StrongPoison · 15/06/2026 17:09

9 years ago, it feels like just a few! I've no doubt he has been an abusive twat to other women in the meantime.

Greyskybluesky · 15/06/2026 17:21

"The suspect was detained today at his £1.4 million home in west London.
A director at a private bank, he is a decorated former British Army officer who served in several major conflicts."