I don't have time to look at the posts of all the people who've quoted me.
But the problem with all your transphobic flapping is that you're imagining all these situations and people from other cultural backgrounds being limited etc. etc. And that's all they actually are - imaginary people and situations. They aren't actual reality, you're pretending to be on the side of theoretical situations of theoretical people and none of it bears any resemblance to anything that's actually happened, it just sounds like it might be plausible.
I'm yet to actually meet any woman who refuses to be in a space with ANY men or trans people because they've been raped or had some other kind of bad experience. And I know a lot of people who have been raped or sexually assaulted.
And that's the real privilege here - that you're making up plausible situations that other people could theoretically be involved in when you actually have no clue and none of these things have actually happened.