Cake I appreciate the link. I really hope we can hold onto warmth, joy and humour like this.
The thud to me, was that something has been strained for a long time, people have buttoned their lips, stayed out of it “this isn’t my business or area of expertise- I’m bound to get it wrong if I’m not politically correct”.
Like when female pimps are wheeled out to represent pimps as a group, in order to fight against feminists, a lot of people think “ah it’s just a load of women squabbling between themselves - wake me up when there’s any point in looking”.
Suddenly, last weekend, it became obvious that it isn’t just “women squabbling amongst themselves” and that the LGBTQIIA++ isn’t just a group of feminised, harmless males and equally harmless women.
Instead people are seeing that there are violent, male thugs who would stoop as low as punching older women in the face, terrorising and screaming at women, banding together to create a cacophony so women’s voices can’t be heard.
The strain of all the people holding back, buttoning lips, being polite and civilised, allowing things to resolve diplomatically against this insanely demanding, authoritarian group was stretched too far. I think something collectively snapped.