Exactly. For some, all a little girl has to do is pick up a toy dinosaur and oh my god, a boy. I was a girl who liked rock music, wrestling, sci-fi, video games and skateboarding. Still a girl though. I'd have half the bloody internet transing me had it been around growing up. 
Thank fuck it wasn't. I now have a daughter, nearly 3. I sure hope this sort of bollocks is firmly knocked on the head when she's older.
Totally agree about the need for likes, validation, it's like a generation of people pursuing the need for being affirmed and celebrated every step of the way. Never told no. Any time something is raised that makes them feel the slightest bit uncomfortable, or has them questioning themselves they completely go off on one. They're so fragile and blinkered, they have no resilience, it's not good to see 