Quite a lot of women are affected when well meaning twerps decide that all women must accept not being referenced by their own name because of some irrationally hurt feelings of a tiny number.
There are 3.7 billion people-with-vaginas, who, incidentally, often share a bunch of other rather crappy life experiences that correlate with being a person-with-vagina. Like, being denied the vote, denied bodily autonomy, held under male guardianship, FGM, systematically oppressed, excluded from power etc.
So before you make your museum for their body parts, I'd rather you stopped pussyfooting around and granted them their own name back first.
And if you've already adjusted unquestioningly to the concept of un-naming an entire group of oppressed people such that you can't even see the problem, here's a suggestion.
Think of any other oppressed group.
Imagine telling them they have to forgo having a name to describe themselves from now on.
Tell them it really doesn't affect them.