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3 strikes and you're out

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spontaneousgiventime · 18/06/2018 13:33

Sorry to start this thread but I'm livid. I'm beyond livid to be fair.

I'm now on strike two and have been warned my posting privilege is at risk.

The reason for this thread is; please don't take the new guidelines at face value. I got a strike today for calling a man who presents as a woman a name NOT on the banned list. Obviously now I can't say what it was, I am effectively gagged.

I now have six weeks of no free speech until the strikes I have are wiped - again effectively gagged.

So, you won't see me much as I will NOT refer to men who present as women as the names we are allowed to call them, so will end up banned. I will post bland banal comments that can't offend any sensibilities here and let rip elsewhere where free speech is encouraged.

PLEASE, please, watch your words or MN will use this as a reason the close the FWR board.

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MipMipMip · 22/06/2018 10:10

I don't actually agree with unnecessary surgery. Chemical castration maybe, the majority of trans women on here have stated they hated having a penis and didn't want it operational to to me it seems a reasonable compromise.

The are problems with the GRC and I think it's very important that body disphoria is part of the requirement. But right now I actually think a bigger problem is the non questioning, woke stance that seems to have emerged. People have become so afraid of giving offence that instead of questioning if someone should be with ladies they wave them in and change policy so everyone is welcome instead of single sex (I'm looking at you topshop). Even when they are aware of the EA exclusions they don't feel able to say no.

I'm not sure what the answer is, unless it becomes commonplace for ID showing sex at every place offering single sex provision (and only a GRC allowing changing sex on official documents like driving license). But as a lot of women have no ID (don't drive, holiday abroad etc -my mum has none!) there is a risk of already disenfranchised women becoming invisible.

I don't know the answer. It would be lovely if I did!

AngryAttackKittens · 22/06/2018 10:13

The idea that it's inappropriate to challenge what appears to be a male person in a sex segregated space for women is absolutely the problem. Particularly for girls who're growing up with that and having it shape their sense of what boundaries it's permissible for them to assert.

Kettlepotblackagain · 22/06/2018 13:10

So....the law recognises that a male bodied person, with a penis can be referred to as a woman??????? & classed as a woman???? This is bonkers

Unbelievable isn't it.

As Eresh said, I suspect most don't realise this. They just assume.

I really think this is the lone we should take when gathering support. People need to know this.

Kettlepotblackagain · 22/06/2018 13:12

Line not lone

AngryAttackKittens · 22/06/2018 22:11

I see people all the time saying "well obviously X would never be allowed so it will be fine" when X is something that's being actively campaigned for or is already happening.

MipMipMip · 22/06/2018 23:00

Depressingly true.

Terfulike · 22/06/2018 23:08

I'm miserable I just got my second email

Terfulike · 22/06/2018 23:09

My lips are sealed

Terfulike · 22/06/2018 23:09

I'm in the doghouse

Kettlepotblackagain · 22/06/2018 23:09

Have they suspended comments on the self id thread?

Terfulike · 22/06/2018 23:12

No but mine just got deleted.

Kettlepotblackagain · 22/06/2018 23:15

I think they have, just tried to post several times...

Ereshkigal · 22/06/2018 23:15

It's full I think isn't it?

Kettlepotblackagain · 22/06/2018 23:15

I saw that Terf Angry. I'm just catching up as been out. Wtf is going on?

AssassinatedBeauty · 22/06/2018 23:16

It's just full. 1000 messages is the limit for threads.

Kettlepotblackagain · 22/06/2018 23:16

Ah I did wonder if that happens when it reaches 1K?

Kettlepotblackagain · 22/06/2018 23:16

Cross posted - thanks Smile

spontaneousgiventime · 22/06/2018 23:17

I forgot to mention on this thread, I had my second strike removed so only have one now. Appealing does work if you feel a strike is unjust.

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Terfulike · 22/06/2018 23:19

My comment was perfectly reasonable. You have no free speechild these days, not anywhere. You have to lock your self in a cupboard with the wireless on.

Picassospaintbrush · 22/06/2018 23:43

@happydappy2

This will explain. It's over complicated language but this is the psuedo intellectual shite that gets shoved at the government which they nod along to. And pass daft laws.

www.socresonline.org.uk/12/1/whittle.html

AngryAttackKittens · 22/06/2018 23:46

I think most people assume that the government runs whatever material they receive from lobbyists through some sort of common sense filter. Such a filter does not appear to exist, in reality they seem to assume the veracity of what they're handed.

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