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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I am about to ID as a man

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YesItsADebate · 23/02/2018 08:27

In 1.5 hours, I will be identifying as a gay man who does not conform with male gender stereotypes. I expect my local leisure facility to comply with the Swim England guidelines and agree that I am entitled to access the men-only swimming sessions, the male showers and toilets and to wear swimming trunks. I also expect them to re-educate any other man who objects to any of the above.

In other words, I have a meeting with the local swimming pool at 10 to see whether or not I’ll be resorting to topless swimming and public nudity tonight in an effort to prove my point that the Swim England guidelines are ridiculous Blush

Wish me luck!

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PositivelyPERF · 28/02/2018 16:37

Sounds more like ‘bring an arsehole to work”

Fekko · 28/02/2018 17:26

You can’t be ‘fluid’ with the your gender, just like you can’t be ‘a bit’ bisexual. You either is or you isn’t. Pick a team already!

Mouthandtrousersall · 28/02/2018 17:34

Is this gender fluid flush-able or is it just going to add to the fatberg problem?

We need to know.

Fekko · 28/02/2018 17:35

Sounds lumpy to me.

BreakfastAtSquiffanys · 28/02/2018 18:02

Am I the only one who sniggered at the idea of getting rid of helmets to attract transgender applicants to the police?
Part of the problem is transwomen keeping their helmets....

DixieFlatline · 28/02/2018 18:18

You say that, but I'd say Alex Drummond speaks exactly the same way and far as I can tell he is highlighting nothing but how completely self absorbed he is.

Do you speak Danish? I didn’t mean in terms of reading subtitles - sorry I didn’t make that clear. I am 100% on what I said about the Danish guy.

Mouthandtrousersall · 28/02/2018 22:22

Helmets!

Bigot.

Flowers
YesItsADebate · 01/03/2018 10:33

I’ve ordered this swimming hat. It’s beautiful.

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ArcheryAnnie · 01/03/2018 10:56

That IS beautiful!

Ereshkigal · 01/03/2018 11:32

Gorgeous Smile

BrandNewHouse · 01/03/2018 12:01

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PositivelyPERF · 01/03/2018 12:05

And you can stick it in a vase, afterwards. 😋

DPotter · 01/03/2018 12:36

PostivelyPERF
read your comment 'And you can stick it in a vase, afterwards' before seeing the picture. Had flashes of 'penis in beaker' scenerios......

PositivelyPERF · 01/03/2018 12:47

DPotter 🤣

Jux · 01/03/2018 17:02

Not a vase, a rose bowl. So much more like a lady, innit.

DPotter · 01/03/2018 17:36

Sorry to lower the tone of the conversation

YesItsADebate · 02/03/2018 10:33

A petition is up on the UK Government and Parliament website: petition.parliament.uk/petitions/214118/sponsors/new?token=XBShafwHpVU9k7Vud04

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YesItsADebate · 02/03/2018 10:37

Petition text:

Consult with women on proposals to enshrine 'gender identity' in law

The government proposes to amend the law to allow people to self-identify as men or women, and to stop allowing organisations in sensitive situations to exclude people of the opposite birth sex. We call for women to be consulted on how to protect women and girls' rights, safety, privacy and dignity.

We call for:

  • Respectful and evidence-based discussion about the impact of proposed changes and for women's voices to be heard.
  • The government to consult with women’s organisations on how self-declaration would impact on women-only services and spaces, data-gathering, and monitoring of sex-based discrimination.
  • The principle of single-sex spaces to be upheld – and where necessary extended.

References:

  • The Sex and Gender Ethics Society
  • A Woman's Place UK
  • Fair Play for Women
  • #ManFriday
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TheGoodEnoughWife · 02/03/2018 10:47

Signed

YesItsADebate · 02/03/2018 10:48

Thankyou so much Flowers

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TheGoodEnoughWife · 02/03/2018 10:49

Thank you for organising. This is like some sort of cult and I don't want to be seeing historic cases many years down the line saying people knew and did nothing.

senua · 02/03/2018 10:50

Can you do a link to the actual petition please. The original link goes straight to the sign-up page which makes no reference to the petition. Sorry to be a pain but I'd like to know what I am signing up to.
Thanks.

ArcheryAnnie · 02/03/2018 10:51

YesIts that link goes straight to the signing page, and I can't find the main petition page - might you be able to link that, please? You aren't going to get many takers for signing something unseen!

TheGoodEnoughWife · 02/03/2018 10:56

Petitions need five signs to go live so maybe why? In the confirmation email to sign you do get what the petition is and I can copy that bit of mine to give people confidence that it is legit?

YesItsADebate · 02/03/2018 10:58

Yes, it’s a bit irritating, sorry. It’s got to have 5 signatories before it goes off for checking and proper publication. It got those signatories very quickly so I’ll re-post once the full link with petition text is up.

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