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Bluestocking lock in!

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QuentinSummers · 29/01/2018 22:00

Posted a whole thing on the last thread and it was locked!

Last thread here
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3062013-The-Bluestocking-is-open-for-business
Here's my post replying to Moth
Thats an interesting article moth. Best not on the board or MRAs would be all over it!
I was wondering today, hopefully, if the news about darts getting rid of the girls means the overton window is shifting and maybe p0rn will become less acceptable?
If not all this hooha about F1 girls and the presidents club is just tinkering on the edges.

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Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 10/04/2018 19:24

Id youtube it Quentin

Its the only reason i ever record it...just for that scene

Grin
Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 10/04/2018 19:27

m.youtube.com/watch?v=_nTXqt19Wzw

Hope it works

SpringNowPlease2018 · 10/04/2018 22:13

Bar friends
I have just returned from seeing Ghost Stories and OMD.
If the mind sees what it wants to see....

However much darkness you think lurks in the mind, THERE IS ALWAYS MORE.

It's almost preferable to think those things are real?

Anyway, 10/10. Very different from the stage show but that's good because I think my blood pressure was sky high for about a week after, and it's normally a bit too low.

QuentinSummers · 11/04/2018 07:54

rufus Grin Grin
Have you watched bad mom's Christmas? I like the waxing scene in that

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Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 11/04/2018 08:55

Oh god waxing!!

I might get flashbacks Sad

I will have a little look Grin

SpringNowPlease2018 · 11/04/2018 14:01

I suspect I might be about to get banned

so bye and thanks, just in case I do get banned!

QuentinSummers · 11/04/2018 18:06

Why spring? Sad

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Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 11/04/2018 18:20

Yeah why?

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 11/04/2018 19:16

Is it the flowers on the fence thread?

QuentinSummers · 11/04/2018 20:04

Maybe she has gone Sad

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Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 11/04/2018 20:08

Dunno

Its spooky

Being picked off one by one...like in a slasher movie

TallulahWaitingInTheRain · 11/04/2018 20:14

I'm feeling quite hunted at the moment

The harassment and intimidation and abuse that is being condoned on twitter is really frightening

QuentinSummers · 11/04/2018 21:47

I never post anything on Twitter
It's much safer here. Hence why some activists are so desperate to shut it down.

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SpringNowPlease2018 · 11/04/2018 21:51

Testing....

SpringNowPlease2018 · 11/04/2018 21:54

Oh I'm still here
Tallulah I'm sorry you're feeling hunted

I take my hat off to people brave enough to tackle this on twitter. I used to think I couldn't because of work but not sure I'd be brave enough without that tbh.

QuentinSummers · 11/04/2018 22:01

So....what did you do??!!

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SpringNowPlease2018 · 11/04/2018 22:09

Best not say really.

I hate saying this on MN but I half wonder if I should come off MN. Makes it sound like an addiction, oops.

Sometimes it's great though.

How's everyone doing anyway?

QuentinSummers · 12/04/2018 19:52

I'm feeling crap today. Think this is what set me off
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/site_stuff/3218304-Some-topics-not-showing-up-in-searches

I feel like the backlash against women at the moment is immense and it's getting me down.

The fucking Ulster case hadn't helped either.

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Katara · 12/04/2018 19:59

Yes, but I am reading that thread and I came across DARVO. Oh my goodness, this describes what stbxh tried to do and to some extent succeeded.

Knowledge is power, if you cannot name a behaviour, you cannot condemn or challenge it. That to me has been the most important thing and this is one more bit of the puzzle.

I have avoided all of the press about the Ulster case, there is a backlash against women, particularly when it comes to rape and sexual abuse. There are very important issues of consent being eroded.

I am on the gin tonight, I think Gin

SpringNowPlease2018 · 13/04/2018 00:53

Agree, consent issues are a huge concern now.

Oh dear
It does feel like doom and gloom and I can't cheer it up

I've just been out with a group which included a woman I've met once or twice, friend of a friend, always thought she seemed nice.

Tonight she said to me that she thinks feminists are ridiculous and she worries that women are starting to treat men very badly and they shouldn't complain about things like a "harmless" kiss at a work party etc. I changed the subject. Ugh.

AnitaLovesVictor · 13/04/2018 00:58

Hi Wine Just marking place for tomorrow. Will have a good read tomorrow - I keep seeing you and losing you again. FWR is so fast moving right now.

terryleather · 13/04/2018 18:39

Barkeep, I need the stupid of the world to go away (even if it's just for a little while) so that'll be a double Dark&Stormy for me and what ever anyone else here is having...

AnitaLovesVictor · 13/04/2018 18:54

Wine Evening.

Solidarity Katara Thanks

Really feeling there's a backlash against women - but it's a clever backlash. It's only some of us. The ones who'd quite like some rights left at the end of 2018. Sigh.

terryleather · 13/04/2018 18:59

Hi Anita first one's on me!

Yup, it absolutely is a backlash and yes it's a clever one to boot as you point out, wrapped up with a glittery pink bow...

TallulahWaitingInTheRain · 13/04/2018 18:59

Let's celebrate. It's still illegal to give gender-critical women a public smacking, ww3 hasn't started yet, and it's the weekend.

Wine