Bartholin's cyst now infected. Any experience of this?

[Gincompetent]

I am in so much pain, I can't sit easily, it's sore to walk and just generally sore all the time.

I've had the cyst for a few years but it's never given me any bother (had it checked at the time by gynae though, as it was the size of a large grape, and she said it was best to leave it as is if not troubling me).

However, it's grown rapidly over the past 2 days - to the size of an egg! - and become so painful, so I went to the GP this morning and she's given me antibiotics and said if it doesn't feel better by Friday morning I've to go back to be sent to hospital. I had a temperature at the GP and have been feeling a bit unwell for the last couple of days so I guess this is the reason.

Has anyone experienced this?

Please tell me it will be ok!!

if the abs don't work you will need it lanced and drained.

I've had this - the first time I had antibiotics and it burst overnight (yuck!) but the relief was immediate. The second time the antibiotics weren't as effective and I had to go to A&E and have it incised and drained. By this point it was egg-sized so I had it done under general anaesthetic and stayed in overnight (I didn't go to theatre until 9.30pm). I had dissolvable stitches and antibiotics/painkillers when I was discharged, as far as I can remember. Touch wood, I've had no further problems and this was about 10 years ago.

Thanks both.

And thanks for sharing your experience @Monkeybunkey I've got to go and help at a kids birthday party soon. I could cry at the thought!

Is lancing/draining always done under a general anaesthetic?

Not always, no. I think mine had got to the point where GA was necessary as local anaesthetic would still have been too painful and/or they needed to knock me out in order to fully drain the cyst. Hope yours responds to the antibiotics - that's not an experience I'd like to go through again!

Glad to hear you've had no further problems.

Mine is definitely egg-sized, I'll keep everything crossed (except my legs, I can't cross my legs, ouch!) that the antibiotics work then!

I have another question...
How sore is this suppose to be?? I am in agony!  Finding it really had to concentrate on work (working from home today thankfully)

It's just throbbing all the time and I'm taking ibuprofen and paracetamol at max doses.

Would it help to sit in a hot bath? It might help it drain naturally

I've had two, both during my second pregnancy - which was fun (not).
I got both lanced, the first under local anaesthetic, the second without any anaesthetic (it was smaller). Was on antibiotics for a week with the first which did nothing.

The first was pretty big (about the size of a golf ball). They tried to drain but without success so it had to be lanced. I have to admit it was quite painful getting it lanced but it was sooooo worth it as the relief is immediate. With me being pregnant, they were reluctant to put me under general due to the risks.
The second was smaller and I agreed just to have it lanced rather than suffer the pain - I was 35 weeks at that point so the added pressure that comes with an full term baby wasn't helping from a comfort point of view.

No more cysts since - that was almost 3 years ago.

I think if one was to return I'd still opt for local anaesthetic as it's quicker and less of a faff. But I'm good with pain. Good luck OP. 

Thanks @glutten4punishment and
@wingingatlife (and poor you for getting this in pregnancy!) I'm usually good with pain too, had 2 births with only a little gas &air and generally don't moan about pain, but this is getting excruciating.

I've been doing lots of shallow baths for the last 2 days, nothing is helping.

I keep getting a shooting pain (known as fanny daggers on MN ) up my ladygarden, as well as the constant throbbing pain all round the abscess. And mine seems much deeper under the skin than most of the pictures I've found, so I can't figure out where it could possibly burst from! Worried about it popping internally - that's bad isn't it?

I think I'll be back to the GP tomorrow.

Been sent to hospital. Currently in Gynae ward waiting to see someone 

I should've posted in AIBU for traffic
'AIBU for worrying about my fiery golf-ball fanny?' 

Post a picture or it's not real 
#sporner

That sounds bloody painful. I’m glad you are getting it sorted. 💐

Hope they can get it sorted out quickly and without it hurting too much.

Thanks @BiscuitDrama and @TheFaerieQueene

Me too! It's horrible. Having to sit an an angle with my legs wide open, as I can't sit normally. Not embarrassing at all... 

@Whitegrenache I considered it but then what if someone recognised me and my disfigured fanny was made public?!

Oooh OP, poor you! Hope you're sorted really soon!

Thank you @TokyoSushi
I'd say it's the size of a lemon now 

DH says it's like a giant testicule, and keeps calling me Dave!

Hope they sort it for you - it can be super painful. I have had smaller ones that were sorted with AntiBs but also some that after a good hot bath came to a head and were ummm encouraged shall we say. I found hot water bottles helped bring things to a head as well

OMG Your husband!!! he would be on Tea and food duty for a week in my house calling me that

Wow @Gincompetent I had one about the size of a marble and was almost crying with the pain! It burst by itself and what came out was grim, but the relief was instant!

You will be fine OP I've had mine drained under GA twice now. The second time was pretty perfunctory. Get in. Get it lanced. Get home. The minor discomfort afterwards is nothing to the pain you will be feeling now. The relief will be amazing. I was back to normal a couple of days later

@RB68

He's a CF isn't he? I'll make him pay, don't worry! 

This is so huge the GP I saw actually gasped and when she called through to the hospital she described it as massive 

Lucky me eh?

Sending best wishes, OP - I've had this twice. The relief after surgery was total and immediate. And no - you're not overstating the pain. Between a Bartholin's abscess and labour pains, it would be a close run thing.

@billybullshitterz1

Positive stories like yours are exactly what I need right now! Glad you hear yours was resolved quickly.

I'm now pacing the room deep-breathing as I can't sit any longer. It's like being in labour again... except with addition on post-birth stitches pain added in for good measure! Have honestly never felt pain like outside of childbirth!

Crossed posts @QuantumWeatherButterfly

Exactly!!

I'm doing that 'every wave of pain is one step closer to the end' thing... except with no squishy baby obvs