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Got it down to 3 dresses... Help me choose!

131 replies

WanderingNotLost · 14/11/2016 21:46

I 'chose' a dress on Saturday, but I had an appointment at a different boutique today and because I like to make life difficult for myself, I went along.

And of course I fell head over heels in love with not one, but two beautiful dresses. I need a few completely objective opinions! If it helps, I'm 5ft 5-6 but will be in heels, size 8-10 with big boobs, long dark hair, fair skin.

Dress 1

Pros- lovely swishy skirt, I wanted something with a bit of swing and sway when when I walk. Nice thick beaded waistband which, with the cut of the bodice showed my figure off nicely.

Cons- exposes back fat, and cut quite low at the front (I have big boobs). Would have to have my hair up and my hairline on the nape of my neck is quite ugly. Needs an underskirt to give it a bit more of an a-line shape

Special something- lovely keyhole back and beading across the shoulders

Cost- £1180 (before alterations) and extra £80 to have buttons all the way down the skirt

Dress 2

Pros- beautiful elegant, classic style, makes my waist look tiny, fits really nicely across the bust. Cut low at the back so I can have my hair down. Lovely big (but not too princess-y) skirt with a gorgeous train.

Cons- more of a ball gown so less movement in the skirt. Nothing really 'different' about the actual style. Would have to buy a beaded belt separately. Could look a bit OTT at the reception venue which has quite a relaxed, fun vibe.

Special something- really gorgeous blush colour and buttons all the way down the back.

Cost- £1899 for a new one, or I could get the (size 14) sample I tried today for £895.

Dress 3

Pros- swishy skirt again, covers boobs without looking conservative or matronly. Back is covered but fabric under beading is sheer so you can still see my skin.

Cons- cut across the shoulders so arm movement would be a bit restricted. Beading would catch on the veil and other people's clothes. Would have to have hair up.

Special something- that gorgeous beading, catches the light and twinkles whichever way you look at it. Sparkly without making me look like a Christmas decoration.

Cost- £1580.

So... any thoughts?

OP posts:
Stopmithering · 15/11/2016 07:48

OK I'm not going to comment on the dresses but re-read your initial comments OP.
The language you use in each description suggests you really like 1and 2 but there were too many 'cons' with number 3. It didn't 'read' as if you liked no. 3 much at all!

user1471950254 · 15/11/2016 10:53

I love three & think as you've mentioned big boobs this could be the most flattering & comfortable fit

Lovelybangers · 15/11/2016 13:55

May i be the annoying poster who points out that you may not actually be a 32DD -E ?

If you have a dress size of 8-10 it is unlikely that your underbust measurement is 32". I wear a 32E and am a size 12-14 on top. My underbust measurement is 31".

You might want to double check your bra size bra guru

Kel1234 · 15/11/2016 13:56

I think 3 is gorgeous. But it all depends on what style you're looking for. (I'm biased as I love big ballgown wedding dresses anyway). But I think it depends on what you want for your wedding. Often things like venue and such play a part in choosing a dress.
Good luck

christmashope · 15/11/2016 14:00

My order would be 3, 1 then 2
Love both 3&1 not really keen on dress 2
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HouseworkIsASin10 · 15/11/2016 14:01
  1. (3 is too fussy)
rewardformissingmojo · 15/11/2016 14:50

3 is my favourite!

Mamabear14 · 15/11/2016 14:51

1 or 3 definitely! 2 is too plain.

flumpybear · 15/11/2016 20:15

My 8 year old DD says WOW!!!! To all of them!!! But chooses 1, 3 then 2 Wink

pullingmyhairout1 · 16/11/2016 13:53

I like 2.

Going back to a pp about bust size do get measured to be sure. I am a 8 and I am a 30d

WanderingNotLost · 21/11/2016 16:35

Just thought I'd update you all folks- went back today with my Mum and tried 2 and 3 on again- have picked dress 3 Grin thanks for all the input!

OP posts:
Kel1234 · 21/11/2016 19:36

Thanks for letting us know. I'm sure you'll look lovely on the day.

JRoo · 22/11/2016 16:59

Great! Have a wonderful wedding!

redfairy · 29/12/2016 23:54

I'm.alays late to the party, but pleased you went with 3. That was my favourite. 😀

MiniMum97 · 30/12/2016 00:18
  1. 2 is horrible.
SinisterBumFacedCat · 01/01/2017 17:44

Glad you went for 3, it's definitely the best. Have a great day!

Fadingmemory · 01/01/2017 17:46

1 is beautiful!

Effic · 01/01/2017 17:50

Love number 3 - wow!!

Knittedfrog · 01/01/2017 17:53

Was going to say 3 but see you've picked it already, good choice!

YerTiz · 01/01/2017 17:53

3

YerTiz · 01/01/2017 17:54

Oops didn't read your last post, good choice!!!

BubbleButtBarbie · 16/01/2017 22:07

3 and 1 is beautiful Grin

321zerobaby · 16/01/2017 22:10

3

sooperdooper · 16/01/2017 22:14

Yay I was late reading this but came on to say my vote was number 3!

PollytheDolly · 16/01/2017 22:20

3 is gorgeous!
2 hmmm
1 is nearly as nice as 3 but 3 is different too, definitely unforgettable Smile