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Viviennemary · 18/09/2026 14:17

Buckingham Palace have said they won't be commenting further on the book. But I expect plenty of others will be and it's not even published yet so I started this second thread. I really liked Diana and thought she got treated shabbily by Charles. But really writing a book of gripes 30 years later is not on imho. I noticed on the news Harry declined to comment on it. Sensible decision for once.

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OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 11:29

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 11:27

Aristocracy?

Diana's parents, siblings and friends. Non royals, but they matter too.
I tire of royalists thinking only royals matter.

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 11:30

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 11:29

Diana's parents, siblings and friends. Non royals, but they matter too.
I tire of royalists thinking only royals matter.

However, the Spencers are aristocracy. Still high up the feudal triangle.

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 11:30

And since you all keep bringing up Meghan, tell me for my own amusement what she has to do with princess Diana's death and funeral arrangements and what Charles Windsor the king said and did at the time?

Messedupmyusernameagain · Yesterday 11:32

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 11:30

And since you all keep bringing up Meghan, tell me for my own amusement what she has to do with princess Diana's death and funeral arrangements and what Charles Windsor the king said and did at the time?

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It's at least less distasteful than bringing her up as a moral equivalence to Andrew M-W!

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 11:32

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 11:28

I have no idea if it happened or not. But the media did report it at the time with no denial issued by the palace.
The so called virginity test is checking to see if a womans hymen is intact, although of course sex is not the only thing that can stretch or break it.

You are right that this is not an affective way of testing virginity. You are wrong to imply the phrase virginity test does not exist. Even WHO used the phrase virginity test.

I know what the so called "virginity test" is, but no respected medic would ever conduct it, because you cannot prove this by physical examination of the genitalia. If it was reported as fact, then the reports are wrong.

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 11:34

Messedupmyusernameagain · Yesterday 11:32

It's at least less distasteful than bringing her up as a moral equivalence to Andrew M-W!

So maybe I could bring up king Charles close friend Jimmy savilles as a moral equivalent? Or his other close friend the convicted nonce Peter ball? There was a third nonce who was a good friend, but I forget his name. Are they all moral equivalents?

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 11:35

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 11:32

I know what the so called "virginity test" is, but no respected medic would ever conduct it, because you cannot prove this by physical examination of the genitalia. If it was reported as fact, then the reports are wrong.

The media reported in 1981, 45 years ago, that Diana did undergo a virginity test. The palace did not deny it.

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 11:38

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 11:35

The media reported in 1981, 45 years ago, that Diana did undergo a virginity test. The palace did not deny it.

The reports were wrong. No such medical test exists.
I'm not surprised the Palace said nothing, I expect they ignore batshit claims.

foxylady2 · Yesterday 11:44

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 10:26

I agree. Diana did use him as a confidante. The whole thing must have been awful.
Still, at least he doesn't monetise how unfortunate he was. He's just getting on with life.

Well not least because he doesn’t need to he has the Duchy of Cornwall and the Crown coming to him.

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 11:48

foxylady2 · Yesterday 11:44

Well not least because he doesn’t need to he has the Duchy of Cornwall and the Crown coming to him.

No indeed. However, even if someone is poor, they shouldn't invade privacy or trash family for money.
In my opinion.

Flufffluff11 · Yesterday 11:50

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 11:35

The media reported in 1981, 45 years ago, that Diana did undergo a virginity test. The palace did not deny it.

In 'Diana, her true story' Diana also writes that when dating, she knew that she had to 'keep herself tidy', as she and a premonition that she would marry someone important

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 11:52

Flufffluff11 · Yesterday 11:50

In 'Diana, her true story' Diana also writes that when dating, she knew that she had to 'keep herself tidy', as she and a premonition that she would marry someone important

Maybe she "kept herself tidy".
However, for the last time; there is no such thing as a medical test for virginity. So, she never had one.

Flufffluff11 · Yesterday 11:53

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 11:52

Maybe she "kept herself tidy".
However, for the last time; there is no such thing as a medical test for virginity. So, she never had one.

What? There DEFINITELY have been virginity tests.

I have read several books, where women said that they had to have one

Messedupmyusernameagain · Yesterday 11:54

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 11:34

So maybe I could bring up king Charles close friend Jimmy savilles as a moral equivalent? Or his other close friend the convicted nonce Peter ball? There was a third nonce who was a good friend, but I forget his name. Are they all moral equivalents?

I'm agreeing with you that people who always bring up Meghan at least are using her as a similar moral equivalence ( although she didn't write a book- another Royal- Harry did) to people who were saying ' Yeah Harry and Meghan too!' against a paedophile apologist and a person who was passing state secrets to his paedo friends, spies and criminals in exchange for money.

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 11:55

Flufffluff11 · Yesterday 11:53

What? There DEFINITELY have been virginity tests.

I have read several books, where women said that they had to have one

Oh dear.
Look it up. Better still, contact a gynaecologist and ask if they would perform this non existent medical test.

noonames · Yesterday 11:59

YourAmplePlumPoster · Yesterday 09:38

I just wonder what the hell she was doing with the creepy Fayeds?

Yes - people are very quick to point out Charles’s links with Savile but often forget Diana’s with the al Fayeds.

Flufffluff11 · Yesterday 12:00

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 11:55

Oh dear.
Look it up. Better still, contact a gynaecologist and ask if they would perform this non existent medical test.

You're the one that needs to look it up.

Are you saying that no viriginity testing happens worldwide? Because it does. One link

https://sites.uab.edu/humanrights/2018/11/21/the-forced-virginity-testing-of-women-in-afghanistan/

I'm sure virginity testing is not regularly forced on most women in the UK. However, many accounts said that the time Charles was pressured to marry a virgin

jeffgoldblum · Yesterday 12:03

noonames · Yesterday 11:59

Yes - people are very quick to point out Charles’s links with Savile but often forget Diana’s with the al Fayeds.

Diana was Savilles friend too.

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 12:03

Flufffluff11 · Yesterday 12:00

You're the one that needs to look it up.

Are you saying that no viriginity testing happens worldwide? Because it does. One link

https://sites.uab.edu/humanrights/2018/11/21/the-forced-virginity-testing-of-women-in-afghanistan/

I'm sure virginity testing is not regularly forced on most women in the UK. However, many accounts said that the time Charles was pressured to marry a virgin

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Afghanistan?! Do you understand what kind of backwards, misogynist regime that is!
These kind of regimes use it against women all the time.
You need to look up proper medical facts.
You cannot test for it.

jeffgoldblum · Yesterday 12:04

Flufffluff11 · Yesterday 12:00

You're the one that needs to look it up.

Are you saying that no viriginity testing happens worldwide? Because it does. One link

https://sites.uab.edu/humanrights/2018/11/21/the-forced-virginity-testing-of-women-in-afghanistan/

I'm sure virginity testing is not regularly forced on most women in the UK. However, many accounts said that the time Charles was pressured to marry a virgin

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Oh you are right I’m convinced…virginity tests in Afghanistan, totally proves your point……

Flufffluff11 · Yesterday 12:06

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 12:03

Afghanistan?! Do you understand what kind of backwards, misogynist regime that is!
These kind of regimes use it against women all the time.
You need to look up proper medical facts.
You cannot test for it.

Of course I understand what Afghanistan is like. What a silly question. Everyone understands

You were writing like you think that virginity tests don't exist at all.

As I'm sure you know, people from all countries and cultures move to the UK.

I can easily find a link of a woman having to undergo a virginity test IN THE U.K if you'd like

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 12:06

jeffgoldblum · Yesterday 12:04

Oh you are right I’m convinced…virginity tests in Afghanistan, totally proves your point……

😂😂
I swear to god, someone will claim that the RF had Diana examined for a witch's mark!
Actually, I'd better not give them ideas!

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 12:09

Linnende · Yesterday 11:18

I feel strongly for King Charles and Prince William. How much more crap do they need to take? The kings health is deteriorating, we do not how long he has got. All this stress is not helping him. Zero consideration from Charles Spencer, Harry or Megan. Absolutely vile people, the lowest of the low. They should be ashamed of their themselves!

Agree.

I think that if this were any other pair of famous people, the view would be: OK, but it’s all so long ago and the man is terminally ill - leave it. You should either have spoken at the time, or decided to.keep schtumm.

But because it’s KC, people love to put the boot in.

Flufffluff11 · Yesterday 12:10

jeffgoldblum · Yesterday 12:04

Oh you are right I’m convinced…virginity tests in Afghanistan, totally proves your point……

Yes, It does prove my point that viriginy tests happen.

Were you just talking about the U.K?

Did you want instances of viriginity tests specifically happening in the U.K?

foxylady2 · Yesterday 12:11

OctopusFriend · Yesterday 11:48

No indeed. However, even if someone is poor, they shouldn't invade privacy or trash family for money.
In my opinion.

The reason Harry has done what he has is because he married for love, and he puts his wife - the mother of his children - above all else. That has ultimately created the bind in which he now finds himself. He saw, all too painfully, what the Institution did to his mother, and he was determined that history would not repeat itself with his own wife and family. And, having been effectively abandoned by his family, he now has to sing for his supper to earn his own living and build a future for his wife and children. That isn't some grand act of rebellion or perfidy; it is what he has to do to survive outside the system he was born into.

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