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Ham pr disasters 37! Will the blame remain in abeyance too?

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jeffgoldblum · 10/09/2026 19:45

Continuing the discussion, still interested, still not bored!

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bluegreygreen · 11/09/2026 21:37

@myrtleWilson That post looks like it requires far too many skills that Harry doesn't have.

@BunnyBunbunbun Not all the award ceremonies are virtual; recent ones that were have been when Harry has been involved and not in the country.
One (2023?) that involved both brothers had Harry on screen after William left the building. Following that they have alternated events.

I have seen Charlotte Griffiths discuss this twice; she had more information on the second occasion. Each time she was very clear what she knew and what was speculation.
You are, of course, welcome to believe what you wish.

IcedPurple · 11/09/2026 21:38

Cismyfatarse · 11/09/2026 20:06

I don't get it.

I really don't.

Why would you make a dramatic flounce from being an actual working royal with a clearly defined role and a top notch support system, only to desperately try to conjure up some D list faux version of royal 7 years later?

Bizarre. And pathetic.

AtIusvue · 11/09/2026 21:40

They’ve even confirmed they never told the school:

‘Sources close to the Sussexes insisted that they had not informed the school for security reasons and added that many celeb families with children at the school used bodyguards on the school run.’

So it’s safe enough for the kids to attend the school, but not safe enough to tell the school that the kids won’t be attending. Make it make sense?

RastaMouse99 · 11/09/2026 21:41

Notmybestusername · 11/09/2026 21:05

"and".

"And" is the conjunction here

She's willing to compromise on intelligence + integrity and she knew exactly how malleable he would be

Which is ironic because, allegedly, he said, "she'll let you do whatever you want!"

ScotchBonnet74 · 11/09/2026 21:41

What are the school age requirements anyway? It varies even in the UK. I believe in Scotland the kids start a year later than England. Of course you are free to home school your kids but not sure how that works or if it's only hippies that do that

RemainInAbeyance · 11/09/2026 21:41

MyGreyLurker · 11/09/2026 17:34

Ian Wace's co-founder of their hedge fund Marshall Wace is Paul Marshall. Marshall is also co-owner of GB News. Perhaps HAM see a route into GB News favour (ie to promote them) through this connection. I don't watch GB News so don't know if they're generally Sussex supporters already or not.

Interesting

KilkennyCats · 11/09/2026 21:42

AtIusvue · 11/09/2026 21:36

They never informed the school in Monticeto that they were taking the kids out?!

Such irresponsible parenting. Looks like this is a really rash decision to move.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/royals/40353240/unpopular-harry-meg-disappear-us-royals/

A moonlight flit! I wonder how many unpaid bills they left behind them?

Starryfifty · 11/09/2026 21:42

IcedPurple · 11/09/2026 21:38

I don't get it.

I really don't.

Why would you make a dramatic flounce from being an actual working royal with a clearly defined role and a top notch support system, only to desperately try to conjure up some D list faux version of royal 7 years later?

Bizarre. And pathetic.

Because they have absolutely nothing else

OliveMyLove · 11/09/2026 21:46

Starryfifty · 11/09/2026 21:27

Why is he even involved in this ? Surely he wasn't invited?

I asked google why Tiegen would be included her past behavior and it started glitching on me. 😂

Starryfifty · 11/09/2026 21:46

KilkennyCats · 11/09/2026 21:42

A moonlight flit! I wonder how many unpaid bills they left behind them?

did their kids not even say goodbye to their pals, teachers etc ?

RastaMouse99 · 11/09/2026 21:46

myrtleWilson · 11/09/2026 21:16

Am not a PR person, but if I was, I would genuinely be advising Harry to apply for this job - it is local, its hands-on and it marries up with his interests. Take himself out of the 'royal picture' and roll his sleeves up..

https://alabare.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2026/09/Veteran-Support-Officer-JD.pdf

Its just above minimum wage - have no idea about his finances, but again, I'd probably advise him to take the wage and invest it into Invictus. Accepting the wage (in my head) binds the contractual relationship - so he is embedded in the charity- not doing a 'when I can be bothered/when I need a front page mindset.

If he said, I'm passionate about the practicalities of veteran support and I want to learn from the ground up so that my Invictus work has an additional UK strand - and if he did the proper hard yards of small charity work where they are often in precarious situations - not getting money from the lottery, dipping into reserves(not the global foundations) understanding the importance of place, and trying to fight for the voice of veterans, to ensure policies understand and acknowledge the challenges veterans face. If he did that for 3-5 years, he could rehabilitate himself and image and could well find himself in a royal adjacent role that is constructive rather than destructive

I don't think a charity for vulnerable homeless (mostly) men needs a dim, weed-smoking, whinging brat working for them. There are many, MANY other people who would be far better qualified for the role.
Why do people think charities should have Harry foisted on them? He has zero skills, zero understanding and zero charm.

AlwaysRightISwear · 11/09/2026 21:48

AtIusvue · 11/09/2026 21:40

They’ve even confirmed they never told the school:

‘Sources close to the Sussexes insisted that they had not informed the school for security reasons and added that many celeb families with children at the school used bodyguards on the school run.’

So it’s safe enough for the kids to attend the school, but not safe enough to tell the school that the kids won’t be attending. Make it make sense?

Just unbelievable.

LongGinShortTonic · 11/09/2026 21:48

Thank you all for the entertainment and the discussion and the laughter. Whatever will happen next? In my corner of the Cotswolds there was brief excitement when DP followed a chap in a top of the range brand new Audi through Tetbury with the number plate HRH 5. He says it was a finance bro type dude not Hazza though he did his best to get a decent look for us all!

It’s the children I feel so sorry for. Uprooted without any preparation (allegedly) and then according to the latest DM article they’re going back to California for October half term - they’re not going to know whether they are coming or going or where to settle, and then to come back to school with jet lag, it’s setting them up to fail, surely? Mine were always shattered in October half term when small, they last thing they needed was to get on a plane. And what about a chance for play dates and days out locally to settle in? (Although I fear lots of folk wouldn’t have them over for a play date for fear of being misquoted and Markled?)

It’s a very sorry state of affairs and I can’t see it ending well.

Autumnleaveandthegrass · 11/09/2026 21:48

A little 👋. I love these threads but I can’t keep up with them. Is there a crib note version of the lastest antics of HAM somewhere? Or do I just need to invest more time.

AlwaysRightISwear · 11/09/2026 21:49

Starryfifty · 11/09/2026 21:46

did their kids not even say goodbye to their pals, teachers etc ?

I'm wondering if they even told the children they were moving...

Thedom · 11/09/2026 21:50

Harry’s September ‘schedule’ reminds me a bit of the time when finally all my kids were in school and I was not working, people would ask me what I did all day,‘er, I went to the post office, oh, and the garden center, took the dog for a walk’, as I struggled to come up with anything that sounded like I might be busy !

AtIusvue · 11/09/2026 21:50

The Sun article also tells us randomly:

  • they pissed off a koi carp business who worked in their garden, so they dropped meg n Harry as clients. Also seemingly it costs 5k a month for maintenance of these fish!
  • they pissed off the local bar as they didn’t want to be on any waiting list
OliveMyLove · 11/09/2026 21:51

RastaMouse99 · 11/09/2026 21:46

I don't think a charity for vulnerable homeless (mostly) men needs a dim, weed-smoking, whinging brat working for them. There are many, MANY other people who would be far better qualified for the role.
Why do people think charities should have Harry foisted on them? He has zero skills, zero understanding and zero charm.

Being honest, and having spent an inordinate amount of time around men with substance abuse issues, I think Harry would be very kind.

I actually think he’d benefit from a gig like that. But it would have to be a solo one.

He has his issues but I do think when it comes to people who are struggling he’s sincere. It’s when he’s focusing on himself that he gets into trouble.

And he’s an Eton grad. As it says on the Eton thread, I think they can be polite, kind, welcoming. I don’t know the guy, but suspect if you met him he’d come across quite well. I think he could even roll up his sleeves and help with things.

Notmybestusername · 11/09/2026 21:52

ScotchBonnet74 · 11/09/2026 21:41

What are the school age requirements anyway? It varies even in the UK. I believe in Scotland the kids start a year later than England. Of course you are free to home school your kids but not sure how that works or if it's only hippies that do that

Age 5 in England is compulsory school age, if home ed you can officially deregister if you want, but as yet there's no official home ed list as such, you just have to get able to evidence that you're providing a full time education.

Checks on this varies. There's more home elders than there used to be post pandemic which then creates a separate issue of children missing in the system but anywaaaay.

@jeffgoldblum Jeff might lock me in the tower, and rightly so, for the derail.

To link this back full circle, the abeyant ones could try Europe. Some countries there start much later AND if you go back a few generations in the Windsor bloodline it's European turtles all the way down anyway so he could claim he's always been into family genealogy. Hashtag authenticity.

Starryfifty · 11/09/2026 21:52

RemainInAbeyance · 11/09/2026 21:41

Interesting

I would have thought GB news quite right wing. I could be wrong though. I really don't understand what Wace is getting from this. Andrew had a lot to give to many nefarious characters. H has no royal adjacency now. Making balloon animals and slapping arses, crotch thrusting? What else is there ??

ScotchBonnet74 · 11/09/2026 21:52

Starryfifty · 11/09/2026 21:42

Because they have absolutely nothing else

Because Megan didn't like being down the pecking order from William and Catherine. She didn't understand how it worked, and why on earth Harry didn't teach her I don't know. Unless he hasn't 'got it'

OliveMyLove · 11/09/2026 21:53

Autumnleaveandthegrass · 11/09/2026 21:48

A little 👋. I love these threads but I can’t keep up with them. Is there a crib note version of the lastest antics of HAM somewhere? Or do I just need to invest more time.

I feel the same. I like the big thread (and no doubt keeping all our collective nonsense in one place is easier to moderate) but it’s hard to follow!

Starryfifty · 11/09/2026 21:55

OliveMyLove · 11/09/2026 21:51

Being honest, and having spent an inordinate amount of time around men with substance abuse issues, I think Harry would be very kind.

I actually think he’d benefit from a gig like that. But it would have to be a solo one.

He has his issues but I do think when it comes to people who are struggling he’s sincere. It’s when he’s focusing on himself that he gets into trouble.

And he’s an Eton grad. As it says on the Eton thread, I think they can be polite, kind, welcoming. I don’t know the guy, but suspect if you met him he’d come across quite well. I think he could even roll up his sleeves and help with things.

Kind? He has shown quite the opposite

DaisyDooley · 11/09/2026 21:55

ImpotentPublicFigure · 11/09/2026 20:45

Diana got £17 million 30 years ago.

Diana was Princess of Wales. Meghan’s position is similar to Sarah Ferguson’s. I believe she got £400,000.

I appreciate that -but MM has got two titled children who will hold American citizenship that she has to bargain with.

Seraw · 11/09/2026 21:56

AtIusvue · 11/09/2026 21:40

They’ve even confirmed they never told the school:

‘Sources close to the Sussexes insisted that they had not informed the school for security reasons and added that many celeb families with children at the school used bodyguards on the school run.’

So it’s safe enough for the kids to attend the school, but not safe enough to tell the school that the kids won’t be attending. Make it make sense?

It's as though they believe that referencing "security," and in particular "the security of our children," is an all-purpose Get Out Of Jail Free card to be played in all situations. Even when it has absolutely no logical basis or connection with the scenario whatsoever.

This weirdly reminds me of my SIL. She would make endless terrible and selfish decisions, and regularly demand that her family bail her out lavishly. As soon as they did, she would have another blazing row with them and cut them off again. This pattern repeated for many years. My SIL's Get Out Of Jail Free card was her son: anything which SIL wanted was dressed up as "for DNephew" in some tenuous way. Poor DNephew was just a pawn to be deployed to manipulate other people.

I can honestly see some parallels with a lot of the behaviour here.

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