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Prince George at Eton

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squashyhat · 08/09/2026 08:41

Can anyone explain why Prince George is boarding at Eton when the family home is just minutes away across the river?

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HighWitchOfJustice · 08/09/2026 17:20

I think 13 is probably an excellent time to start boarding and if I could have afforded it, I would definitely have sent one of my children who I know would have enjoyed it.

MrsM2025 · 08/09/2026 17:22

@Araminta1004 At Eton, boys are not allowed to have longer style hair (or facial hair)

DrWatsonsWalklingStick · 08/09/2026 17:23

Tabbytiger122 · 08/09/2026 16:58

Both his parents went to the top boarding schools in the country, it's the done thing for families like William & Kate. It's an upper middle class rite of passage

I wouldn't describe George as upper middle class...

Araminta1004 · 08/09/2026 17:24

@MrsM2025 - is that the “official” line? Maybe George can start a trend of getting a proper haircut again!

Noras · 08/09/2026 17:25

I think that there is a state journey to Australia this year and also a few state visits to the UK so the PoWs are really busy. We fit. Really have much idea of what happens behind the scenes but Pw is being prepped towards becoming King. I would imagine a few extra visits to Highgrove.

SideEyeClyde · 08/09/2026 17:25

OliveMyLove · 08/09/2026 16:53

You don’t know me so cannot possibly know if I’m an adult or not, FFS.

If you’re not an adult then perhaps you should get off the internet and go and do your homework.

Tabbytiger122 · 08/09/2026 17:26

DrWatsonsWalklingStick · 08/09/2026 17:23

I wouldn't describe George as upper middle class...

Well my point was his mother was upper middle & hos dad royalty so it's the done thing in those sort of families & good for them.

BemusedAmerican · 08/09/2026 17:26

No, I've learned the danger of pre-assumptions about intelligence. My father was discriminated against in the US school system because he spoke no English when he entered school at age 6 and his parents had no formal education after the age of 12. My own school system effectively tracked kids from the age of 12 based on IQ scores.

My grandfather went on to start several successful businesses, own his own homes, and pass the US citizenship test.

SideEyeClyde · 08/09/2026 17:28

KarcherK5 · 08/09/2026 17:01

Right, but you will still encourage and facilitate them to go to university because you believe that’s best for them and it’s what they want. You’ll miss them but you believe that going to uni - living with some independence but still part of a supportive community - is a good experience for them.

Can you understand that some people believe the exact same thing about boarding school? That you know you’ll miss your child but you also believe that a bit more independence from family, more time with friends, more time for all the opportunities at school is going to be good for them?

Adults go to university.

Children go to boarding schools.

This is an entirely false equivalence if you understand anything whatsoever about child development.

DrWatsonsWalklingStick · 08/09/2026 17:30

SideEyeClyde · 08/09/2026 17:28

Adults go to university.

Children go to boarding schools.

This is an entirely false equivalence if you understand anything whatsoever about child development.

Yes, because British children at day schools being smothered by their parents every evening are all developing so well, aren't they?

EasternStandard · 08/09/2026 17:34

DrWatsonsWalklingStick · 08/09/2026 17:30

Yes, because British children at day schools being smothered by their parents every evening are all developing so well, aren't they?

Did you send your dc at 7?

damnatiomemoriae · 08/09/2026 17:34

This is an entirely false equivalence if you understand anything whatsoever about child development.

But surely someone who understood anything whatsoever about child development would know it would be unwise to label a child ‘a spoiled brat’ on the basis of their family history alone?

There are far too many variables and circumstances that shape children. It isn’t just about education, money or family.

KarcherK5 · 08/09/2026 17:36

SideEyeClyde · 08/09/2026 17:28

Adults go to university.

Children go to boarding schools.

This is an entirely false equivalence if you understand anything whatsoever about child development.

Do you honestly think that somebody’s brain changes overnight when they turn 18? And that all adolescents develop and mature at the same speed and in the same ways? What basis do you have to say it’s ok for an 18 year old to go to university (or a 17 year old if they’ve skipped a year) but it’s not ok for a 16 year old to go to boarding school?

jeffgoldblum · 08/09/2026 17:42

KarcherK5 · 08/09/2026 17:36

Do you honestly think that somebody’s brain changes overnight when they turn 18? And that all adolescents develop and mature at the same speed and in the same ways? What basis do you have to say it’s ok for an 18 year old to go to university (or a 17 year old if they’ve skipped a year) but it’s not ok for a 16 year old to go to boarding school?

It’s reverse snobbery!

OliveMyLove · 08/09/2026 17:45

SideEyeClyde · 08/09/2026 17:25

If you’re not an adult then perhaps you should get off the internet and go and do your homework.

I don’t think any actual adults are spending time online describing children they don’t know as “spoiled brats”.

I do truly appreciate the poster that read your essay about it, so I could give it a swerve.

OliveMyLove · 08/09/2026 17:47

damnatiomemoriae · 08/09/2026 17:34

This is an entirely false equivalence if you understand anything whatsoever about child development.

But surely someone who understood anything whatsoever about child development would know it would be unwise to label a child ‘a spoiled brat’ on the basis of their family history alone?

There are far too many variables and circumstances that shape children. It isn’t just about education, money or family.

Surely.

Geranium1984 · 08/09/2026 18:18

It os a boarding school. There is no option to be a 'day student'.

wordler · 08/09/2026 18:32

Backedoffhackedoff · 08/09/2026 12:40

boarding school trauma is common in lots of families too

I think a lot depends on the family and home life, as well as the temperament of the child.

Some kids are sent to boarding school because of their family tradition even if they don’t want to go - or they are at the wrong school for their temperament.

Some kids are sent to ‘fix’ a problem.

Some are sent to escape a horrible home life.

That’s where the older studies on boarding school trauma missed part of the picture - what was going on at home plays a huge part of the issue.

upinaballoon · 08/09/2026 18:36

SideEyeClyde · 08/09/2026 16:36

How fabulous: legendary umbrella closing, while walking, in shoes!

These are, I’m sure, precisely the kind of skills that one should value in Heads of State and their spouses.

I wouldn't call it legendary umbrella-closing. Deft, definitely. Not merely shoes -HIGH heels.

CostcoFanofThree · 08/09/2026 18:54

@Backedoffhackedoff with the advent of day and weekly boarding, then the long periods of time off that private schools offer, boarding in the year 2026 is not like boarding in 1986. the boarding school i'm familiar with has psychologist on staff as well as trained councilors, not just for family stuff but equally for navigating relationships with fellow boarders huge focus on pastoral care.

CostcoFanofThree · 08/09/2026 18:58

@SideEyeClyde i would take a bit of grace and dignity any day to the constant stupidity of donald j trump leader of the not so free/heavily tariffed/ democratically elected world. you might not like the royal head of state but wtf would you prefer the president of the united states?

SwanUpmanship · 08/09/2026 19:00

Autumnbeaches · 08/09/2026 11:40

Yes I wonder this, they had an online learning course for a bit and their exam papers are online, they are HARD. It’s ability before poshness now (although the price tag does help the latter). They have a huge endowment and can offer almost sliding scale of financial support to whatever boys they want. Bit more like Harvard and Yale with their huge endowment funds than other schools.

George will have had top-level tuition to take the exam, tailored specifically to getting good marks. Anyone of average or greater intelligence can pass an exam with the right tuition.

DrWatsonsWalklingStick · 08/09/2026 19:11

SwanUpmanship · 08/09/2026 19:00

George will have had top-level tuition to take the exam, tailored specifically to getting good marks. Anyone of average or greater intelligence can pass an exam with the right tuition.

Almost every child taking the exam has had top notch tuition.
I don't think he would be going if they didn't think he was bright enough, not with the example of his uncle fresh in the mind - Harry may well have been of guidance to his upbringing after all..!

SwanUpmanship · 08/09/2026 19:18

DrWatsonsWalklingStick · 08/09/2026 19:11

Almost every child taking the exam has had top notch tuition.
I don't think he would be going if they didn't think he was bright enough, not with the example of his uncle fresh in the mind - Harry may well have been of guidance to his upbringing after all..!

I'm sure he's bright enough, but not all entrants will have had the full 'money no object' sort of tuition to which the Royals have access.

Backedoffhackedoff · 08/09/2026 19:25

SwanUpmanship · 08/09/2026 19:18

I'm sure he's bright enough, but not all entrants will have had the full 'money no object' sort of tuition to which the Royals have access.

Quite a lot of the parents at eton will be far richer than the royal family. I agree though, tutoring will only ever cost so much, it’s not really a big deal. Their prep is supposed to help too.