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Meghan could not invite niece to her wedding

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antelopevalley · 12/12/2022 15:56

Ashleigh is Samantha Markle/Grant’s daughter. Samantha lost custody of Ashleigh when Ashleigh was very young, and she was raised by her paternal grandparents. Ashleigh is Meghan's niece.

"In the new Netflix docuseries Harry & Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex shared that while she was not close to her half-sister Samantha Markle, she had a close bond with Samantha’s daughter, Ashleigh Hale. However, things got tricky when it came to the guest list for the couple’s royal wedding in 2018.

“How do we explain that this half-sister isn’t invited to the wedding, but that the half-sister’s daughter is?” said Meghan, 41. “With Ashleigh, the guidance at the time was to not have her come to our wedding. I was in the car with H. I had her on speakerphone and we talked her through what guidance we were given and why this assessment was made … and that’s painful.”

“I think I said I was hurt on some level, but I understood where it was coming from,” Ashleigh said. “To know that it was because of my biological mother that this relationship that’s so important to me was impacted in that way … to feel like, because of her it was taken away, has been hard.”

Ashleigh, an immigration attorney, said she and her brother were raised by their paternal grandparents, whom she considers her parents. She had not seen Samantha, 58, since she was 6 until they reconnected in 2007. That was also when Meghan reached out to her niece — a relationship that started with “these long emails back to each other,” Ashleigh recalled. “And then texts and calls. After a while, I think we were talking, on some level, several days a week.”
Meghan said that she believes she and Ashleigh “craved the same thing,” explaining, “I wanted a sister, and she was like a little sister. Ash was put through quite a bit by the media, just by association. And I didn’t want her life to be plagued with all that drama.”

Added Ashleigh of the time when Meghan’s relationship with Harry, 38, became public, “After the news first broke, Samantha pretty quickly began expressing a lot of angry words about Meg towards me. What was communicated to me was maybe some resentment. And it felt like no matter what I said, her perspective didn’t change and seemed to get angrier and bigger, and we stopped talking. Some people you just can’t reason with.”"

people.com/royals/meghan-markle-could-not-invite-niece-royal-wedding-ashleigh-hale-netflix-docuseries/

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rumship · 12/12/2022 15:58

May be you should watch this on youtube, and get both sides of the story and make a desition. 🤔

antelopevalley · 12/12/2022 16:00

@rumship Samantha had her child taken away from her by the courts. Why would Samantha know what is happening with her niece and Meghan given that background?

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rumship · 12/12/2022 16:01

Well given that you have not had time to even watch what I posted says you have not even tried to evalute it from both sides. Confrimation bias 🙄

rumship · 12/12/2022 16:03

Samantha had her child taken away from her by the courts
Also this is untrue statment and is already addressed in what I posted for you.

caringcarer · 12/12/2022 16:04

Meghan would have been allowed to invite whoever she wanted to her own wedding. Remember what Meghan wants Meghan gets.

Charlieiscool · 12/12/2022 16:06

Meghan and Harry could have insisted that Ashleigh was there. It was only guidance and they weren’t forced - they could have been decent but weren’t.

Kinneddar · 12/12/2022 16:07

I'd think with the total lack of relatives she invited they'd have been delighted to have a family member on her side of the church rather than the Clooneys & Oprah etc.

If she'd wanted her niece there she would have been there

This is 'their truth' & version of events which we know isn't the most reliable

blacksax · 12/12/2022 16:14

Oh for crying out loud.

DriftwoodOnTheShore · 12/12/2022 16:16

More ridiculous flailings. Embarrassing.

pinneddownbytabbies · 12/12/2022 16:24

Guidance? What guidance would that be - and from whom, one wonders...

Gilmorehill · 12/12/2022 16:24

It’s nonsense. If she really wanted to invite her niece, she could have sat her somewhere inconspicuous and said nothing about it.

toomuchlaundry · 12/12/2022 16:27

Guess who!!!

thebellagio · 12/12/2022 16:36

I find that so odd. I seem to recall the Palace (and certainly the media) questioning why there wasn't a single member of her extended family invited. I think they would have been over the moon to have had one relative there. And with 800 guests, she could easily have slipped in unknown somewhere....

antelopevalley · 12/12/2022 16:40

The point is the media would have asked why Ashleigh's mother was not invited, Samantha.

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BedTaker · 12/12/2022 16:43

antelopevalley · 12/12/2022 16:40

The point is the media would have asked why Ashleigh's mother was not invited, Samantha.

But everyone already knew that Meghan and Samantha didn't get on, that bit wouldn't have been news? So why would anyone care that Samantha's daughter was there, that would have been more focused on the fact that Ashleigh and Samantha didn't get on, nothing to do with Meghan?

I did think it was odd in the documentary, but Ashleigh did seem to be corroborating the story.

Charlieiscool · 12/12/2022 16:44

I’ve seen the video. Samantha Markle really is trashy and could have been dignified rather than washing dirty linen in public. Like Meghan, she’s chasing the dollar.

superdupernova · 12/12/2022 16:45

Samantha's conduct at the time made it obvious to everyone why she wasn't invited. Nobody would have questioned that, nor would they have questioned why her daughter was invited when she wasn't.

flapjackfairy · 12/12/2022 16:47

but the media wouldnt need to know who.the niece was anyway. they could have invited her if they wanted to but as usual it was someone else's fault she had no.family there.

HaveYouSeenNancy · 12/12/2022 16:48

None of those Markle apples fell far from the big ole Markle tree.

Ohnonevermind · 12/12/2022 16:55

She could have invited her niece clearly chose not to and is now trying to blame the palace.

KateBain · 12/12/2022 17:02

Ashleigh has a frightful vocal fry.

LondonWolf · 12/12/2022 17:09

Do you get paid by the thread OP? 😁

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 12/12/2022 17:12

Gilmorehill · 12/12/2022 16:24

It’s nonsense. If she really wanted to invite her niece, she could have sat her somewhere inconspicuous and said nothing about it.

Well, no, she couldn't. At an event attended by the Queen and senior royals, all guests have to be vetted and approved. I'm not saying she couldn't have got approval (possibly with a lot of hassle attached) but she couldn't just send out a guest list inviting whoever she wanted.

antelopevalley · 12/12/2022 17:13

@LondonWolf I wish!
Please tell me how I get paid to chat on MN? I could do with the money.

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MarshaMelrose · 12/12/2022 17:13

Meghan could not invite niece to her wedding

She could have. She chose not to.

The point is the media would have asked why Ashleigh's mother was not invited, Samantha.

Yeah, I think the public would have figured that out. 🙄