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Meghan could not invite niece to her wedding

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antelopevalley · 12/12/2022 15:56

Ashleigh is Samantha Markle/Grant’s daughter. Samantha lost custody of Ashleigh when Ashleigh was very young, and she was raised by her paternal grandparents. Ashleigh is Meghan's niece.

"In the new Netflix docuseries Harry & Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex shared that while she was not close to her half-sister Samantha Markle, she had a close bond with Samantha’s daughter, Ashleigh Hale. However, things got tricky when it came to the guest list for the couple’s royal wedding in 2018.

“How do we explain that this half-sister isn’t invited to the wedding, but that the half-sister’s daughter is?” said Meghan, 41. “With Ashleigh, the guidance at the time was to not have her come to our wedding. I was in the car with H. I had her on speakerphone and we talked her through what guidance we were given and why this assessment was made … and that’s painful.”

“I think I said I was hurt on some level, but I understood where it was coming from,” Ashleigh said. “To know that it was because of my biological mother that this relationship that’s so important to me was impacted in that way … to feel like, because of her it was taken away, has been hard.”

Ashleigh, an immigration attorney, said she and her brother were raised by their paternal grandparents, whom she considers her parents. She had not seen Samantha, 58, since she was 6 until they reconnected in 2007. That was also when Meghan reached out to her niece — a relationship that started with “these long emails back to each other,” Ashleigh recalled. “And then texts and calls. After a while, I think we were talking, on some level, several days a week.”
Meghan said that she believes she and Ashleigh “craved the same thing,” explaining, “I wanted a sister, and she was like a little sister. Ash was put through quite a bit by the media, just by association. And I didn’t want her life to be plagued with all that drama.”

Added Ashleigh of the time when Meghan’s relationship with Harry, 38, became public, “After the news first broke, Samantha pretty quickly began expressing a lot of angry words about Meg towards me. What was communicated to me was maybe some resentment. And it felt like no matter what I said, her perspective didn’t change and seemed to get angrier and bigger, and we stopped talking. Some people you just can’t reason with.”"

people.com/royals/meghan-markle-could-not-invite-niece-royal-wedding-ashleigh-hale-netflix-docuseries/

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toomuchlaundry · 12/12/2022 17:13

You must be M then @antelopevalley!

cyrila · 12/12/2022 17:13

What a load of guff. As if she was told she wasn't allowed to invite her. That whole story they told in the documentary about the invite was so complicated I couldn't make head nor tail of it.

LynetteScavo · 12/12/2022 17:17

So the place have offered Meghan no advice on anything.....but did advice not to inviter her niece if her half sister wasn't comings . Hmmm....

I don't think it would have been odd for the niece to go to the wedding, from a public point of view. I do think Meghan didn't invite her because she didn't want to. Who would she have talked to anyway, Grin apart from Meghan's and Dad, who didn't go in the end, they didn't seem to have any mutual friends or family.

I'm not sure what they hoped to gain by including this.

Georgeskitchen · 12/12/2022 17:17

According to a well placed source, there were no restrictions on who Meghan could invite to her wedding

MarshaMelrose · 12/12/2022 17:19

Well, no, she couldn't. At an event attended by the Queen and senior royals, all guests have to be vetted and approved. I'm not saying she couldn't have got approval (possibly with a lot of hassle attached) but she couldn't just send out a guest list inviting whoever she wanted.

I remember reading that the palace recommended inviting all her family because they're less likely to cause trouble when they're on the inside than when they are on the outside. Hence Charles getting frustrated over her handling of Thomas Markle and saying just go and talk to him instead of texting.
So I don't think there would have been a problem to get them on the guest list.

Kedece2410 · 12/12/2022 17:19

LondonWolf · 12/12/2022 17:09

Do you get paid by the thread OP? 😁

Just the ones about the RF 😉

Would be a Good source of income judging by the volume of threads

WibblyWobblyJane · 12/12/2022 17:21

It doesn't really make sense to me. There would be questions about Samantha and other family members not being present at the wedding. Having her daughter there would make it less awkward, not more so. "Oh, she was unable to attend but her daughter came."

It seems more likely that Meghan decided not to invite anyone except her mother, for a multitude of reasons, but didn't want to hurt Ashleigh by explaining it was her own call.

Anyway, I hope Ashley also got paid for appearing the Netflix documentary.

MarshaMelrose · 12/12/2022 17:26

Charlieiscool · 12/12/2022 16:44

I’ve seen the video. Samantha Markle really is trashy and could have been dignified rather than washing dirty linen in public. Like Meghan, she’s chasing the dollar.

It's the Markle genes! 😂😂 Selling family for money.

LondonWolf · 12/12/2022 17:26

cyrila · 12/12/2022 17:13

What a load of guff. As if she was told she wasn't allowed to invite her. That whole story they told in the documentary about the invite was so complicated I couldn't make head nor tail of it.

I read that they wanted her to invite family as they knew it would invite comment and speculation, which of course it did.

AliceOlive · 12/12/2022 17:28

So the place have offered Meghan no advice on anything.....but did advice not to inviter her niece if her half sister wasn't comings . Hmmm....

This is the crux, isn't it?

PortiasBiscuit · 12/12/2022 17:29

Gawd, do none of you people have lives of your own?

Divebar2021 · 12/12/2022 17:30

If she’s an immigration attorney there will be records of her graduating college, professional membership etc and she’ll be of good character. It wouldn’t be any more problematic to vet her than it would have been to vet any of the overseas guests.

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 12/12/2022 17:33

PortiasBiscuit · 12/12/2022 17:29

Gawd, do none of you people have lives of your own?

Do you have a life of your own, since you have also joined the thread?

Serenster · 12/12/2022 17:34

antelopevalley · 12/12/2022 16:40

The point is the media would have asked why Ashleigh's mother was not invited, Samantha.

I can’t see why, it would have been perfectly clear.

Just like Beatrice and Eugenie were invited to William and Kate’s wedding but their mother, Sarah Ferguson, was not - because various members of the Royal family had no time for her.

LondonWolf · 12/12/2022 17:37

PortiasBiscuit · 12/12/2022 17:29

Gawd, do none of you people have lives of your own?

Not really Grin

What are you up to? Apart from posting on MN...like everyone else who's here?

jeffgoldblum · 12/12/2022 17:38

@LondonWolf 🤣 touche!

MarshaMelrose · 12/12/2022 17:40

I think it would have invited less comment to have relatives there than to have Oprah Winfrey who she'd met just once sit in the family section.

TERRRYsnotmine · 12/12/2022 17:40

Kinneddar · 12/12/2022 16:07

I'd think with the total lack of relatives she invited they'd have been delighted to have a family member on her side of the church rather than the Clooneys & Oprah etc.

If she'd wanted her niece there she would have been there

This is 'their truth' & version of events which we know isn't the most reliable

Tbh there's good reason why Megan has invited lack of family members on her side...I mean can you imagine the shame and scandal?
I think for everyone's sake it's better they didn't attend.

VladmirsPoutine · 12/12/2022 17:40

blacksax · 12/12/2022 16:14

Oh for crying out loud.

If we all agreed that Meghan was worse than Hitler, Mussolini and the like I think we could move on. Have you seen the way she blinks? Looks like a would-be serial murderer if you ask me. Anyway OP, now that we've agreed we can get off the bashing bandwagon.

MarshaMelrose · 12/12/2022 17:49

VladmirsPoutine · 12/12/2022 17:40

If we all agreed that Meghan was worse than Hitler, Mussolini and the like I think we could move on. Have you seen the way she blinks? Looks like a would-be serial murderer if you ask me. Anyway OP, now that we've agreed we can get off the bashing bandwagon.

Hmm, well, I don't think she's as bad as Hitler....

Wonnle · 12/12/2022 17:55

Really ?

I'm in the "who fucking cares ?" camp when it comes to these 2 grade A whiners and whingers .

Leave us alone but give us loads of money and publicity

Fladdermus · 12/12/2022 18:01

rumship · 12/12/2022 15:58

May be you should watch this on youtube, and get both sides of the story and make a desition. 🤔

Blimey, being full of shit clearly runs in the family. She started off sounding quite convincing but soon the obvious bullshit started creeping in.

Mookie81 · 12/12/2022 18:05

Fladdermus · 12/12/2022 18:01

Blimey, being full of shit clearly runs in the family. She started off sounding quite convincing but soon the obvious bullshit started creeping in.

'I gave my kids to their grandparents to raise because I was worried about babysitters' 😂.
What a crock of shit.

IamSamantha · 12/12/2022 18:08

antelopevalley · 12/12/2022 15:56

Ashleigh is Samantha Markle/Grant’s daughter. Samantha lost custody of Ashleigh when Ashleigh was very young, and she was raised by her paternal grandparents. Ashleigh is Meghan's niece.

"In the new Netflix docuseries Harry & Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex shared that while she was not close to her half-sister Samantha Markle, she had a close bond with Samantha’s daughter, Ashleigh Hale. However, things got tricky when it came to the guest list for the couple’s royal wedding in 2018.

“How do we explain that this half-sister isn’t invited to the wedding, but that the half-sister’s daughter is?” said Meghan, 41. “With Ashleigh, the guidance at the time was to not have her come to our wedding. I was in the car with H. I had her on speakerphone and we talked her through what guidance we were given and why this assessment was made … and that’s painful.”

“I think I said I was hurt on some level, but I understood where it was coming from,” Ashleigh said. “To know that it was because of my biological mother that this relationship that’s so important to me was impacted in that way … to feel like, because of her it was taken away, has been hard.”

Ashleigh, an immigration attorney, said she and her brother were raised by their paternal grandparents, whom she considers her parents. She had not seen Samantha, 58, since she was 6 until they reconnected in 2007. That was also when Meghan reached out to her niece — a relationship that started with “these long emails back to each other,” Ashleigh recalled. “And then texts and calls. After a while, I think we were talking, on some level, several days a week.”
Meghan said that she believes she and Ashleigh “craved the same thing,” explaining, “I wanted a sister, and she was like a little sister. Ash was put through quite a bit by the media, just by association. And I didn’t want her life to be plagued with all that drama.”

Added Ashleigh of the time when Meghan’s relationship with Harry, 38, became public, “After the news first broke, Samantha pretty quickly began expressing a lot of angry words about Meg towards me. What was communicated to me was maybe some resentment. And it felt like no matter what I said, her perspective didn’t change and seemed to get angrier and bigger, and we stopped talking. Some people you just can’t reason with.”"

people.com/royals/meghan-markle-could-not-invite-niece-royal-wedding-ashleigh-hale-netflix-docuseries/

Yet another H&M supportive thread by you?! Ummmmm what promotion company do you work for?

IntentionalError · 12/12/2022 18:11

After Meghan blatantly lied to Oprah about getting married before her wedding day, a lie which was exposed by the archbishop, I just don’t believe a single word she says about anything.