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Meghan could not invite niece to her wedding

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antelopevalley · 12/12/2022 15:56

Ashleigh is Samantha Markle/Grant’s daughter. Samantha lost custody of Ashleigh when Ashleigh was very young, and she was raised by her paternal grandparents. Ashleigh is Meghan's niece.

"In the new Netflix docuseries Harry & Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex shared that while she was not close to her half-sister Samantha Markle, she had a close bond with Samantha’s daughter, Ashleigh Hale. However, things got tricky when it came to the guest list for the couple’s royal wedding in 2018.

“How do we explain that this half-sister isn’t invited to the wedding, but that the half-sister’s daughter is?” said Meghan, 41. “With Ashleigh, the guidance at the time was to not have her come to our wedding. I was in the car with H. I had her on speakerphone and we talked her through what guidance we were given and why this assessment was made … and that’s painful.”

“I think I said I was hurt on some level, but I understood where it was coming from,” Ashleigh said. “To know that it was because of my biological mother that this relationship that’s so important to me was impacted in that way … to feel like, because of her it was taken away, has been hard.”

Ashleigh, an immigration attorney, said she and her brother were raised by their paternal grandparents, whom she considers her parents. She had not seen Samantha, 58, since she was 6 until they reconnected in 2007. That was also when Meghan reached out to her niece — a relationship that started with “these long emails back to each other,” Ashleigh recalled. “And then texts and calls. After a while, I think we were talking, on some level, several days a week.”
Meghan said that she believes she and Ashleigh “craved the same thing,” explaining, “I wanted a sister, and she was like a little sister. Ash was put through quite a bit by the media, just by association. And I didn’t want her life to be plagued with all that drama.”

Added Ashleigh of the time when Meghan’s relationship with Harry, 38, became public, “After the news first broke, Samantha pretty quickly began expressing a lot of angry words about Meg towards me. What was communicated to me was maybe some resentment. And it felt like no matter what I said, her perspective didn’t change and seemed to get angrier and bigger, and we stopped talking. Some people you just can’t reason with.”"

people.com/royals/meghan-markle-could-not-invite-niece-royal-wedding-ashleigh-hale-netflix-docuseries/

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Justcallmebebes · 12/12/2022 18:12

Well Kate and William had her parent's neighbours and landlord of their local village pub so I'm not sure I believe that Meghan had little control over her guest list. Plus, am not sure the Palace machine were on intimate terms with Oprah Winfrey, the Clooneys etc.

I wish this whole circus would just come to an end. They're taking you for fools

LindorDoubleChoc · 12/12/2022 18:17

PLEASE STOP QUOTING THE WHOLE OP OF THE THREAD WHEN YOU ARE JUST ADDING A POST!

Coucous · 12/12/2022 18:18

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BlackFriday · 12/12/2022 18:18

So, Meghan was given no help or advice from the Palace about her new life and role?
Oh, except for some guidance that she couldn't invite her niece to her wedding; only just the one family member in a guest list of hundreds.
Yep. I'll buy that.

Serenster · 12/12/2022 18:19

Meghan, proven liar, told her niece that, and her niece has now recounted the story for the television as if it’s true (she has no idea if it’s true or not). The Palace has denied it. My money is not on Meghan being the truthful one here.

Wonnle · 12/12/2022 18:23

BlackFriday · 12/12/2022 18:18

So, Meghan was given no help or advice from the Palace about her new life and role?
Oh, except for some guidance that she couldn't invite her niece to her wedding; only just the one family member in a guest list of hundreds.
Yep. I'll buy that.

Hope you are not calling MEgan a liar there !

MarshaMelrose · 12/12/2022 18:24

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Of course she could have if she'd wanted to. Even if you believe her own account she was only advised against it. Not forbidden. She didn't because she said she didn't want to incite comment. But by that stage the whole country was commenting on her family. So I can't see how a few more comments would have hurt.

Georgeskitchen · 12/12/2022 18:27

PortiasBiscuit · 12/12/2022 17:29

Gawd, do none of you people have lives of your own?

And yet here you are 🤣🤣🤣

Fifthtimelucky · 12/12/2022 18:30

KateBain · 12/12/2022 17:02

Ashleigh has a frightful vocal fry.

I've only recently become familiar with that term, but yes it was extraordinarily strong.

BeanieTeen · 12/12/2022 18:37

I think it wouldn’t be the first time she misunderstood or misinterpreted ‘palace guidance’. I don’t know if she’s just being thick or wilfully obtuse.

Fladdermus · 12/12/2022 18:38

Mookie81 · 12/12/2022 18:05

'I gave my kids to their grandparents to raise because I was worried about babysitters' 😂.
What a crock of shit.

Yep, that's the exact point where my bullshit alarm went off. She may well have been telling the truth earlier but once the lies start nothing can be trusted.

CurrentHun · 12/12/2022 18:39

It doesn’t make much sense because they presented a nice relationship between the two of them.
Maybe they were hoping to invite Ashleigh (and her brother?) originally, but then when Thomas Markle was caught selling stories, having his side of the family just became too awkward and risky?

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 12/12/2022 19:08

BedTaker · 12/12/2022 16:43

But everyone already knew that Meghan and Samantha didn't get on, that bit wouldn't have been news? So why would anyone care that Samantha's daughter was there, that would have been more focused on the fact that Ashleigh and Samantha didn't get on, nothing to do with Meghan?

I did think it was odd in the documentary, but Ashleigh did seem to be corroborating the story.

Yes, it was already known that Meghan was from a dysfunctional and fragmented family; inviting the niece but not the sister would hardly have been a scandal or even noteworthy.

More ginned-up drama.

Bluekerfuffle · 12/12/2022 19:21

The palace has denied that she was advised not to ask her and said she was actually encouraged to ask all her family so it wouldn’t look so odd.

Wonnle · 12/12/2022 19:37

Bluekerfuffle · 12/12/2022 19:21

The palace has denied that she was advised not to ask her and said she was actually encouraged to ask all her family so it wouldn’t look so odd.

It comes down to who you believe doesn't it

LIAR LIAR LIAR Megan

Or anyone else

35965a · 12/12/2022 19:53

This was clearly bollocks. Everyone knew at the time Samantha was selling stories left right and centre about MM so it would have been obvious as to why she (rightly) wasn’t invited. MM could have had her niece there if she wanted to.

TERRRYsnotmine · 12/12/2022 19:54

Bluekerfuffle · 12/12/2022 19:21

The palace has denied that she was advised not to ask her and said she was actually encouraged to ask all her family so it wouldn’t look so odd.

They would deny it though wouldn't they.... come on!

parsniiips · 12/12/2022 19:57

They might have been given advice or guidance, but they could have chosen to overrule it and have a so called much loved relative at their wedding.

They chose not to.

Bluekerfuffle · 12/12/2022 19:59

TERRRYsnotmine · 12/12/2022 19:54

They would deny it though wouldn't they.... come on!

Well, I assume not unless it’s the truth. Are they known to lie about things? H and M have been known to be economical with the truth.
It doesn’t make sense that they would advise her not to invite a harmless relative. It’s more believable that she’s ashamed of her family, they didn’t fit in with the image she wants to portray, and would prefer to be seen to be on a par with the Clooneys and Oprah.

MarshaMelrose · 12/12/2022 20:11

TERRRYsnotmine · 12/12/2022 19:54

They would deny it though wouldn't they.... come on!

Back in 2018, so before anyone could have predicted this documentary, there were reports coming out of the palace saying that they thought it best to invite all her relatives, including Samantha, to the wedding. Because they were less likely to cause trouble if they were within the royal party than if they were left outside of it.
So actually I can see the Palace truthfully denying it.
If I'm being generous to both sides, maybe the Palace laid out dofferent options and what the outcomes could be and the couple chose which one they thought was best.

Tonkerbea · 12/12/2022 20:12

Your threads read a bit like a (bad) PR release, but you may just enjoy quoting excerpts of this documentary for some unfathomable reason.

I wanted to like Harry and Megan more after watching this, I think how the press treated her was appalling. I did really enjoy the discussion of colonialism and race relations in the UK, the author of Brit(ISH) was particularly good. However, that whole convoluted spiel about her niece and the invitation set off my bullshit alarm.

I also really can't wrap my head around how many staged selfies/ photo opps of such intimate moments were shoehorned in. Even their proposal moments. Some things should stay private, no matter how much cash Netflix are flashing.

Bluekerfuffle · 12/12/2022 20:39

Also, what reason does she have for not inviting her mothers side of the family (besides her mother herself? Can’t blame sister Sam for that.

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 12/12/2022 22:24

parsniiips · 12/12/2022 19:57

They might have been given advice or guidance, but they could have chosen to overrule it and have a so called much loved relative at their wedding.

They chose not to.

They also could have been privately married if they wanted to, without all the hoopla.

Odd how people who just want to lead private, quiet lives didn't choose that option.

blacksax · 13/12/2022 00:01

Woman is estranged from the majority of her family. Woman then gets married and becomes estranged from the majority of her husband's family as well.

When this sort of thing happens, one does tend to wonder whether it is simply bad luck, or whether there is a common denominator.

ChiefPearlClutcher · 13/12/2022 04:55

I think this one for ‘recollections may vary’

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