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Help me remember the actor's name

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PGmicstand · 29/08/2026 10:48

Just to satisfy my itching brain!
Had a dream last night which featured an actor walking across a car park. He seemed familiar and I'm sure he's a real person.
The problem is, I can't think of much detail.
He's the sort of person who'd be in drama things like murder mysteries or maybe period dramas of the 1920s/1930s - he'd be playing a hotel proprietor type character.
I think he's fairly tall. He's an older actor - or at least, was then - he may have died.
White hair, with a bit of a wave, sometimes worn slicked back. A bit 'jowly' but not with a particularly wide face and has a moustache.
It's NOT Richard Griffiths. There's a similarity but the actor I'm thinking of has a narrower face than that and I don't think he has glasses.

Any ideas?

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NooNakedJacuzziness · 04/09/2026 12:23

It’ll end up being Sidney Poitier and OP will be like “but he was white and jowly in my dream!”

PGmicstand · 04/09/2026 12:31

NooNakedJacuzziness · 04/09/2026 12:23

It’ll end up being Sidney Poitier and OP will be like “but he was white and jowly in my dream!”

Excellent!
I'm still sure it WAS an actor because in the dream he looked LIKE the actor I'm trying to pin down, who in turn looks LIKE but isn't, Richard Griffiths.
I'm hoping that at some point I'll have a flash of inspiration and be able to satisfy both myself and everyone on this thread.

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REP22 · 04/09/2026 12:31

JaneJeffer · 04/09/2026 11:30

Just look on it as a brain exercise: how many jowly actors can you recall Grin

Jowls Holland...? 😉

MamaBobo · 04/09/2026 12:40

I don’t think anyone’s mentioned Arthur White? He’s David Jason’s brother, has done lots of character acting. He’s got that slightly jowly look and the white hair.

TheBewleySisters · 04/09/2026 13:50

Robin Bailey

HyggeTygge · 04/09/2026 14:42

Peter Dyneley ?

HyggeTygge · 04/09/2026 14:44

Ian Lavender?

TheBewleySisters · 04/09/2026 15:59

Forgot the picture - Robin Bailey

Help me remember the actor's name
MassiveOvaryaction · 04/09/2026 18:10

NooNakedJacuzziness · 04/09/2026 12:23

It’ll end up being Sidney Poitier and OP will be like “but he was white and jowly in my dream!”

Grin
WhyReindeer · 04/09/2026 18:34

TheBewleySisters · 04/09/2026 15:59

Forgot the picture - Robin Bailey

Ooooo @TheBewleySisters Robin Bailey looks promising. Good tache!

@PGmicstand did you see my offer of Richard Vernon
https://jamesbond.fandom.com/wiki/Richard_Vernon

I had high hopes for Richard Vernon because of his mustache.

This is going to be like that Boswell thread isn't it... it will be years before we get an answer!

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EntirelyUnnecessary · 04/09/2026 18:58

PGmicstand · 30/08/2026 16:11

Really appreciate all the input so far.
I think, regrettably, I'm going to have to put this on hold. It's making me so cross that I can't think of the person. I can't think of anything they've been in, or any part of their name. POSSIBLY it's a Richard or Geoffrey sort of name (if that makes sense).

If you were to combine the various elements of the people I pulled out then you might be able to make a photofit:
A sort of 'stretched-out' and thinner version of Richard Griffiths without the beard, with a bit of Peter Ustinov as Poirot and William Gaunt thrown in.

A moustache like Brian Murphy
White-blond hair quite like Keith Baron when he was in Duty Free. Also hairline a bit like Michael McKean and Ian McNiece/John Stride
Similar around the eyes and mouth to George Cole
Similar across the cheeks to Conleth Hill
Similar around the eyes and nose to Brewster Mason

Tallish, quite solid/a bit overweight but someone who moves fairly lightly on their feet.
Good head of hair - not a receding hairline. Hair a bit wavy/full, and concentrated on the crown or top of the head. Maybe a bit shorter at the sides.
Fairly pale complexion (at least not tanned/olive skinned)
White/pale grey/blond eyebrows.
Possibly blue eyes but I'm not sure
No beard
Not a prominent nose

I do promise that if I work out/find out who it is I will post this. And I will check back for suggestions.
I attach the updated list, just in case anyone was keeping tabs.

I haven't RTFT so don't know if anyone else has tried this but I tried copying this description and the bit about the cream suit into Google Gemini and asked it to produce a likeness. Does he look anything liked this OP?

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Help me remember the actor's name
JaneJeffer · 04/09/2026 19:04

EntirelyUnnecessary · 04/09/2026 18:58

I haven't RTFT so don't know if anyone else has tried this but I tried copying this description and the bit about the cream suit into Google Gemini and asked it to produce a likeness. Does he look anything liked this OP?

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😱

TemporarilyCantDoMyself · 04/09/2026 19:53

EntirelyUnnecessary · 04/09/2026 18:58

I haven't RTFT so don't know if anyone else has tried this but I tried copying this description and the bit about the cream suit into Google Gemini and asked it to produce a likeness. Does he look anything liked this OP?

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That looks quite a lot like Timothy West.
Has he been ruled out, does anyone know? Please save me from having to go back and search through @PGmicstand 's glorious spreadsheets! 😂

TemporarilyCantDoMyself · 04/09/2026 19:55

PGmicstand · 29/08/2026 12:01

Sadly none of these

I went back anyway - Tim West ruled out right near the beginning. Damn. 😑

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 04/09/2026 20:01

OP, apols if I've missed it, but did you look at the suggestion of Richard Pearson from a couple of days ago?

EntirelyUnnecessary · 04/09/2026 20:43

I put in some further descriptions from OP and made him a bit jowlier and a hotel proprietor. Is this close OP?

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SereneGoose · 04/09/2026 21:12

It won't be him but where is Martin Jarvis?

Miriam Magargyolis?

PGmicstand · 04/09/2026 21:21

EntirelyUnnecessary · 04/09/2026 20:43

I put in some further descriptions from OP and made him a bit jowlier and a hotel proprietor. Is this close OP?

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@EntirelyUnnecessary that is superb!!

The face on the first one is more similar to how I'm imagining but that may be because he looks happier.
I think he may have glasses - possibly oval with a gold frame. Hair is a bit more 'piled up' at the front. I'm struggling to articulate exactly how. It's not a high hairline but it's possibly flipped from the first image and just a little more onto the face.
Maybe a cravat rather than a tie but again, that AI image is very good. He needs to be a bit heavier, and in my mental picture he's standing, possibly walking towards me, so you can see how the double chin leads into the neck more.

I've not yet gone through all the suggestions, but hope to over the weekend.

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EntirelyUnnecessary · 04/09/2026 21:26

PGmicstand · 04/09/2026 21:21

@EntirelyUnnecessary that is superb!!

The face on the first one is more similar to how I'm imagining but that may be because he looks happier.
I think he may have glasses - possibly oval with a gold frame. Hair is a bit more 'piled up' at the front. I'm struggling to articulate exactly how. It's not a high hairline but it's possibly flipped from the first image and just a little more onto the face.
Maybe a cravat rather than a tie but again, that AI image is very good. He needs to be a bit heavier, and in my mental picture he's standing, possibly walking towards me, so you can see how the double chin leads into the neck more.

I've not yet gone through all the suggestions, but hope to over the weekend.

Excellent. Is this good when it loads?

He looks like my dad but he's not an actor so that can't be the answer 😆

Help me remember the actor's name
JaneJeffer · 04/09/2026 21:31

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MassiveOvaryaction · 04/09/2026 23:44

EntirelyUnnecessary · 04/09/2026 21:26

Excellent. Is this good when it loads?

He looks like my dad but he's not an actor so that can't be the answer 😆

Have you been to KFC lately @PGmicstand? Only this one does look familiar..

JaneJeffer · 04/09/2026 23:55

MassiveOvaryaction · 04/09/2026 23:44

Have you been to KFC lately @PGmicstand? Only this one does look familiar..

😂

SoWhatAndThen · 05/09/2026 00:35

Corin Redgrave?

MamaBobo · 05/09/2026 07:15

Absolutely brilliant work @EntirelyUnnecessary …those pictures are amazing. The first one in particular looks really like Stephen Moore, in the last one more like James Ellis.

I really hope we get an answer to this….

Ilovemyshed · 05/09/2026 08:05

Terry Thomas?

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