Yeah sorry but she isn't Autistic. She claims to have ADHD and traits of Autism. I have both within my own family, and anyone who has had to learn fast about neurodiversity (due to close diagnosis) knows it is also a current bandwagon many are jumping on, with much self-diagnosis going on.
Forgive this quick copy paste - but recognise anyone?
Here are five red flags you're in a toxic situation you may need to address.
They gaslight or lie to you. ...
They don't apologize properly. ...
They don't understand how their behavior makes others feel. ...
They think they are superior to others. ...
They see themselves as a victim of their own behavior.
Ali, might be entertaining to watch in this setting, but some of her behaviour is text book for anyone familiar with this type of personality. A 38 year old trained psychologist gunning for a 23 year old lad who may well have his own issues (as often with refugees and generational trauma).
She is very aware of what she is doing and it is troubling to watch.