actually tinkerbellie, i'm going to come right out and say that your comment "it makes me really angry that if someone isn't liked regardless ofthe reason,if there are black or asian it is said that the person who doesn't like them is racist (that comment will prob be racist!)" is racist.
it's also not true. but it is something that racist people say. (that does not mean that i am saying you are a racist person, by the way, that's not how that particular venn diagram works necessarily).
in my experience, it is victims of racism who are least likely to start talking about their victimisation in those terms, precisely so that they do not invite comments like your last one.
i've met people of all shapes, sizes, colours and creeds who i haven't liked, and i reserve the right to think of myself as not racist (or probably more accurately in this society, 'trying very hard not to be racist').
Dislike shilpa all you like, but if you come on here and say that she's 'evil', 'manipulative', a 'bitch' and then indulge in lazy stereotyping, all the while unable to provide a real, concrete reason for your feelings then you can't be surprised if people call you to account.
and given that you don't know what colour i or anyone else is on this site, one can really accuse anyone of inverse racism, can they? for all we know, despite her Austrian name, LieselVonTrapp is actually an hugely pregnant African woman who just happens not to like Shilpa Shetty.