Protecting our Children, Part 2

[Lilka]

Thought I'd start a new thread because the other one was so big

Anyone else going to be watching?

At least this little one will have a good chance of adoption. His background wont help but his age and apparent good health will.

I feel so sorry for this social worker - this is one case of 14 serious cases she has to work with - they don't pay social workers in this field anywhere near enough.

Is that Marva out on the streets now?

I was being ironic. Having said that she doesn't seem that bothered.

But how long until she's pregnant with number 5???
Of course protecting the children is paramount, but the frustration of not bring able to break the cycle is soul destroying.
So so sad.

far better now to be removed than in 3 years when he is damaged and unwanted by many potential adopters

Gosh he's a beautiful baby

That baby looks just like my DS when he came to us. Cept DS was thinner. I am feeling a bit now.

Its bringing back all that conflict and pain and how bloody difficult it all was.

I hope the baby has a nice life. Poor lamb.

I was very new a optomistic,was convinced i would be able to sort her out with my amazing powers,did loads with her,tried everything,it was horrible,she adored the baby she really did but the drink and the man were such a strong pull and soothed her far more than a baby.
Im in adoption now,see the other end of things,

christ
sterilisation?!?!?

He looked like his mum

Best decision IMO
Not suprised they got back together. I bet they hatched a plan to try and keep te baby by pretending to split

Oh god that final sentence has finished me off :(
All the best little boy

fabulous end quote from the lead social worker

I am sad now. I wanted a happy ending. Although baby will have a lovely new forever family.

Ooohhhhh godddddd I feel for every one of them. So damaged they cling to each other but there is only hope when they are apart.

Was there a scheme where drug addicts and people who have had children removed from them to have contraceptive implants or sterilisation in exchange for financial incentives?

How sad, he has so much control over her, she will be back with him, and pregnant within months

I think the SW and FC are wonderful people, doing a very hard job.

At least the little boy has the chance of a lovely life.

I was being genuine mollie not asking in a scandalized sort of way. I was interested to know if you really thought that. People do, I have had it said to me.

Glad you dont though

I do think she was bothered but when you have lived a crap life full of disappointments and rejections you dont always appear to care.

Of course she moved back in with Shaun - where else could she go?

What did he say?