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24h before prom daughter breaks down, abandoned by "friends". Help.

119 replies

Northofengland7 · 03/07/2014 05:02

My daughter has just told us 4 girls going pre and after prom one house, and 2 do the same to another house, so that she is faced with us taking her, arriving alone, and being collected alone after the first (16yo) real social event of her life. We have been gently asking for weeks what is going on, and if anyone would like to come for Buck's Fizz with parents before, etc, all with replies "I'm not sure yet" etc. clearly (now) just fobbing us off, putting on a brave face.
Then... Floods of tears at bedtime, and 2 helpless parents unable to provide any sort of solution and feeling utterly helpless. She asked last night how she could get to 16 and have no friends, and I can't help her. Any small words of advice would be greatly appreciated. I am new to this website and whilst I know there are much worse things that could happen to a child, as parents we are distraught.

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Northofengland7 · 04/07/2014 21:02

Hi everyone!! She looked gorgeous, but a bit nervy, of course! Good friend family came for quick glass of fizz before. Convertible had roof on due to heavy rain, but did not spoil the ride. Arrived at same time as a couple of girls she knew but not close. They welcomed her cheerily and all went in together sharing a brolly. Had couple of texts since which have been positive, so, so far so good!!! Hurrah!! Will let you know final results tomorrow. Xxxxxx To all you so supportive people.

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ExitPursuedByAKoalaBear · 04/07/2014 21:18

Oh that all sounds great. Pity the weather has been so crap oop north.

Hope she's had a lovely time.

ExcuseTypos · 04/07/2014 21:24

So pleased!

Muskey · 04/07/2014 21:27

I really hope she has a fantastic evening

SauvignonBlanche · 04/07/2014 21:31

Great news!

poorbuthappy · 04/07/2014 21:32

Sounds good. Hope she has a fab night.

crazynanna · 04/07/2014 21:37
Smile
Shlurpbop · 04/07/2014 21:40

Hope she has a fab night! :)

Floggingmolly · 04/07/2014 21:41

Smile. Hope she has a ball.

CeliaFate · 04/07/2014 21:49

Brilliant! Hope she has an amazing night.

Gobbolinothewitchscat · 04/07/2014 23:15

Fantastic - hope she has a lovely night

Rachie1986 · 05/07/2014 07:14

Glad it started well, hope she had a fab time!

bigTillyMint · 05/07/2014 07:16

That's great - hope she had a fantastic night!

500smiles · 05/07/2014 07:24

Hope your DD had an amazing time.

tametortie · 05/07/2014 07:36

Hope she had a good night xxx

saintlyjimjams · 05/07/2014 07:50

Glad the entrance was good - hope the rest of the evening was fab as well :)

Northofengland7 · 05/07/2014 09:27

HI EVERYONE!!! All went well, mean girls avoided, lots of fun had. Invited to after party, went (alone) but came home on top note. Up this AM for TdF, and still full of it! Will chat about this with her soon and make a future plan. 6th form etc.... THANK YOU AGAIN FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT, it really helped us to keep perspective, and make a plan. Could have been v different.... Thanks Mumsnet.

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Floggingmolly · 05/07/2014 09:41

Brilliant, I'm so glad.

slartybartfast · 05/07/2014 10:04
Thanks

hip hip hurrah Grin

nilbyname · 05/07/2014 10:07

That's great!

bigTillyMint · 05/07/2014 10:11

Fantastic! So pleased for your DD and youSmile

ghostisonthecanvas · 05/07/2014 10:16

So pleased for her and you too. You must feel lighter today.

dalek · 05/07/2014 10:19

Just read this this morning - so pleased that she had a lovely time.

SnakeyMcBadass · 05/07/2014 10:22

Ah, brilliant :)

ajandjjmum · 05/07/2014 10:24

So glad!