For a short time my pic is on profile because i need people to tell me if i should go for the chop or keep imy hair longer

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Appointment is tomorrow and i am still undecided and starting to panic.
I am torn between keeping it long and having feathering recut round the front and having an inverted long bob maybe something similar to this without fringe ??????
I am driving myself and Furball madas she has tried helping me find some styles but i dont know ahhhhhhhhhhh.
By the way i never go out with my hair up because i hate my ears but in the house it is usually tied up.
Also my hair has a tendency to frizz as soon as i set foot out of the house.

Dragonbutter-yes exactly right.No frizz yesterday or today.

Hi Pelvic- you are so good looking and have beautiful eyes, I think the fringe will really suit you as you have fab eyebrows too.

Mine is naturally curly and very prone to frizz- my hair style is very similar to the first one you linked to but a wee bit longer. As long as you find the right product for your hair it should be fine and when I don't have time I pin mine back anyway.

You are very pretty I'm glad you must wee yourself lots with a dodgy pelvic floor. bitter, me?

Your obviously really pretty and have nice hair.

How about long layers and maybe a fringe. My hair was a similar length a couple of year ago. I just had a couple of inches cut off and long layers put in which I'm really pleased with.

Good luck - we'll expect an updated photo!

you are all so lovely,i never feel pretty so its nice to hear even if you all need your eyes testingI have a tendency to feel a bit like a man in drag (as 6ft2) I suppose my long hair makes me feel a bit more feminine.

rofl Megglevache

Oh gawd Pelvic, did your husband fit distorting circus mirrors when you weren't looking? Get a grip Lady, 70 of us can't be wrong.

oh I felt I must add. How many drag queens do you know with short hair? They all have very bouffant big/long hair, so there.

lol

Haven't a clue whether you should chop or not but the first thing that struck me was...... OMG! She's beautiful and you are!!!!!!!!!

Make that 71 of us.

Definately go for the bob- I think it will really suit you

You're gorgeous, don't argue or I shall rap your knuckles with a ruler young lady !
I'd say keep it long and go for a sweeping fringe and a bit of feathering around the face. If you do feel self concious (and I've no idea why you should!) then it's good to have hair to hide behind a little.

I've just put up a photo on my profile of the bob I got this morning. It's not the same cut that you're thinking of going for but I just wanted to show you the fringe I got. It's just a small feathered one and good if you're a bit nervous about going the whole hog with a fringe.

You have gorgeous hair. Keep it as it is.

You are lovely and the bob really suits youI see what you mean about the fringe but for me if im gonna lose all the length then it may be a step too far.
I have to go soon i will pour everything out to the hairdresser who will no doubt think i am mad and see what she says.

You could always go for the 'pob' look so it's shorter at the back, bu you still have the length at the front?

I've only just seen this so you might be on your way to the hairdressers by now.

I think you could get away with anything but a bob like the one in your first link would look gorgeous. You have such beautiful features

Ask the hairdresser what they think too -often they'll recommend (or advise against) something due to your hair type so that might help make the decision.

Its a shame you can't come to the meet-up next Fri as I'd love to see the results -make sure you post a pic

QDM- I Love your hair,I htink I may grow mine out slightly like yours if I get bored of gettin gmine trimmed every 2 weeks but I rather like hiding behind it lately. You and Pelvic could be sisters.

Here's hoping you wee yourself with alarming regularity also . Ahem..

god, aren't you pretty?

I think that style you linked to would suit you - but I am not sure it would work without the fringe.

A few inches off so it sweeps your shoulders would also be nice.

But tbh, it looks lovely just the way it is.

where are all the ugly people.

GO FOR IT!
I had a big chop off last year after years of wanting to, it made me look so much younger and it has grown bak already. SO pleased I chopped it off.
be brave, you will maybe have a quick blub then you will not look back. I think it will thicken up your hair a bit. black hair looks lovely in a pob/thingimebob.

i haven't got any advice, i have long hair and i can't cut it short, its a thing i have.

but wanted to add that i think you are v. pretty

That's 74 of us pelvic
Are you back yet?

here hecate

I a a complete minger, I assure you

oh excellent. lurker and edward, come stand next to me in uggo corner.

It's nice and dark.

Ugly - truely frizzy and grey one here!!!