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Summerlovingtheraspberries · Today 07:59

Hi
Just pondering really.
Why do so many British women dye their hair blonde?
As opposed to other nations such as Italians or French women?
I see so many women with dark roots and yellowing hair. It’s so obviously dyed. Yet when I travel to say France, the women there are more likely to stick to a natural look. Dying their hair brown rather than blonde if they do dye it
I don’t think you can say it’s because British women have blonde hair because it so obviously isn’t blonde!
Do people think they look better, with black roots? Just because you might have been blonde as a child doesn’t mean you are now.
To be fair I have dyed my hair blonde in the past. Looking back I don’t think it really suited me, made me look washed out and pale.
It was definitely of a time where blonde hair, blue eyed, white, thin women were considered the beauty standard.

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Rhubarb24 · Today 18:13

Bleaching*

StarPyjamas · Today 18:16

I love how people come to a British forum to have a pop at the Brits, and then bugger straight off 🤣

Like pulling our blonde pigtails and running away.

Ethelspagetti · Today 18:34

FromMamatoNanny · Today 14:26

After being blonde for decades, I gave up and embraced the grey. But, I felt better when I was blonde

Love it ❤️. I’ve done the same thing as you and love my hair now! It’s very different to the blonde, but I do like it.

MyPeachBiscuit · Today 18:53

Can't speak for France or Italy but I was in Croatia recently and saw many local women with dyed blonde or highlighted hair.

I live in Ireland and I can confirm it is also very common here to dye one's hair blonde so I disagree that it is just a British thing.

Anonfortoday2 · Today 19:08

worldshottestmom · Today 16:19

That depends on your race, she seems to only like attacking white British women specifically.

She didn’t mention white in the OP? So it’s quite strange that you what to bring race into it . Seems as you’re the one assuming only white women can be British ? .

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · Today 19:10

I actually have a french friend who is naturally I suppose a mid to dark blonde. But she highlighted her hair and did balayage in the past. So do 2 of her friends, highlighted their hair. One has gone back to her natural colour. So that’s bollocks your blanket statement about all French women wanting natural hair colour.

worldshottestmom · Today 19:12

Anonfortoday2 · Today 19:08

She didn’t mention white in the OP? So it’s quite strange that you what to bring race into it . Seems as you’re the one assuming only white women can be British ? .

Edited

It's very obvious from the post.

"because British women have blonde hair because it so obviously isn’t blonde!" I can't imagine her thought here was British women of colour.

"Just because you might have been blonde as a child doesn’t mean you are now"; correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems very, very obvious she's getting a certain ethnic (white) group here.

"where blonde hair, blue eyed, white, thin women were considered the beauty standard."

I know users will be deliberately obtuse about this in the name of political correctness, but I'm not. It is very obvious she is referring to white British women.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · Today 19:13

I had white blonde hair as a young child then as I aged it went to dark blonde mousy. It always lightened in the sun though. In my teens I had highlights and in my 20s I had highlights, copper red and my natural colour. Now I highlight the hell out of it and love it.

CatA27 · Today 19:19

I never dyed my hair blonde until the number of greys meant it needed dying fortnightly, blonde highlights means I can just get it done every 2-3 months

CruCru · Today 19:40

People are very strange about blonde hair in general. My natural hair colour is a streaky mid blonde in the summer and a dark blonde in the winter (because my hairdresser cuts off the bits that went lightest in the summer). However, I've been told on here that I cannot describe myself as blonde (I am not putting a picture up).

Re dyed hair - badly dyed hair will often look awful. A full blonde is expensive and will take a long time to do - so the roots show because the person cannot face getting it done every eight weeks. However a black or dark brown dye job will often show white at the scalp. You probably only notice the dye jobs that aren't done often enough.

Anonfortoday2 · Today 19:55

worldshottestmom · Today 19:12

It's very obvious from the post.

"because British women have blonde hair because it so obviously isn’t blonde!" I can't imagine her thought here was British women of colour.

"Just because you might have been blonde as a child doesn’t mean you are now"; correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems very, very obvious she's getting a certain ethnic (white) group here.

"where blonde hair, blue eyed, white, thin women were considered the beauty standard."

I know users will be deliberately obtuse about this in the name of political correctness, but I'm not. It is very obvious she is referring to white British women.

Was just very strange that you thought so quick to jump to race yet you was the one that mentioned so you assumed . Quick defended the thin comment did make me 😂

Squishymama · Today 20:20

MajorSamanthaCarter · Today 08:42

Because they want to.

Exactly this and there was no need for anyone extra to comment 😂

I dye my hair some very… unnatural colours, and do definitely have roots between appointments. I honestly don’t care and it’s too expensive to get it done more often.

I think on I suppose a lot of “traditional British” skin tones blonde is quite flattering rather than darker tones. But I think the main reason is this PP’s comment. They want to, it’s fun, it makes them feel nice. Who cares?!

Squishymama · Today 20:27

DiscoElysia · Today 16:26

It's definitely the mousy thing in part as many have pointed out.

My hair isn't naturally super horrible but is naturally quite a flat colour, the darker end of mousy. If it were naturally a richer or darker colour I might be very happy with that (although who knows because insidious and overly narrow beauty standards seem to leave most people feeling bad about their looks, even when to me they are totally stunning, so it's possible I'd feel unsatisfied with any hair that nature could possibly have given me!).

I let my hair grow out as its natural colour during my twenties after outgrowing some bad diy blue / purple / pink DIY hair jobs as a teenager (still love those colours but I never committed to the maintenance and didn't fit well with the career I wanted either). Kept it that way for several tears. Loved how low-maintenance it was but it also always felt to boring. Even some friends said so and suggested highlights to me when I was having a 'meh about my appearance' moment.

I've since taken the plunge and gone blondish. I like to go lighter rather than darker because it makes it easier to make changes to the shade, whereas darker dyes are hard to lift, and also because it doesn't show up my greys as much. I personally think dark hair or red hair is the loveliest but blondish suits me ok. I don't mind the dark roots - I tell myself I'd rather have 'drama hair' than 'natural hair'. I don't intend to fool anyone.

Just wanted to say as someone who has a very boring, but quite important corporate job, and pink hair, it absolutely can suit the career you want and I think you should dye yours blue/purple again! ☺️

PrettyLittleRose · Today 20:37

@Summerlovingtheraspberries

I can honestly say I NEVER see blondes with black roots. 😆 Nor do I ever see anyone with yellowing hair. And it's not just British women who have blonde hair!

I have my hair done blonde (medium blonde) as I dislike my boring (IMO) mousy blonde colour. Although it goes a bit lighter (in colour) in the summer, it's still not the colour I want it.

Pic 1 is what my natural mousy blonde hair colour looks like. Pic 2 is the colour I have my hair done. And I never have black roots! 😬

And before someone says they prefer the colour in Pic 1. I don't. And it's my hair.

p.s. Colour me shocked. The OP posted once and didn't return! 😂

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PrettyLittleRose · Today 20:39

CruCru · Today 19:40

People are very strange about blonde hair in general. My natural hair colour is a streaky mid blonde in the summer and a dark blonde in the winter (because my hairdresser cuts off the bits that went lightest in the summer). However, I've been told on here that I cannot describe myself as blonde (I am not putting a picture up).

Re dyed hair - badly dyed hair will often look awful. A full blonde is expensive and will take a long time to do - so the roots show because the person cannot face getting it done every eight weeks. However a black or dark brown dye job will often show white at the scalp. You probably only notice the dye jobs that aren't done often enough.

I think the blonde bashers are jealous of us blondes. Grin

worldshottestmom · Today 20:48

Anonfortoday2 · Today 19:55

Was just very strange that you thought so quick to jump to race yet you was the one that mentioned so you assumed . Quick defended the thin comment did make me 😂

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Because it is about race. Is it typically white people or people of colour in the UK that have naturally mousy brown hair? If she had made a post saying "why do African and Jamaican women dye their hair blonde, it looks so unnatural with the black roots, as opposed to their French and Italian counterparts who don't do this and look much better" I doubt it would have gone down very well, would it? She would probably have the police at her door, and this comment will likely be removed for even saying it hypothetically.

But she didn't, she said British women, typically born with mousy brown hair, who may have been blonde when they were younger, and literally stated that "blonde white women with blue eyes" used to be the beauty standard - because that's who she's talking about.

As predicted in my last reply, you're being deliberately obtuse in the name of political correctness; hilarious given that the post your defending is quite clearly aimed at a specific ethnic group - that is not an assumption, it's reading between the lines. Other users have also noticed. But laugh harder, I guess.

worldshottestmom · Today 20:50

CruCru · Today 19:40

People are very strange about blonde hair in general. My natural hair colour is a streaky mid blonde in the summer and a dark blonde in the winter (because my hairdresser cuts off the bits that went lightest in the summer). However, I've been told on here that I cannot describe myself as blonde (I am not putting a picture up).

Re dyed hair - badly dyed hair will often look awful. A full blonde is expensive and will take a long time to do - so the roots show because the person cannot face getting it done every eight weeks. However a black or dark brown dye job will often show white at the scalp. You probably only notice the dye jobs that aren't done often enough.

Not to mention the fact that lots of women intentionally have a shadow root added. I think this post is such obvious ragebait idek why I've bothered commenting tbh

Girlwithavibe · Today 20:55

I actually love rooty blondes 😜

MickyMoonshine · Today 21:22

Girlwithavibe · Today 20:55

I actually love rooty blondes 😜

I let my hair grow out on purpose. I like my roots!

Lilacpheonix · Today 21:45

After reading this op this comic springs to mind...

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