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Which dress for the evening do of a wedding only?

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funksoulbrothers · 10/05/2026 14:26

I’ve been invited to a family member’s wedding reception, evening do only. I don’t think it’s overly formal. Which dress would you wear?

My plan is to wear it with some sandals and a matching bag, so not too dressy.

Which dress for the evening do of a wedding only?
Which dress for the evening do of a wedding only?
Which dress for the evening do of a wedding only?
Which dress for the evening do of a wedding only?
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Comedycook · 10/05/2026 14:27

The polka dot is the nicest imo but best of a bad bunch

funksoulbrothers · 10/05/2026 14:32

Comedycook · 10/05/2026 14:27

The polka dot is the nicest imo but best of a bad bunch

Interested in what’s wrong with them?

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xyz75 · 10/05/2026 14:35

None of them are great to be honest and look suitable for a wedding reception more like brunch and afternoon tea

Sesquipedahlia · 10/05/2026 14:37

They all look depressingly limp.

Is that your favoured style of dress?

Delphiniumandlupins · 10/05/2026 14:37

I would want to see them on you.

funksoulbrothers · 10/05/2026 14:38

xyz75 · 10/05/2026 14:35

None of them are great to be honest and look suitable for a wedding reception more like brunch and afternoon tea

I don’t really know what you’d wear to just the reception? I’m not invited to the ceremony (totally fine lol I’m not really that bothered) or the dinner, so I want to use something I’ll wear again (dresses are all ones I’ve bought with a view to taking them on holiday in the summer), rather than buy something I’ll wear once. What sort of style should I be looking for?!

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funksoulbrothers · 10/05/2026 14:39

Sesquipedahlia · 10/05/2026 14:37

They all look depressingly limp.

Is that your favoured style of dress?

i have the pink polka dot already, it looks really nice on (makes my boobs look amazing 🤣), the others are all on their way. Tbh I do just like a nice little midi, I find them light and floaty

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funksoulbrothers · 10/05/2026 14:55

I know it also sounds awful but I’m not really inclined to spend a huge amount of money on the dress I wear as I’ve not spoken to the couple for ten years! It’s a family wedding but I’ve honestly no idea why I’ve been invited

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Comedycook · 10/05/2026 14:56

funksoulbrothers · 10/05/2026 14:32

Interested in what’s wrong with them?

Previous poster nailed it with the word "limp".

funksoulbrothers · 10/05/2026 14:58

Comedycook · 10/05/2026 14:56

Previous poster nailed it with the word "limp".

I do think that’s just how they’re hanging as they’re Vinted

https://www.nobodyschild.com/products/yellow-puff-sleeve-zola-mini-dress-d250593ylw?_gl=130qvi2_upMQ.._gs*MQ..&gclid=Cj0KCQjw2YDQBhD_ARIsAE1qeSfqAxXkebA8MulTFZ7tSkcgJACeH-7QyJ-TWHMdOhiB9_0i7u6vstwaAm4-EALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds&gbraid=0AAAAADQCJIWQtd_H9VvM1imdGhYgXVCyp

i adore this dress, but i can’t help but think that it’s a lot to then wear again, im not sure that I would!

Butter Yellow Puff Sleeve Zola Midi Dress

Yellow Puff Sleeve Zola Mini Dress

https://www.nobodyschild.com/products/yellow-puff-sleeve-zola-mini-dress-d250593ylw?_gl=1*30qvi2*_up*MQ..*_gs*MQ..&gclid=Cj0KCQjw2YDQBhD_ARIsAE1qeSfqAxXkebA8MulTFZ7tSkcgJACeH-7QyJ-TWHMdOhiB9_0i7u6vstwaAm4-EALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds&gbraid=0AAAAADQCJIWQtd_H9VvM1imdGhYgXVCyp

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Sesquipedahlia · 10/05/2026 14:59

Ah, well I’m the last person you need on your thread! Boobs are never the point of my clothes, and I like pretty much everything I wear to be so weighty it can stand up by itself.

funksoulbrothers · 10/05/2026 14:59

Sesquipedahlia · 10/05/2026 14:59

Ah, well I’m the last person you need on your thread! Boobs are never the point of my clothes, and I like pretty much everything I wear to be so weighty it can stand up by itself.

Ah! I like my boobs to look good (only thing I’ve got going for me to be honest) and definitely prefer a light and floaty dress 😂

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MrsEmmelineLucas · 10/05/2026 15:02

Comedycook · 10/05/2026 14:27

The polka dot is the nicest imo but best of a bad bunch

I agree, the rest are just shapeless.

somanychristmaslights · 10/05/2026 15:02

I think you need to show them to us with you wearing them. Things can look so different on the hanger.

SixLeggedSugarBug · 10/05/2026 15:02

I like the plain orange one best. They are all fine though.

MrsEmmelineLucas · 10/05/2026 15:03

That orange scooped neck one is just awful.

funksoulbrothers · 10/05/2026 15:04

MrsEmmelineLucas · 10/05/2026 15:03

That orange scooped neck one is just awful.

For a wedding or just in general? I think it’ll be lovely for a summers day if nothing else!

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PhaedraTwo · 10/05/2026 15:08

Comedycook · 10/05/2026 14:56

Previous poster nailed it with the word "limp".

Limp is exactly what I thought. They look like examples of the really depressing over worn, over washed can't be arsed ironing it, worst of Vinted.

funksoulbrothers · 10/05/2026 15:11

PhaedraTwo · 10/05/2026 15:08

Limp is exactly what I thought. They look like examples of the really depressing over worn, over washed can't be arsed ironing it, worst of Vinted.

I think that’s a bit harsh

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Idontjetwashthefucker · 10/05/2026 15:11

Nothing special enough there, they are all far too casual IMO and maybe daytime dresses for holidays

PhaedraTwo · 10/05/2026 15:13

funksoulbrothers · 10/05/2026 15:11

I think that’s a bit harsh

Sorry but that's what they look like to me. I wouldn't pay anything for any of them. The pink polka dot is the best of the lot.

The pink polka dot is fine for an evening only reception.

Dublassie · 10/05/2026 15:14

I think they look ‘limp’ off but take on your shape when you wear them . I’d say they are lovely and very suitable for an ‘ afters ‘ !

funksoulbrothers · 10/05/2026 15:15

I do like this, but I worry that satin will be a little too much to wear everyday on holiday?

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Topbird29 · 10/05/2026 15:15

I'll be positive- I like the pink polka dot one.

funksoulbrothers · 10/05/2026 15:16

Topbird29 · 10/05/2026 15:15

I'll be positive- I like the pink polka dot one.

This one has become probably the favourite thing I own, it’s gorgeous! It’s a really nice fabric too, not too heavy but also not too thin

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