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Dress me for my 50th please

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Grtscott · 01/05/2026 08:37

I'm looking for an amazing outfit for my 50th birthday in July. My theme is sparkles and glitter, so the outfit needs to be sparkly and glittery.

Can you help please?

I won't be happy with full on sequinned outfit. I want something that will shimmer and shine.

I'm so unstylish I have no idea what body shape I am. I've recently lost weight, so there's some saggy skin on my thighs and upper arms.

I like my shoulders and upper chest on show.
My waist has recently been refound.
I've always had an overhanging belly
My new runners calves are looking alright.
I love bright colours.

Size 10/12

Budget up to £100, although I'd be quite happy on vinted.

Hit me with your best options.

TIA

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Parkerpenny · 01/05/2026 16:15

July it could be hot!

Catlover1705 · 01/05/2026 16:43

This one.

Dress me for my 50th please
Catlover1705 · 01/05/2026 16:56

Prefer this one

Dress me for my 50th please
EleanorMc67 · 01/05/2026 18:51

Well, it doesn't show your legs or calves - but it's certainly shimmery! Quite a bit over budget even in the sale though.

https://www.phase-eight.com/product/ellia-shimmer-dress-100121400014.html

Ellia Shimmer Dress | Phase Eight UK |

Ellia Shimmer Dress

https://www.phase-eight.com/product/ellia-shimmer-dress-100121400014.html

SoSadSoSadSoSad · 01/05/2026 19:18

my word. That is hideous.

EleanorMc67 · 01/05/2026 19:23

Grtscott · 01/05/2026 08:37

I'm looking for an amazing outfit for my 50th birthday in July. My theme is sparkles and glitter, so the outfit needs to be sparkly and glittery.

Can you help please?

I won't be happy with full on sequinned outfit. I want something that will shimmer and shine.

I'm so unstylish I have no idea what body shape I am. I've recently lost weight, so there's some saggy skin on my thighs and upper arms.

I like my shoulders and upper chest on show.
My waist has recently been refound.
I've always had an overhanging belly
My new runners calves are looking alright.
I love bright colours.

Size 10/12

Budget up to £100, although I'd be quite happy on vinted.

Hit me with your best options.

TIA

What height are you OP, & what's your colouring?

Looking through the points you made about what you like, & about your figure, I wasn't quite sure what length or shape of outfit you wanted - apart from it being shimmery & bright?!

So you'd prefer to cover your upper arms - but do you also want to show off your chest AND shoulders? As that's tricky to find (as it would need to be an off-the-shoulder dress with some sort of short sleeve too??). Just showing off some chest is much easier.

Do you want something that's very fit & flare to both show off your waist & skim over your tummy? Or are you happy to wear something a bit more fitted, with control underwear if necessary?

Finally (!!), do you want to show off your lower legs, ie you want something just above or below your knee? And is that as well as showing off your shoulders &/or chest, or instead of?!!!! Or are you happy with midi, midaxi or maxi?

EleanorMc67 · 01/05/2026 19:30

SoSadSoSadSoSad · 01/05/2026 19:18

my word. That is hideous.

It's not to everyone's taste, but it looks much better in movement (in the video) & the colour is fabulous with the model's hair.

Neurodiversitydoctor · 01/05/2026 19:34

I think this os lovely
You might like this at John Lewis:
www.johnlewis.com/phase-eight-sierra-sequin-maxi-dress-black-multi/p109860060?s_share=jlappdroid

EleanorMc67 · 01/05/2026 19:36

I rather like this - great colour. You could channel your inner Joan Crawford in Dynasty!! Says it's mid calf.

https://ebay.us/m/jcYsGs

Dress me for my 50th please
Overtheatlantic · 01/05/2026 19:39

EleanorMc67 · 01/05/2026 19:01

Quite sparkly, over budget though. And only one shoulder on show!!!

https://kitristudio.com/products/esme-star-lurex-one-shoulder-knit-dress

Edited

I love this! 🥰

EleanorMc67 · 01/05/2026 19:48

Overtheatlantic · 01/05/2026 19:39

I love this! 🥰

It's fab, isn't it? But then anything that says 70s disco to me, I'm there ...!!!

Grtscott · 01/05/2026 22:23

Thank you so much to you all ladies for the time taken for your suggestions, but none of them are me.

V necks look rubbish on me as do square necklines.

I'm going to be dancing lots, so maxi lengths are out. No way do I feel confident enough to wear a mid thigh length either.

I honestly don't know what I want @EleanorMc67 . I just know what I don't like and I go from there. Not super tight on the tummy, as it emphasises the overhang, but not so loose that I look like a sack. I'm 5'4", olive skin, blonde highlights covering up the grey in my black hair.

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Grtscott · 01/05/2026 22:37

EleanorMc67 · 01/05/2026 19:30

It's not to everyone's taste, but it looks much better in movement (in the video) & the colour is fabulous with the model's hair.

The poor woman's feet are so cut up at the back from those kitten heels 😔

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Fingeronthebutton · 01/05/2026 22:40

SoSadSoSadSoSad · 01/05/2026 19:18

my word. That is hideous.

I thought it was a joke 😂
I can’t quite put my finger on what it looks like.

bittertwisted · 01/05/2026 23:55

This is absolutely hideous
looks like something Fergie would have worn in the eighties
how on earth does it not even come close to fitting

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