Is this too casual for a wedding?

[Jillwiththefrill]

Attending a spring wedding and trying to get sorted rather than leaving too late like I usually do.

Me - 40, Mum of 2 under 5 (who will be present and DH is best man so I need to be wearing something I can "run around" in while he's on duty, size 12/14, 5"2, wide at the hips, small waste, ugly legs.

The wedding venue is a big garden space (with inside area) so it's basically flowers and greenery everywhere.

Would this dress be suitable, or is it too plain? I could possibly wear this on other occasions and the price tag is just right.

Everything I'm finding that I like is over £100, which just isn't in my budget unfortunately, not for something I'll get little wear out of.

I'd welcome other suggestions if there's something else you think would be better.

(please don't suggest Vinted. I've given up trying to buy anything other than kids stuff on Vinted due to the wardrobe full of clothing that doesn't fit and now needs to be re-sold).

https://www.nobodyschild.com/products/willow-midi-dress-2614657001?variant=55134018470273&utm_source=paid_social&utm_medium=Facebook_Desktop_Feed&utm_campaign=Nobody%27s+Child_UK_RT_ASC_DPAs+Confect+BAU+%3A+17.02.26_FPA_FBM%2BIGM_All_All_Viewed+Similar+Products&utm_content=Nobody%27s+Child_UK_PG_ASC_DPAs+Confect+Frames+%28Confect+Test%29+%3A+19.01.26_FPA_FBM%2BIGM_All_All_Viewed+Similar+Products+1+Image+BAU+%2B+Logo_Product-BAU+Frame-PG+Copy_MCA&utm_id=120239780098900510&utm_term=120239780098970510&fbclid=IwY2xjawQLmj1leHRuA2FlbQEwAGFkaWQBqy2LeXf7nmJyaWQRMGZNZVFXTnRJZ3I1QjA0cENzcnRjBmFwcF9pZBAyMjIwMzkxNzg4MjAwODkyAAEeN9vJ-HbhwgddkEAsK0QUJuPDsaXPSgl-oTOBT-ngtMRKrtlHTvySfsmKVvI_aem_r2Gqtg6nxbKnsQT592T6ng

I'm not usually a Phase 8 fan but I really liked the retro but contemporary look of this dress - another green one, OP!!

https://www.phase-eight.com/product/bella-floral-midi-dress-100115569312.html

I don't know the brand but maybe this?

https://www.johnlewis.com/raishma-darcie-floral-maxi-dress/green/p111671695

This is very pretty too.

https://www.otrium.co.uk/product/jem-meadow-midi-dress-multicolor

Oops - only left in 8 & 10 - sorry, didn't notice that at first!

Polyester, as seems to be the norm (but it's a pretty style &, like the other dresses I just posted, is maybe more in line with your own preferences OP than my first two posts).

https://www.next.co.uk/style/su824165/h88497

I quite like the one you posted OP, it suits the setting you’ve described. I would add some nice jewellery and a little bag and definitely a different style of shoe. A nice wedge sandal or sling-back with a pointy toe and kitten heel. Also hair up if it’s long enough to show off the back and shoulders.

A bit over budget, but a petite fit maxi (well, above ankle). The kind of fit I'd possibly size up in - & definitely wear big suck-it-all-in knickers under!

https://www.johnlewis.com/ro-zo-petite-belle-short-sleeve-maxi-dress-green/p114464337

As you liked another Love & Roses dress, OP, what about this one?

https://www.next.co.uk/style/su894624/y26975

Not my own type of thing, but I actually think this looks great on the model! Too much, I'm going to be told ...

https://www.otrium.co.uk/product/dr-meerim-multi

Also slightly over budget but one left in your size, OP.

https://www.otrium.co.uk/product/hermia-v-midi-dress-green

The first green one is gorgeous. If it fits you will be more than fine. Gold accessories would look lovely with it. Ankle length great too. I am 5’2 and think I might order one for a graduation in the summer!

These are better

A last (green) one ... Hope you find something lovely, @Jillwiththefrill !!!

https://www.ghost.co.uk/georgia-tiered-floral-midi-dress-d10g038-z78

If you don't mind a shorter midi, check out Dolly and Dotty on Vinted. Too expensive new, but they make lovely fit and flare dresses in a variety of fabrics, and one of my favourites that I have is green polkadot. I'm a couple of inches taller than you and mine fall just below the knee.

Some people like to buy dresses they don't just wear once for a wedding. Plus the ones you posted are rather too dark, fussy and less suitable for the occasion and circumstances the OP describes.

I think it's lovely, and much prefer the green to the pink.

It is lovely OP, if it fits and suits you that is the one. Not too casual. I don't think you bring married to one of the wedding party means you have to be trussed up on satin.

Your choice is fresh and classy. Makes me think of Four Weddings and a Funeral (it is a bit 90s, in a good way!)

I am short and an odd shape so have an alternative view. I struggle with dresses and go for separates at weddings instead. Just a thought!

www.debenhams.com/product/yumi-mesh-tulle-skirt_p-b0b36c2c-b350-41a3-ae9a-8432e5727b6b?colour=Green&size=10&srsltid=AfmBOorW6X92sVJDm8U-mlVEsHh_rlhC2KXUBf9bdB8FHA57hg4Q3NTv084

Perhaps you could provide a source that is not that entity, @Glycolic?

I love it in the green. Think it's absolutely fine for a wedding - lots of options for 'dressing it up' a bit more if needed with accessories and maybe a cropped jacket. But equally could be worn more casually with sandals and simpler jewellery for a more relaxed occasion.

I think your original post and choice is a great option for the setting you described and for running around after DC….

you would also be able to wear it for casual lunches or days out etc post wedding so it wouldn’t need to be a one off….

Don’t be driven by “wedding” style - your own style and comfort matter more.

I think it will be perfect. Love love green. Enjoy the wedding.

Sorry I don’t understand?

It’s a work dress or holiday dress. You will blend into the background. Ok if that’s what you want and you see your mum role above your guest role.

@EleanorMc67 you've found some stunning dresses! Sadly I have no weddings in my diary at the moment....