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Is this OK for DS's wedding?

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SirChenjins · 08/02/2026 18:20

It's a city registry office wedding for close family and friends in summer followed by a party for the wide extended family and friends in the evening. Emphasis is on casual and relaxed. I'm 57, five foot 1, size 12 on top, 14 on the bottom, blond hair and hazel eyes. I really like this, with possibly navy heels (not too high) and maybe a fuchsia bag - not hat/fascinator, might do a nice hair clip and low messy bun. What do you think? Also open to suggestions 😊 (but must take account of my lack of inches and nothing above the knee or light blue colour) https://www.hobbs.com/product/petite-tess-shirt-dress/0126-5997-1185L04-MIDNIGHT-NAVY.html

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Lakeyloo · 09/02/2026 14:16

It's beautiful ! I would go for nude/pale dusky pink bag and shoes. The nude colours will make your legs look longer.

SirChenjins · 09/02/2026 14:33

Thanks everyone 😊 I'm so pleased it's met with approval, I know you're all very honest on here and would tell me if it was an awful choice!

Lots to think about re bag and shoes. I love bright colours so I was leaning towards fuchsia and orange, but green and lighter blue would certainly also work. Gold is definitely a thought for the handbag - and maybe carry that through to a hair clip or comb thing for my bun? Would gold, navy and nude/pale dusky pink shoes work, or would I be better going for navy shoes if I have a gold bag?

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staringatthesun · 09/02/2026 14:36

Gorgeous dress, wish one of my kids would get married so that I had a reason to buy and wear it!

Coffeeishot · 09/02/2026 14:45

SirChenjins · 09/02/2026 14:33

Thanks everyone 😊 I'm so pleased it's met with approval, I know you're all very honest on here and would tell me if it was an awful choice!

Lots to think about re bag and shoes. I love bright colours so I was leaning towards fuchsia and orange, but green and lighter blue would certainly also work. Gold is definitely a thought for the handbag - and maybe carry that through to a hair clip or comb thing for my bun? Would gold, navy and nude/pale dusky pink shoes work, or would I be better going for navy shoes if I have a gold bag?

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For my eldests wedding i has kirby grips with little flowers on in my hair it was in a low bun, maybe something you might like?

SirChenjins · 09/02/2026 15:17

@Lakeyloo love that combo! Does it tell you where the bag, earrings and shoes are from?

@Coffeeishot small flowers in a low bun sound lovely - don't suppose you have a photo or link to an image?

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Lakeyloo · 09/02/2026 15:41

SirChenjins · 09/02/2026 15:17

@Lakeyloo love that combo! Does it tell you where the bag, earrings and shoes are from?

@Coffeeishot small flowers in a low bun sound lovely - don't suppose you have a photo or link to an image?

@SirChenjins it doesn't unfortunately... a quick image search says the bag is Miu Miu so probably ££££ !

Coffeeishot · 09/02/2026 15:56

@SirChenjins oh i haven"t got a photo of the back of my hair, i bought the pins from etsy if thats any help.

Coffeeishot · 09/02/2026 16:00

It looked like this but my pins were small flowers but same size and placement.

Coffeeishot · 09/02/2026 16:01

Sorry

Is this OK for DS's wedding?
SirChenjins · 09/02/2026 18:02

Just my luck!! I'll keep an eye open for something similar, they are all lovely.

@Coffeeishot did you have real flowers? And if so - daft question - did the florist doing the other flowers make the hairpins for you?

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Coffeeishot · 09/02/2026 18:18

Oh no they were enamel sorry i wasn't clear.

Coffeeishot · 09/02/2026 18:21

Oh are you meaning flowers to wear ?

itsgettingweird · 09/02/2026 18:26

Perfect.

i wore a similar style navy dress to my brothers wedding with a light pink blazer and accessories and so I agree Pink or fushia will go well. I also wore navy sandels.

Trainup · 09/02/2026 18:27

its a lovely dress but you could easily ruin the look with the wrong shoes! What are you thinking?

SirChenjins · 09/02/2026 18:27

Coffeeishot · 09/02/2026 18:18

Oh no they were enamel sorry i wasn't clear.

Ahh sorry - I misunderstood. Yes, I was wondering about having some real flowers. Were your flowers for your hair enamel?

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Trainup · 09/02/2026 18:28

I mean that as in ‘what shoes are you thinking?’ rather than ‘what the hell are you thinking?’ 😆

gototogo · 09/02/2026 18:28

It’s lovely, perfect. I wore a Hobbs dress for DD’s wedding

SirChenjins · 09/02/2026 18:29

Trainup · 09/02/2026 18:27

its a lovely dress but you could easily ruin the look with the wrong shoes! What are you thinking?

Either navy or nude, thanks to the suggestions on here. Can't be too high, and nothing open toed - I need to be able to walk over cobblestones

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Applecharlotte2 · 09/02/2026 18:30

It’s lovely and very fitting

66babe · 09/02/2026 18:35

Beautiful dress

OneOfEachPlease · 09/02/2026 18:37

I think it’s ideal! And I would also go with navy shoes and use the bag to accessorise. I think that matching shoes and bags is a bit tacky.

Coffeeishot · 09/02/2026 18:40

SirChenjins · 09/02/2026 18:27

Ahh sorry - I misunderstood. Yes, I was wondering about having some real flowers. Were your flowers for your hair enamel?

Yes my pins were enamel.a florist could make you something.

JoWilkinsonsno1fan · 09/02/2026 18:43

Its absolutely gorgeous OP!!

Applecharlotte2 · 09/02/2026 18:46

I wouldn’t put flowers in hair - the dress is quite patterned so that’s enough - maybe some good earrings?

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