The absolute nerve of society demanding we are thin, ageless and spend our money on staying young and slim as possible really is the worst. The bloody audacity of some business man making money from insecurity. Well fuck him, he's no longer getting it from us!
I've had enough of not enjoying my life to its fullest because I'm a size 20. I'm fat. But I'm fun. I'm really quite nice. I'm so many other things than being overweight.
I deserve to enjoy my clothes and experiences now as much as I did when I was slim. And the only thing stopping me is an unrealistic standard society has set to profit from my insecurity and I'm too stubborn to give in anymore.
Women have so much stress, so many of us are overweight because it's cheaper/ quicker to eat things that haven't taken hours of cooking. So many of us are taking antidepressants which make us hungrier than we used to be. We smoke less. We've gotten bigger as a whole and the circle of feeling miserable/guilt/shame about being fat makes it more likely we'll turn to food for comfort, so we have to accept were bigger, we will do all we can to keep active and be mindful of what we're eating without obsessing but most importantly we stop putting happiness and joy on hold until we fit back into a pair of jeans you had in your 20s.
We're conditioned to hate ourselves. Look at the amount of stunning slim young women all spending money on botox and ozempic when they should be out having a riot, enjoying travel and parties but instead spending all their time trying to look like the kardashian prototype. It's so sad and we're almost all doing it, no matter how lovely we are, most women are being crushed by looking a way that it's almost impossible to obtain naturally.
I say fuck it, if someone has any issues with how I look then so what? I wasn't planning to shag them anyway! 😁