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What would you wear age 43, size 22, for a night out dancing?

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namechange0998776554799000 · 14/04/2024 12:56

As the title says really! I prefer dresses, knee length, short sleeves, budget ideally under £100 but would go over for the right dress. Any colour but prefer black/blue/green/patterned, not keen on white/cream/yellow/orange. I've been looking on Next, M&S, John Lewis, Yours & Simply Be but nothing's quite right. It's a fun night out so I don't want a wedding outfit look, but need something that flattering on me (not too tight, short etc). Any suggestions?

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MrsMoiraRose · 14/04/2024 13:11

I would probably wear a jumpsuit. I love them as don't have to think too hard - it's just one item!

I'm not a dress type of person though.

MrsMoiraRose · 14/04/2024 13:11

PS: I'm 40 and an 18/20

namechange0998776554799000 · 14/04/2024 13:29

Thanks but I've tried jumpsuits and they don't suit my figure (very short and round!)

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Fannyfiggs · 14/04/2024 13:38

What about a lovely, bright red/orange shift dress?

https://app.simplybe.co.uk/shop/OW395/product/details/show.action

What would you wear age 43, size 22, for a night out dancing?
Fannyfiggs · 14/04/2024 13:39

Ooops just read you're not keen on orange.

stayathomer · 14/04/2024 13:40

Size 14 and 43 and have found black trousers a top and cardigan (and tiny comfy heels lol) is now my staple for a night out

CaputDraconis · 14/04/2024 13:50

Have a look on https://www.scarlettandjo.com/

Some nice dresses you can style for a night out. It will be your choice of bag/shoes/accessories that will make it more night out than wedding

Scarlett & Jo

Plus Size Clothing | Plus Size Fashion | Curve | Scarlett & Jo

A multitude of fashionable plus size dresses at Scarlett & Jo

https://www.scarlettandjo.com

namechange0998776554799000 · 14/04/2024 13:53

Fannyfiggs · 14/04/2024 13:38

What about a lovely, bright red/orange shift dress?

https://app.simplybe.co.uk/shop/OW395/product/details/show.action

Yes orange isn't my colour and I'd prefer short sleeves but thank you anyway!

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stayathomer · 14/04/2024 13:40

Size 14 and 43 and have found black trousers a top and cardigan (and tiny comfy heels lol) is now my staple for a night out

I love dresses for dancing in but I'm finding it so hard to find one I have been considering this!

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namechange0998776554799000 · 14/04/2024 13:55

CaputDraconis · 14/04/2024 13:50

Have a look on https://www.scarlettandjo.com/

Some nice dresses you can style for a night out. It will be your choice of bag/shoes/accessories that will make it more night out than wedding

Thank you, I love this brand. Had seen a few on Next and John Lewis but didn't think to check their own website! They look really flattering, I just need to find one that isn't too long on me

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Plantymcplantface · 14/04/2024 14:02

I’m the same dress size as you and a couple of years older. How about

asos curve silky sleeve black dress with some amazing boots

asos curve curves sexy sleeveless green dress
With nude heels

love this - asos curve balloon sleeves v neck midi in soft olive dress

or

Live unlimited navy asymmetric hem modern dress could easily be dressed up with a leather jacket and jewellery

or this from Live unlimited looks lovely in the black and again can be dressed up with heels and jewellery black sleeveless floaty dress

i think simple shapes with amazing accessories are the way to go!

ASOS DESIGN Curve exclusive satin flutter sleeve midi dress in black | ASOS

Shop ASOS DESIGN Curve exclusive satin flutter sleeve midi dress in black at ASOS. Order now with multiple payment and delivery options, including free and unlimited next day delivery (Ts&Cs apply).

https://www.asos.com/asos-curve/asos-design-curve-exclusive-satin-flutter-sleeve-midi-dress-in-black/prd/204247922?affid=28618&_CjwKCAjw_e2wBhAEEiwAyFFFo8LxDe57FW4G9OW3OT_FkXh8lN_NWLUgQne-7O9e7ZL8OiMhJ3NJnxoCOGgQAvD_BwE&channelref=product+search&ppcadref=21095812988%7C%7C&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADqFjOD0IZ9OluO-9JdyC0czeY4st&gclid=CjwKCAjw_e2wBhAEEiwAyFFFo8LxDe57FW4G9OW3OT_FkXh8lN_NWLUgQne-7O9e7ZL8OiMhJ3NJnxoCOGgQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

OnHerSolidFoundations · 14/04/2024 14:06

This green dress is fun:

www.boden.co.uk/en-gb/georgina-pom-ruffle-dress/sty-d1002

OnHerSolidFoundations · 14/04/2024 14:08

60's vibe?

www.regatta.com/orla-kiely-summer-sleeveless-dress-green-sixties-daisy/

OnHerSolidFoundations · 14/04/2024 14:12

Ooo love the green!

scampanddude.com/products/green-sequin-short-dress-with-puff-sleeves-and-v-shaped-back

NCfor24 · 14/04/2024 14:13

I like stuff from here....like this jumpsuit..model may be similar size to you and looks fab
https://www.closetofstyle.co.uk/products/pleated-jumpsuit

They are "one size fits all styles" and very comfy, stretchy and loose but can be belted in. And bargain price so fine for one/very occasional wear! Go glam with earrings and heels.

Pleated Jumpsuit

Onesize 18-22 Batwing sleeve Elasticated band Deep V front and back Tie back detail Ankle grazer Wide leg 50% polyester  45% viscoe  5% elastane 

https://www.closetofstyle.co.uk/products/pleated-jumpsuit

fluffiphlox · 14/04/2024 14:13

I’m a larger person - I wouldn’t touch those Scarlett and Jo dresses with a barge pole and I’m ancient. So frumpy.

namechange0998776554799000 · 14/04/2024 14:25

Plantymcplantface · 14/04/2024 14:02

I’m the same dress size as you and a couple of years older. How about

asos curve silky sleeve black dress with some amazing boots

asos curve curves sexy sleeveless green dress
With nude heels

love this - asos curve balloon sleeves v neck midi in soft olive dress

or

Live unlimited navy asymmetric hem modern dress could easily be dressed up with a leather jacket and jewellery

or this from Live unlimited looks lovely in the black and again can be dressed up with heels and jewellery black sleeveless floaty dress

i think simple shapes with amazing accessories are the way to go!

Some great ones here! None perfect/in stock in my size, but two new sites to browse that I hadn't thought of, thank you!

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OnHerSolidFoundations · 14/04/2024 14:12

Oh yes, love this!

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namechange0998776554799000 · 14/04/2024 14:29

Ooh I didn't know New Look did plus size, another site to browse!

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namechange0998776554799000 · 14/04/2024 14:30

fluffiphlox · 14/04/2024 14:13

I’m a larger person - I wouldn’t touch those Scarlett and Jo dresses with a barge pole and I’m ancient. So frumpy.

I have a feeling they'd be very comfy and flattering to dance in, but I do feel they're a bit more wedding than fun night out

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