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Dress for wedding guest who hates dresses

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nicericey · 16/05/2023 19:19

I hate wearing dresses. I live in the same joggers and my work trousers and the same comfy t-shirts and shirts.

I have a posh wedding to go to. I need something nice to wear please help! I am size 14/16. I don't want anything that is tight- it can't be tight around my bum, my boobs or my tummy. It has to be nice fabric preferably cotton absolutely no static. I can just about cope with a tie around my waist. I must be able to go to the toilet easily. And wear a bra with straps. I need to be able to wear it with my boots or close toe shoes. Bonus points if it's long enough for me to wear without tights - I can tolerate them for the service and photos but that's about it.

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nicericey · 16/05/2023 19:20

I own one dress - a tshirt dress by fat face but its not long enough and I can't really wear it for a wedding I wear that on really hot days.

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BuffyTheCat · 16/05/2023 19:23

Can you wear a trouser suit? Or does it have to be a dress?

UpendedPineapple · 16/05/2023 19:25

Maxi dress?

AnImaginaryCat · 16/05/2023 19:25

Had the same question. Why not a trouser suit?

There's some really lovely ones. What's your budget?

Kokopenny · 16/05/2023 19:26

Jumpsuit

Pamspeople · 16/05/2023 19:26

Why do you have to wear a dress? If you hate dresses get a lovely trousery outfit. You don't want to go dressed as someone else! Go as you, just a weddingy version of you

Precipice · 16/05/2023 19:28

Smart trousers and a smart top/shirt. Wear a blazer that matches or complements the trousers, if it's not for the summer.

No need to suffer.

crabbyoldbat · 16/05/2023 19:29

Jumpsuit is too awkward - plenty of nice linen or cotten 2-part trouser outfit

Bemoreme21 · 16/05/2023 19:30

This is lovely with a navy blazer

https://www.marksandspencer.com/pure-cotton-printed-v-neck-midaxi-dress/p/clp60595025?color=WHITEMIX#intid=carouselFUNHHATPHOENIX-SIMILARRENDPDPP162:fb4f8881-b925-47a8-8329-e7e010ae01dc

Atishoos · 16/05/2023 19:38

Silky chiffon shift dress, or low crease linen shift dress Italian style. I have a few that are below the knee but neither short nor long, just right length for me. Something like this for you maybe?

Oh and when leg covering is needed I wear good quality hold ups. They are the business. Well for me anyway.

Pure Silk Printed Midi Shift Dress | Autograph | M&S (marksandspencer.com)

Pure Silk Printed Midi Shift Dress | Autograph | M&S

Crafted from luxurious pure silk, this printed shift dress from our Autograph collection embodies elegance. Its airy sleeveless design is cut in a comfy regular fit, with a high neck that fastens neatly at the back with a zip. The waist has a smart det...

https://www.marksandspencer.com/pure-silk-printed-midi-shift-dress/p/clp60593510#intid=pid_pg1pip48g4r7c2

nicericey · 16/05/2023 19:41

BuffyTheCat · 16/05/2023 19:23

Can you wear a trouser suit? Or does it have to be a dress?

I could wear a trousers suit but I'm a bit funny about trousers and only wear my joggers or my work trousers. If there is a trousers suit that has a stretchy comfy waist that would be an option.

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nicericey · 16/05/2023 19:42

budget is £150 -£200. Its not until September.* *

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Klex · 16/05/2023 19:43

Duns of Sweden do wrap dresses that are nice, and organic cotton. I wear mine with chin rub shorts from Snag tights as it make me feel less exposed.

nicericey · 16/05/2023 19:43

Bemoreme21 · 16/05/2023 19:30

That looks good - do you think it looks weddingy enough? We are talking posh wedding here. Church, very well to do and connected family (not me).

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VaddaABeetch · 16/05/2023 19:44

You’ll get something in the sales? I’d wait. jigsaw have some lovely dresses that will be half price by July.

nicericey · 16/05/2023 19:44

This one says page not found for me sorry

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nicericey · 16/05/2023 19:45

BuffyTheCat · 16/05/2023 19:38

Maybe this
https://www.monsoon.co.uk/flavia-feather-print-midi-dress-red-54010209.html

or this
https://www.monsoon.co.uk/leni-animal-print-maxi-dress-natural-34715862.html

I’m not sure I love either of them, but they seem to be cotton and not tight.

Red one might work.

Thank you so much everyone I am a bit of an awkward customer!

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nicericey · 16/05/2023 19:46

Ooh gosh you are clever! That's very nice. Do you think it would look silly with a fascinator?

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OhBeAFineGuyKissMe · 16/05/2023 20:05

nicericey · 16/05/2023 19:46

Ooh gosh you are clever! That's very nice. Do you think it would look silly with a fascinator?

Think it would look very good with a fascinator.

RockGirl · 16/05/2023 20:09

That Hobbs suit is lovely.

KILM · 16/05/2023 20:12

Dancing Leopard do a great shirt dress that's basically maxi length that would look great with some funky or glam earrings!