Honest opinions needed on my bridesmaid dress- but be nice please.

[suwoo]

OK, I am chief bridesmaid for best friend at big castle wedding in June. Her dress is big and fabulous. The other bridesmaid is approaching 6 foot and is less curvy than I. I am 5 foot 5 with tits and an arse. This is the dress that the other bridesmaid and bride prefer. The bride would never let me wear something I hated but time is of the essence and it is not easy to get together again and re-choose. I have a habit of being petulant and rebelling if I haven't made the choice myself and may be doing that in this instance like a sulky teenager. The dress pictured is a Dessy one (no 2043) and is sampled in blue, but the actual dress will be in chocolate brown. Do I look as horrendous in it as I do in my own head? Obviously it needs altering, but I think my hips look huge!! and yes, I have my magic knickers on already, but I don't think I was wearing heels. Pics on profile.

you need to make your profile public

Have you all looked at me wearing it though- in my profile pics. Thanks.

still can't see you rpics - have you set the profile so everyone can see it?

Why can't I see op's profile.....
.....anyone?

Still can't see your profile pics (although am dying too ).

No-one can see your profile.

its a bit 70s nightclub imo

i'd go with the same colour/style that suits you option

july is ages, fret not

suwoo no one can see your profile

amke it public

can't see profile. mrs B's link looks bias cut which is NOT good with tits/ass

aaah, right.

suwoo - can't see your profile - whcih style?

Now???????

oh cripes, it's stretch satin

um

Have looked at the link and doesn't look good.

(did notice you could change the colour it is in on there)

Certainly not hideous, looks nice but not fab I'd say.
Oh, and you're not at all big and your children are beauties, btw!

Its charmeuse dontcha know.

Jeez! When you said you had tits and arse, I thought you REALLY had tits and arse. You're a skinny minny!!!

The dress looks good on you. Honestly. Although the blue probably suits you better than the brown would.

I really want to know what you think I look like in the dress, not the actual dress and yes I know I can make it brown on the Dessy website. In a nutshell do I look a twat?

not the most beautiful dress but you are not the way you described yourself and you have nice shoulders to balance everything out. i am with mrs badger on the stretch satin horror.

Why can't I see it?

STILL can't see the profile...