I'm in danger of outing myself here but I've been lurking so I'll stick my head above the parapet here...
Some years ago I landed a job with a charity. Camilla had recently become heavily involved with this charity. At the time C&C were a couple, they'd made their first public appearance but they weren't yet married.
Although I was going to maintain professionalism privately as it hadn't been many years since the death of Diana I was firmly pro Diana and anti Camilla.
As it happened I worked directly with Camilla a few times, as I said she was heavily involved with the charity and wanted to have input.
In person I found her to be lovely. Funny, charming, clever, interesting, she didn't dismiss anyone or their ideas, she was thoughtful and kind too. Try as I might I have nothing but positive things to say about her.
Whilst I still feel discomfort at the treatment Diana received I think any blame lies with Charles and the rest of the RF.
That aside, I do think that as time has gone on and more facts about the marriage of C & D have emerged I don't think it's a simple case of one person doing one wrong thing, IMO it was a collective screw up.
If you asked me now whether I consider myself to be 'team Diana' or 'team Camilla' my answer would have to be both, I'm afraid. It's easy to demonise one or the other, the press have revelled in doing this for years but the truth is a far more complex story IMO.